Which is more interesting - telephonic conversation or face-to-face conversation  |
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Hi friends, it is true that in today’s face paced world, it is not possible for us to see many of our near and dear ones and we get in touch with them through telephone. We resort to our cell phones, landline phones and Internet to talk to our near and dear ones, as and when possible. We can only hear one’s voice if it is an audio call (I have excluded video calls from the preview of my discussion). We just cannot see the person in an audio call and cannot decipher his/her emotions when we are talking to him/her. S/he may be upset with us but s/he may camouflage his/her real feeling through modulation in his/her voice. S/he may be conveying us some greetings with a fake smile, but we just cannot guess the same by his/her voice. However, when one is face to face with each other, it is easy to understand other’s real emotions, as one normally cannot hide his/her real feelings, which surface on his/her face. His/her gestures also reveal, how intensely s/he is involved in the conversation. One can also make out, through his/her gestures, whether s/he is actually listening to us or just pretending the same. So friends, what is your opinion about telephonic conversation vis-à-vis versus face-to-face conversation?
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1. munchiez117 (164) | 3 weeks ago | it is better to see them face to face that way like you said can tell how they feeling by the way thry show their expressions and stuff, but if you cant get that a call is still good but i wold prefer face to face
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | You are very right dear face-to-face conversation gives you a clear opportunity to see the gestures and moments of other fellow and you can guess who intently s/he is talking to you. Thanks for being the first one to respond and you appear to be a new comer, therefore, welcome to my lot family.
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2. hmkoct5 (944) | 3 weeks ago | I really prefer to talk face-to-face. I don't like talking on the phone at all. I will do it if I have to, but I would much rather talk to someone in person. I like to see the expression on people's faces.
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | You appear practical and it is good that you prefer face-to-face talk, talking to someone on phone loses many elements of real talk. Thanks for joining and sharing your opinion.
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3. chaitra001 (596) | 3 weeks ago | Hi Deepak.. According to me face to face Conversation is more interesting.. as you said we can see the emotions of the person to whom we are speaking.. but in a phone we cant see the true emotions.. some of them might be simply saying good things to us but their expression may be opposite to what they are saying.. but when our near and dear ones are very far from us then we must depend on the phone to keep in touch with them..
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chaitra001 (596) | 3 weeks ago | Congrats.. this discussion is listed in MylotDigest Today..
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | Thanks! Chaitra! I did not know about it, till I saw your comment.
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chaitra001 (596) | 3 weeks ago | ok.. did you saw it after my comment in the Digest? Hope you are happy now.. I was not seeing Digest before.. it is our dear friend Sreekala who motivated me to look into mylot Digest Daily.. I should thank her first..
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | I saw the digest alert, after reading your comments, I did not know about it till I read your comments. Yes, Sree is very right 'mylot digest' sometimes help us to respond to some very interesting posts. I also take a look at it, whenever possible.
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4. sweetie1026 (1065) | 3 weeks ago | Yes, i prefer face to face conversation than audio or phone calls. Talking face to face although you are far apart can make a big difference. Yes, you can see the person's emotions thru her facial expressions. I am a person who have this habit of making eye contact with the one i am talking to. it is a better way of getting to know each other and in that way you can be assured that you are talking to a real person.
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sweetie1026 (1065) | 3 weeks ago | Thank you, my friend. I really enjoy joining in friends' discussions.
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sweetie1026 (1065) | 3 weeks ago | It is so nice of you as well.
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5. Sreekala (1667) | 3 weeks ago | Hi deepak,
I can’t agree with you this time. I can’t greet a person with a fake smile and if I don’t like to convey my greetings then I will prefer ‘not to call’. If I am doing something, I really meant it. If am angry on a particular friend I won’t keep contact and if the friend calls me I can’t talk friendly with her. I will reply only on her questions. In other words the caller can easily understand my emotions towards her.
But the mobile phone is giving a facility to make the caller a fool. I heard that many people are lying they are in ‘some’ place but the exactly they won’t be there but in some other places. May be people are there from my point of view I can’t agree with you.
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | Hi Sree! There is not any question in the discussion, where you should agree or disagree with me. My question was clear, which of two you prefer. I did not say that all who talk on telephone fake their smile or anger. I know you are very very honest and you would talk on phone as you do in your real life, when you are face-to-face with someone. However, if you are really angry with someone and s/he is right in front of you, s/he can assess your degree of anger and react accordingly. However, while in a telephonic conversation, this aspect goes missing. About telling the actual position of a person, you are very right, many a times, people give false impression that they are at such and such place and the actually they are not. Many thanks for joining, sharing your bold views and many thanks for posting comments on 'I am perplexed'. 
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Sreekala (1667) | 3 weeks ago | Deepak,
I am disagreeing on this line of yours, 'S/he may be conveying us some greetings with a fake smile, but we just cannot guess the same by his/her voice'.
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | I just mentioned a scenario, I did not want to say that everyone gives fake smile (I just wanted to say even if someone is giving you the impression that s/he is happy to hear you, you cannot actually guess about his genuineness because you cannot see him/her). If someone is talking to her/his beloved, s/he would surely talk with all the passions and real emotions, even on telephone.
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6. vandana7 (1386) | 3 weeks ago | Hi Deepak, that is not true! Even in telephonic conversation, u can get the real expression if u r attentive and sensitive enough. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. U can make out artificial modulation from the genuine one. U've got a lot of growing up to do. Eventual goal is to enjoy the silence.:)
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | Pl. read in the third line - "when we are talking.......... in the sixth lien - "if you do not know........
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7. eurekafemme (149) | 3 weeks ago | Hello, dear! I find telephonic conversation interesting.I am thrilled imagining the person I am talking to especially if he/she sounds good i.e bedroom voice, good diction and pronunciation and grammar and witty. This is true to someone I haven't met yet and only dealing through phones or internet.It interests and amuses at the same time because of curiosity and the mystery of not really knowing the person on the other end of the line.
However, maturely speaking, when it comes to our love ones, there is nothing more rewarding and interesting than to talk to them in person. No matter how good conversationalist we are, it is always difficult to convey our feelings without seeing the other person.There are certain things that words can't accurately describe.Because in communication, words are not all that matter.;-)
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | Hi eureka! I am really impressed with your imaginative and witty response. You touched a new dimension in the discussion. I will have to but agree with you that if it is a unknown fellow and there is prolonged conversation, it may be a thrilling experience to imagine about him/her, specially, if we have not seen each other in person. For example, if we both happen to talk one day (quite hypothetical situation), then we would definitely imagine about each other or if we happen to talk to someone from mylot, whom we have not seen in real life, we would surely feel excited to imagine about him/her. In the second part of your response you agreed that if it is close relative or a friend then talking to him/her face-to-face will be more lively and will carry more value. You have said it absulutely remarkably that communication is not done through 'words' only, our actions/reactions and gestures make it complete. Many thanks for enriching the post and sharing your candid thoughts, one of the best responses, so far, I would say. 
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8. zhuhuifen46 (2677) | 3 weeks ago | For people you are eager to meet, face to face conversation is the best choice. But time and space limit us to enjoy the luxuary, hence the telephone conversation come to our assistance. One special merit is to send apology through telephone, which saves the speak out face to face, while the issue is resolved as well.
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9. KrauseHome (13407) | 3 weeks ago | Well, now a days it has become so much more convenient to pick up the phone and call someone, and especially do this over seeing them in person if they live a ways from you. I think sometimes though it is better to see them in person than to talk on the phone as you can see their real expression and know how things are really going for sure. But since it is expensive to drive or travel around I guess calling someone is the next best thing to do.
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dpk262006 (8842) | 3 weeks ago | Hi dear! You are very right that now a days travelling and driving is a kind of great hassel and an expensive exercise, therefore, talking to someone on telephone is cheaper and safer option. Undoubtedly, we miss the real expression of the other fellow, while talking to him on telephone, therefore, we should sometimes see the person face-to-face. Many thanks for joining us and sharing your opinion.
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10. shona264 (108) | 3 weeks ago | Hi, I would prefer face-to-face conversation rather than telephonic conversation,because when you talk face-to-face you get to see the real expression of the person you are having conversation with.In phone sometimes one may sound very friendly,but in actual may not be wanting to talk to you.When you talk face-to face,you can understand what the other person feels about you,as eyes express ones feeling better than voice.
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