Risk??  

I think you shouldn't think about it so much.
A date is not an appointment for the whole life, maybe you don't like him either after spending some time with him. I think you should just think of this date as an opportunity to know him better, and if things go well, you have time to decide what to do!

That guy is not your old friend. Not yet you both of you have become so close. Take time to know him more. Then decide whether you will response to his love. My suggestion is don't go to any risk. Love is not a matter of taking chance. If you become sure that you can trust him then proceed . Wish you good luck.

The guy hasn't made any formal intention to court you so why worry about these things. Well if he has then allow the things to flow and from there you can already determine if he is the one or not. But since there is nothing happening yet just wait for it to happen and do not resist if there is nothing to resist yet.

dont worry too much everybody deserves a chance and if you like him also...go for it...theres nothing wrong with it.... if he lies or cheated on you...then move on theres a lot out there better:) unless you wanna get married thats why your too seriuous... if your noy meant for each other..lets accept that every relationship ended up on break up....(but not always negative sometimes they became friends)

and there you go till you find the Mr. Right...

but you know you can sense it if the guy is sincere or not..;) well gooodluck:)

Do you mean taking the chance of asking the guy if you want to be together in a relationship? Well, you could do that but you have to be ready whatever the effect of that action would bring to your friendship. I would say that you should take it slow. Maybe he's just mustering the courage to ask you out formally on a date. Maybe he's also thinking if taking a step further would affect your friendship.

Why do you say that you don't trust him or if going in a relationship with him would be best? Has he done anything in the past like cheated on a girl or something? I guess you should take the time to get to know him better.

Before jumping into a relationship, get to know the person very well first. In that way, you'll be able to eliminate a lot of uncalculated risks. It's normal, we get to anxious and curious about a person and in the process it just makes us get so attracted to them some more. Emotions could flare and be on it's peak but that's just it, emotions. Don't let your emotions get the best of you. Instead, why not get along with him a little longer, get to know him more and deeper, and take things slowly and gradually. In the process of getting to know him, you'll learn a lot about him and you could get some more reasons as to whether you'll pursue a relationship with him or draw the line. People are really so good when we first meet them, it's more than meets the eye. It's sweet to be with somebody you're attracted to the most but relationships isn't that way. Relationships is all about accepting one's faults and flaws and see the person as a whole, not in a one-sided way. Spending more time with him will make you learn a lot about him. A relationship grounded on understanding, love, trust, and commitment is far more better, lasting, and meaningful than relationships that are based on emotions. Risks are always a part of relationships, it's unavoidable but what you can do is eliminate some of it. Enjoy the ride and get to know more about it. You'll be surprised along the way and find more reasons either to get into a relationship or call it quits.

For me if you like him then ask him to visit in your house so that your parents know more how to do in such issue about you and him.

so glad i am married.
but either way i look at it, you still be worry about that if he didnt know your friends. so trust is one thing that not just the guy but the ladies need to build on. if you like him i would say take a chance on him, you will never know if you dont give him just alittle trust. i tell people dont rush things take it slow for awhile.
good luck.

I would just go for it. One date does not mean that you are going to be stuck with the guy for the rest of your life. If you have trust issues with him just take it slowly and let a relationship develop.

You never know, you may actaully be suprised by what happens. Maybe this is a relationship that is meant to be.

I think you should cross the bridge when you get there.... or should I say dont count the chicks if the eggs arent hatch yet??? dont assume too much, liking is different from loving...and if you like him enough to get him into a relationship...its just not right to not trust him cause loving is trusting... hope I had given you helpful insights and if you ever give your self a chance prepare to get hurt cause nobody gives us the guarantee not to be hurt when loving, its the risk you have to take but if you choose to let go, well its your choice, but be sure that what ever you decide upon be sure to be happy with your decision and that you are ready to stand for your decisions... have a nice day...