A very annoying gay person....  

Well nobody was blunt enough to call him off because well it was supposed to be a fun trip and maybe no one wanted to ruin the fun that we were already having.

I guess in life we will always bump into a person who has the capacity to stimulate our nerves.

"a person who has the capacity to stimulate our nerves" great term, I will used this one to people that annoys me. I am asking your permission Theresaaiza!

Hi grecy....last time I remembered, I didn't file for a copyright for that phrase so go ahead, use it and be an inspiration to many people as I have inspired you!

Hi richnai, it's hard to say that I am antigay as it sounds like I hate them to the core, which is NOT! I don't hate them. I just hate the ways of some. Too noisy, too hungry for attention. Straight people who act like that, I also stay away from them. So it's not the gender, or the sexual preference.

But I gotta admit, most gays here where I live share almost the same irritating qualities. Or is it me who's gotta learn to lighten up?

Okay again, I wanna emphasize that it's not the GAYness which is the issue, it's the ways of some people no matter what their "gender" is.

And yes, we should know better next time.

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@ Theresaaiza,

Accept my apology! A lot of creeps like that grate on my nerves too!

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I wish I did! But I didn't want to ruin the fun. He did make us laugh at some point but his annoying behavior outweighed his positive contribution!

Oh, dear, I've been rambling.

The more you ignore this kind of person the more they continue to ruined the day. I were there, I ruined his face. I am not really affected isn't i? . If I knew a person like this I will never give him a good treatment.

Hi to both of you, , I think my bad mood finally settled and I'm better now. Looking back, he wasn't exactly that bad. Yes, a little rude, and selfish, and all those things I mentioned but I guess he deserved a kind treatment from us.

Anyway, I did kind of ignored him on the way back home. There were times he called my name to again get his pic taken but I pretended to be busy with something else. He must have taken the hint and eventually got off my back.

After all, I volunteered to be the photographer. I just didn't know I was prone to abuse later that day!

I also attribute my reactions to it as being already cranky even before the trip began. Maybe if I had a better mood I never would have minded him being like that.

But you see sometimes, I don't really know for sure if my reactions were actually warranted or not...was I just plain cranky or what.

Maybe that's why I just didn't speak up. That's me I guess, I try to keep myself level-headed.

Maybe that's a factor but I'm sure that whether you were in a good mood when before you went off to the trip, you'd still be pissed in what he did, maybe just a little more intense than you just did.

I knew I was pissed off and I was not the only one. I just hope the next time we'll meet, I'd be in my best mood so I could learn to shrug off the bad feelings I am going to have about him.

That's probably the exact reason why I held back. It would be to no avail anyway. I did wish I could make him realize that he was snatching the limelight to himself but I probably just never had the guts.

Probably i would avoid them if by chance they try to be attention seekers, i personally wouldn't want to ruin they're day. but of course, as long as they don't show and tell foul words on you. just let them be and talk to them so why they want so much in they're photos.

Maybe some people are too addicted to their face that they would summon all powers that be just to get the pictorial sessions they always wanted.

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I can try that maneuver on the next person with the same attitude, or probably on him if ever we get to see each other again. He came from somewhere else so it was just a one-time thing.

And yes, I should try to develop the attitude of assertiveness. You see, I just tend to keep quiet about how I feel. Like what I did, ranting it over myLot instead.

I used to have a problem with assertiveness. Then as I got older I found that my age gave me a slight advantage. I discovered this by accident one day. At a shopping mall, shoppers were being annoyed by young children who were running around playing tag - and in the process knocking into shoppers and being disruptive in general. I stared at the 'leader' and said STOP. And they did...lol.

There's a golden age where you are old enough not to be intimidated, but not so old that others view you as 'doddering'. I guess I've gotten to that age

I get what you mean. When I was old enough to go shopping with my mother, I couldn't unerstand why and how she could successfully persuade the sellers to lower down the prices of their goods, or how she manages to argue with public vehicle drivers, because I just couldn' seem to do that.

I wish she stayed long enough for me to learn that art. Now I guess I am on my own.

Now, now...you are never on your own! Not only is your mother watching over you, but all of us here are too!

In this country, there isn't much for chances to barter prices. But when I do see an opportunity, it's impossible to resist. LOL. I think I embarrass my husband sometimes, but then he's the first one to brag if we end up with a bargain. He isn't at all good with bargaining. In fact, I'm surprised prices aren't raised when he tries.

Aging is a funny process. We retain our youth for such a short amount of time, it doesn't seem fair. However, in return for taking our youthful looks (no one says we ever have to ACT old) God kindly gives out measures of chutzpah. So, don't you worry. When you look in a mirror and start seeing a slight wrinkle or two, start practicing using your new-found chutzpah. It'll be there.

Haha, I don't know what got into me. But I recognize the sentiment bug when I feel one.

Thanks for the presence, cat! It's really nice having you guys around.


A person like your husband and I should not be left shopping together! We won't get much out of our money!

Chutzpah, hmmmm? I'll add that on my "New Words Learned today" list.

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What triggered my response was the title. I am heterosexual, but I don´t find the need of saying it in any context. I think that when I talk about people I don´t divide them immediatly into heterosexual and gays or lesbians.
I have a long lived love story with language (in Spanish, my native tongue) as I´m a writer and for me every word someone chooses has a meaning whether it is open or not. I must say this title got my curiosity. And maybe (I don´t know) I I were lesbian, I´d be pissed off by it. As it is, let´s just say it was not the best title for your otherwise ok post. Take care!

I am always trying my best to make my titles catchy. I guess it turned out that way exactly. Just not too pleasant for some, I guess.

If I had an option to delete it for other people's sake, I would, trust me.

You may be right about everything written having a purpose. Whatever that means to me, is mine to keep.

You sound like a basher to him because he can't defend his side, true and clear . But not all gays are annoying, really. Some are smart and respectable.

Thanks grecychuny! Somehow I have to agree with you!

@ LetranKnight, hmmm, happily I have never had that phrase "Hyper active Homosexuals with a bit of insecure concerns" tossed my way! May I ask why you were arguing with them? Just curious!

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