the kids need to get up

United States
October 25, 2011 6:54am CST
Anyone else getting frustraited with the amount of light this time of year? My kids feel if the sun is not up they do not need to get up. Well it's nearly 7 and it won't be light out for some time yet. It's so frustraiting even turning on lights doesn't help as they just get up long enough to turn them on and go back to bed. I wish I could rationalize them with the idea that if it's dark out in the evening it's time for bed *LOL*
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
25 Oct 11
No, that's more me. I do not like waking up in the morning, and lately I feel even more tired than usual. The kids on the other hand are always up early. Usually by the time I roll out of bed they're already set to go to school. Most of the time they're already standing at the window watching for the bus that won't come for another half hour, or sometimes they're even outside waiting already.
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• United States
25 Oct 11
Wow! I wish my kids were that enthusiastic to go to school! My oldest though once she's ready to go she wants to play outside and do her thing though she often forgets to wash her face, brush hair and teeth. I don't mind getting out of bed early, but if I get out of bed early I'd like to go to bed early.
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• United States
4 Nov 11
My kids pull similar antics as well. But mine don't want to budge til 7. The hardest is my middle she's always been my sleeper, sleeps the longest and napped til she was in 5k. If I could get the kids to bed earlier I would. But they give me grief but go to bed for hubby. But hubby doesn't also do the required 30 min a reading with them either.
• United States
25 Oct 11
Yeah I have the same problem with mine washing their face etc. Now my biggest issue is getting them to go to bed. I don't get how they can stay up playing until 10pm but still be up at 6. I thought kids needed more sleep than that!
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@AmbiePam (120738)
• United States
25 Oct 11
My grandpa used to have this problem with my uncle. So one day when he kept refusing to get up before it was light outside, my grandpa picked up my uncle, put him in the shower, and turned the cold water on - clothes and all! My grandpa never had to tell him to get up again. lol I don't recommend that, but it is funny to hear about.
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@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
lol... Good thing my daughter is not that hard to wake up. or she'll be mad at me all her life..(she hates cool water)
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• United States
25 Oct 11
Yeah that might work, but I can gurantee I'd get wet in the process. And kids don't respect their elders as they did generations ago. Trust me I'd probably get a call from school bout it.
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@GardenGerty (169474)
• United States
25 Oct 11
Life was much simpler when we all would go to bed with the chickens and get up when the rooster crowed. I do not know what to tell you about getting the kids up, as I always found that really frustrating as well. As they get older they will understand, but meanwhile it is the pits.
• United States
25 Oct 11
Thanks for your sympathy Gerty! Yes it sux! I was hoping with it getting dark out earlier it would coax them to bed earlier as it had in years past.
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
25 Oct 11
I am loving it! LOL....I don't mind getting up in the dark...and I love that it's dark enough early so I can hit the hay and not lay awake seeing the sunlight filter in through the blinds. I get up at 4 a.m. for work...so getting some much needed sleep...without tossing and turning is a plus for me. I don't have kids to get up though. I remember those days too!
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• United States
4 Nov 11
Yep, I know how that rolls. My hubby would always complain depending on the shift he was working that he got up in the dark worked all day while the sun was out and got home in the dark espcially in December when the days seem their shortest. I wish January was the shortest month... I hate January too cold!
@sreekutty (1051)
• India
26 Oct 11
he he , made my day, same problem here sometimes. wish children understood the importance of proper schedules and discipline. would it help if they were given heavy meals in the evening so that they fall asleep early and then they can get up in the morning quite early
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• United States
4 Nov 11
Though it's not good to eat before bed though, it's not good for digestion. Mine only fall asleep early if I put shut everything off and go to bed early myself.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
25 Oct 11
and to my children and when the evening light is extinguished and knows it is time to sleep and bedtime. I think so many children fall asleep faster. when it is dark because they know that now is night and sleep. darkness conducive to sleep and I feel the same. so it must be dark to light, and children will quickly fall asleep. Have a nice day!
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• United States
4 Nov 11
True we are all aquainted with the idea of when it's dark to sleep. Though small kids also feel being put to bed means they will be missing out on something important or fun.
• United States
26 Oct 11
I've heard this logic from my older kids. My younger ones get up early whether it's light out or not, and honestly I'd love for them to sleep in a little! It's the opposite in the summer, the older ones feel they should be able to stay up at night much later because it stays light for so long. I wonder what our ancestors used to do with the season changes like this. It makes me think that in the winter they slept a lot more. Modern society won't let us stop what we need to do because it's dark.
• United States
4 Nov 11
Very good point! Modern society doesn't even close on Sundays anymore. Society functions 24hrs a day whether we like it or not. Perhaps the animals that hibernate have it right. Sleep more in winter and be more active and sleep less in warmer weather.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
25 Oct 11
my parents never gave us a choice, if we were not up and moving around, they'd drag us out of bed.... and it had better be mom because if dad did it!!! YIKES!!!
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• United States
4 Nov 11
I hear ya! My kids treat me like what I say is a choice and what Dad says isn't treated as a choice as often like me. This is where I try to remind them to get their bums to bed early if they want to feel more rested or pay the piper and feel tired all day.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Oct 11
hi 3snugglebunnies I know that feeling myself and we are to get up at 6 am for breakfast at 7 here all retired people from fifty to one hundred. why so early we are not in the Army. so I feel for the kids who must get up even though it dark yet so they can dress eat breakfast and catch the school bus.The kid in this elderly lady also rebels but she does manage to get up and be downstairs by 7 am. lol my roomie stays in bed til the last possible minute then goes down stairs. lol.yes fall means the morning does not get light as early and its hard for the young ones to understand that.
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• United States
4 Nov 11
I suppose that is true. Where you are you don't have much choice in the matter either you get there and eat or hope someone will bring it to your room? I wish things worked around how dark it was cause trust me I'd like to be in bed myself but that's not how things work.
• United States
26 Oct 11
Funny you should mention and I am the type that as soon as the eyes open I look directly into the window. If I see it is dark, then my body says it is way too early. But I have learned not to let that fool me anymore. lol It seems like it is dark and gloomy and just the right time to get up in the mornings. As a child though I use to refuse to get up if I did not see light. That did not last long as the yelling to get up would start. lol
• United States
4 Nov 11
I don't recall being yelled at much but I recall the lights being turned on and feeling blinded. My Mom did that especially when she went to college and I had to be at my Grandma's by 6am... *YAWN* that was horrid to a lil kid! Thankfully my Grandma would let me sleep a bit if I was still tired before she'd send me to school.
• United States
26 Oct 11
LOL oh yes I had a lot of yelling in my child years and that surely prompted me to awake.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
It is my everyday's problem too. We are almost late everyday and my husband have to drive fast in order to get in time. My youngest even told me, if you we're on my situation which you are very sleepy, would you be happy if I keep on waking you? Make sense, but they should learn their responsibility.
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• United States
4 Nov 11
You are right on both accounts. We'd like to sleep-in if we could however due to our responsibilites and obligations we know what we must do.
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
I guess they have to sleep earlier so that can wake up earlier as well. I know the feeling of having to wake up so early even before sunrise. It really is so tiring. However, it is just the light of the day, and if one sleeps early, he would be able to wake up easier, even if it is still dark.
@Rosa26 (2616)
• United States
26 Oct 11
I have the same problem with my son, with the difference that in the evening he doesn't wants to go to sleep because he says is early at 10:30 (which is his programed time to go to sleep) and in the morning he says is too early to get up,that he wants to slep more. In that moment I have to llok for patience where I don't have, but it is what it is, problem to go to sleep, problem to get up,, this is driving me crazy.
• United States
4 Nov 11
My kids think 8 is outragious! Well by the time we read books and such it's nearly 9pm. I know being patient is soooo hard when they don't understand you don't go to bed early or on time you'll be tired the next day. They need so much more sleep because they are growing and we are not.
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
30 Oct 11
oh dear,i wish i could help you on this.my baby is still young and i am not dealing with this late sleeping habit till now.yes if you ask them to go to bed when there is no light out,i guess they will realize where they going wrong.and more so if you start the habit of sleeping early in them,i hope they will get up early in the morning too.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
26 Oct 11
My son has no choice in the matter. He knows that if he misses the bus and I have to take him all the way across the city to school he will be in trouble. He goes out about 20 minutes before the bus is supposed to come. It is barely light out when he is walking out the door to wait at the end of the block for his bus.
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 11
maybe you have to turn on the radio and make them listen a loud voice ...llol that is work for me to my kids