It hurts enough without her doing that.

Ouch! I couldn't imagine having them both taken out at the same time, I'm in so much pain from just having one of them taken out. And if it was a baby or small child I'd understand. The cat jumped on me this morning, and I didn't blow up - so when it comes to babies or animals who don't understand, I don't get mad, but she's old enough to know better, even if she acts like a teenager. But I've calmed down now and forgiven her of course, staying angry at someone is just going to keep me feeling bad, not them.

Not really it doesn't hurt any more then what you got done by it's self. Both where small insinuation so it's not like a big scar or anything. He has three tiny holes in abdominal. He was hurting pretty bad the day it was done and it was and in and one because of where we live they are able to do here since we have good technology. We try to each our daughter don't hit people period even though she was at the time 9 months old we wanted her to know that she hurt daddy even though she didn't to it was teaching her something. She is now going to be 16 months and I'm pregnant again so she tries to hit me on the stomach of course by accident I know that I don't get mad at her but I make it know its not nice to do cause she could hurt mommy and the baby. Well not really she couldn't because I now a little like that wouldn't do anything. I want her to be nice to her little brother. She is starting to understand that hitting and throwing things isn't nice. You are right your friend is old enough to know better. Yes being mad doesn't help it'll cause stress on the body which makes healing a lot longer then shorting. Working out little bit little helps with any healing.

They used glue on me, and it's all well and together still, thankfully. She felt really bad after she did it, she was trying to make me laugh and forgot about it, or so she said. She is slightly mentally disabled so I couldn't stay mad at her for long, but when I'm hurting my patience wears so thin.

I'm being very careful and avoiding foods that made me feel sick while the doctors and I was trying to figure out what was really going on which took two weeks, so I've been eating better, which is good for me, because I've been working on loosing weight for the last fourteen months or so, and I have lost 40 pounds, but have currently came to a stand still, which I think the change in my diet will help me get started back up again. And she did apologize, and I know she didn't really mean to do it. But when she was like "I'm sorry, I wasn't thinking." I was mean at first, like right after it happened and my answer was "That's the problem, C, you never think." But were okay now, but I told her I was going to slap the holy heck outta her if she ever did something like that again. I'm not a violent person by any means, but geeze quit abusing the sick person. lol I know they call it a band-aid surgery, but I wonder how many people on the committee that named it ever went through it? If they had I think they'd have given it a different name. lol