SexyMhei

@SexyMhei (152)

Philippines • Age 48

Joined myLot 18 years ago

You only live once so live life to the fullest

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Do you ever dream about your job in your sleep?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 3 Jul 07

Do you have days that your spend extra time on your job..so much so you dream about it? If so are the dream realistic or completely off the wall?

dreams

employment

stress

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SexyMhei There are times when I was too busy and preoccupied with my work that I even dream about it. Some are realistic, as if it was a continuation of the scene from the office. But there are times also that my dreams are completely off the wall. Like one time we...

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I'm hurt! My 2-yr old daughter says she only loves her dad :(

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

I posted a few months ago about playing the good cop/bad cop roles in disciplining a child -- http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1008749.aspx I've talked with my husband about this and we agreed that we both should have an...

discipline

making toddler understand

parenting

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SexyMhei Hi dear I believe you do your role well. You have said that you have talked about the good cop/bad cop role to your husband. I guess its about time that you insist to your husband to cooperate, unless ofcourse he really like to "spoil" your daughter because...

3 Jul 07

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How Many in your Family?

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 29 Apr 07

I am interested in the concept of families from around the world, the different cultures, & what they beleive makes up a family? Does your family include numerous children? Did your grandparents live with you as a cild? Did you...

families

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SexyMhei Hi jennybianca! I'm from the Philippines, and in our country it's common to have an extended family, meaning, aside from the nuclear family, the grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and other relatives live with one family. Before I got married, I live with my...

30 Apr 07

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Could you dumb it down a little and not talk so much?

vega83 @vega83 (6340) • Bahrain 29 Apr 07

Has anyone ever told you to not express yourself or to dumb it down a little so that you don't come across as too confrontational or even rude? I have been told that. And trust me, it's not so good. I don't see why I have to be...

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SexyMhei Hello Vega, there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind specially if you believe you're right. But there is a big difference with speaking your mind and being downright rude. First, you can express your opinion without making those around you feels like an...

29 Apr 07

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Have you forgived or haven’t forgived anyone in your life? Why?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 29 Apr 07

To err is human. I presume we all do mistakes and also see others doing mistakes. Even I do mistakes sometimes not serious or intentionally though and I want to be forgiven as I feel we learn much from the experiences and...

forgiveness

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SexyMhei I am a person who easily forgive, but sometimes I am hard on myself. There were times that it was easier for me to forgive others but can't bring to forgive myself for my past mistakes, serious or not. It took me a long time to learn that I need to forgive...

29 Apr 07

What is it about people that you love/hate?

pangeacat @pangeacat (619) • United States 30 Mar 07

Perhaps love and hate are to strong to describe your feelings towards people in general. Like/dislike will do fine. Is there anything about people (certain trait, quirks, abilities, etc.) that you love? Likewise, is there...

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SexyMhei Generally, I am an open minded person. I usually find something good or nice in every person I met. But there are people who sometimes irked us, sometimes it is even illogical. Frankly speaking, I don't like liars and pretentious people. I also dislike person...

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Should I let an ex-husband back into my life after he cheated on me..??

carolmil123 @carolmil123 (115) • United States 7 Mar 07

I had a lot of pain while he was sneaking around with this younger woman. She used to call me and demand that I give him a divorce. I told her she was welcome to him and I gave him the divorce. After less than a year, he is back...

relationships

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SexyMhei If you still love him and can find it in your heart to forgive him, then accept him. The baby is innocent, so if you can take care of him/her like your own, and thinks you won't put any blame on the baby for what his/her mother has done, then go for it. It...

8 Mar 07

Is Christianity All About Fear?

tangible @tangible (60) • United States 28 Feb 07

Over the past few weeks we have had a lot of family and friends from all over come to see the new baby, call to catch up, and so on. A good deal of my wife's side are Christians - or claim to be. They rattle off about things like...

christianity

relgion

wicca

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SexyMhei I am a Christian, and I am sad to learn that mostly the "christians" you know appear fearful and condemning to you. I believe Christianity is not about fear, it is about love, God's love for us. I don't understand why some of us should be rude with each other...

1 Mar 07

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Tears

Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 28 Feb 07

Ok in my last couple of Discussions I have made you all cry by showing you Gissi's Story. Well today a dear Friend has managed to roll the Tears down my Cheeks. I spoke to this Gentleman tonight as he was helping me doing...

tears

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SexyMhei Good day Gabs, I'm so blessed ith your post, very few are thankful for the blessings they got, especialy in your condition. I don't know how sick you are physically, but compare to others you are healthier than most of us. You have such strong spirit and...

28 Feb 07

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forgive and forget

amsreya16 @amsreya16 (3) • India 25 Feb 07

its obvious to make mistakes as we all are humans...but its very difficult to have a heart to forgive those who have hurt us in any way,and very tough to forget those incidents too.....and at times we wait for chances to take...

change the world

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SexyMhei I agree with you, it is hard to forget. Though you can forgive, forgetting gets tougher than most can imagine. But everytime I feel those emotions, I always recall to mind one true story I have read. It's about the missionary couple who went in another country...

25 Feb 07

Do your wife love you to do necking to her?

ondo1015 @ondo1015 (1884) • Philippines 18 Feb 07

I do leave sometimes a kissmark or a couple of kissmark on her neck. She loves it but she is shy to expose her neck outside our house.

naked necking

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SexyMhei First may I ask if the pic on your avatar is your wife, pardon me, at first I thought your a she. My hubby does that too, sometimes, specially if we're very hot, but seldom in a place where others can easily see it.

20 Feb 07

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Have you ever donated your blood?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 19 Feb 07

There are many places where blood donations can be made. There are blood banks and blood donation camps conducted where one can donate blood. you can also donate at a nearby blood bank or hospital. i am O+ a universal donar so i...

blood

donation

life

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SexyMhei I would love to. but when I tried once, they said I'm not qualified because I have a low BP.

20 Feb 07

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English can be funny with those punctuations......

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 19 Feb 07

have you noticed that just by interchanging the punctuation marks can really change the entire meaning? check this -- An English professor wrote the words, "Woman without her man is nothing" on the blackboard and directed his...

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SexyMhei I like that. It only proves that words can have different meaning depending on who interprets it. kudos : )

20 Feb 07

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Leaving your spouse or partner

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

What is one thing your spouse/partner can do that will make you (want to) leave him/her?

leaving spouse or partner

separation

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SexyMhei I think I could forgive him anything he do because I love him so much, except for two things; physical/emotional abuse and cheating. I wouldn't accept beating nor emotional degradation from anyone, and definitely not even from my husband even if I love him....

20 Feb 07

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Items in your purse or handbag

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

Q&A: What are the usual items that you carry in your purse or handbag? For me, I always have the following items in my bag: mobile phone, wallet, keys, pen, powder, lipstick, hair brush.

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SexyMhei We have the same items in our bags, but aside from these usual items, I also have candies and biscuits in my bags, I seldom go anywhere without it. : )

20 Feb 07

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Items in your purse or handbag

ctv101103 @ctv101103 (859) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

Q&A: What are the usual items that you carry in your purse or handbag? For me, I always have the following items in my bag: mobile phone, wallet, keys, pen, powder, lipstick, hair brush.

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SexyMhei I think we have the same items in our bags. Aside from the cosmetics, I always carry a pen and paper with me, I guess that's because I love to write and often got these urges to note things. : )

20 Feb 07

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What is finding the love of your life meant changing the life that U loved?

sweetrala @sweetrala (1436) • Philippines 20 Feb 07

This is one of the tag lines from the romantic comedy movie Fools Rush In(1997).Starring Matthew Perry and Salma Hayek.Its a story of a one night stand between two very different people in everyway.The guy an up and coming...

comedy movie

love

romantic comedy

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SexyMhei Yes, I believe this holds true. I was born, raised and live my whole growing up year in an urban area. I had a busy, active and fun filled social life just like every single lady of my age, and top it with the fact that during that time, I already have a...

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Pranks - ever had one that went terribly wrong?

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 18 Feb 07

I was just reading a news story about a high school kid who's prank went terribly wrong. He is now facing charges of felony adulteration resulting in bodily harm, which carries a maximum sentence of 10 years in prison and a...

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SexyMhei I think the punishment was too harsh, but what he did isn't funny at all, although we see things like that in some slap stick old comedy movies, and even in some new ones, but if it causes harm, it is not funny right. I'm a bit naughty myself and do pull some...

18 Feb 07

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