bdn317

@bdn317 (25)

India • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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"It's difficult to find sincere friends", says Megan

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

I saw this today in a status of one of my Facebook buddies and came to wonder - What does being a sincere friend mean? Is it sincere when you are always there greeting the friend hello? Is it sincere if you will say...

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bdn317 According to me, sincere friends are the ones who accept you just the way you are!! You may be good or bad. They shouldnt mind anything. If they are sincere, they must see to it that you never de-track in life by doing any mistakes. If they find that you are...

28 Mar 10

Do you love your parents?

stanley777 @stanley777 (9401) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

I was just asking if you do, because some people despise them... Me, I love my parents so much because they also love me. I don't know what I'd do without them- I'm really scared if they disappear one day. I love them with all my...

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bdn317 Well, to begin with, my only cause for existence on this world, are my parents. without them, i would never be here doing all the things am doing right now and even trying to respond to all the posts here and writing down my thoughts on MYlot. Many people do...

28 Mar 10

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if you were to define your life in two colors, what would that be? and why?

tomitomi @tomitomi (5429) • Singapore 27 Mar 10

a close friend recently commented "you look fresh and great in this light green". as i go through my wardrobe i realised that a lot of my clothes are white and black. these are the two colors i love anyway. they represent me and...

constant struggle between good and evil

me and my life

white and black

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bdn317 Just like you, i too think black and white just represents my way of life... may it be trying to exhibit my nature, black and white as am very very straight forward, may be exhibiting my different phases of life like sorrows and joys, or may be exhibiting my...

28 Mar 10

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You are at your computer, and you are on Mylot

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (167269) • United States 27 Mar 10

What are you listening to, and what do you hear? I used to listen to the television while on the computer, but we recently moved the desktop upstairs, where there is no televisio. When my son came upstairs I could hear him talking...

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bdn317 Depends on what am actually doing. If i am doing any serious work, i dont seem to bothers what is going on around as i will be totally involved in the work and any voices or noises i hear are distracting. If am just passing time, i listen to music or even keep...

28 Mar 10

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Do you ever buy and eat something from Food Street vendor

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 27 Mar 10

If you live in the city environment or maybe visit a big city, you'll find there are tons of food street vendor. New York for example, you can find the hot dog and pretzel. Not only that New York even has like Middle Eastern Food...

eating on the street

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bdn317 Depends on what is available outside and whether the evironment is lcean or not. Most of the places in india, are not very hygienic. Thats the reason why i tend to avoid eating stuff from street vendors. Then also, as you mentiones, if u have a "Strong"...

28 Mar 10

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Hard to Forgive

intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

This is the common lines of people who are hurting especially by the ones they love. While others say that love is not love if you don't feel hurt and yet you still love that person. i have experience to be hurt by the people whom...

forgive

hard

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bdn317 Forgive and forget - are the key words if you want any relation to survive. sometimes our dear ones make mistakes or sometimes, they point out our mistakes, which we normally dont agree to, even though we act as if we agreed. I must say, its really hard to...

22 Mar 10

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What makes a good relationship?

kangel48446 @kangel48446 (507) • United States 21 Mar 10

What is your recipe for a good relationship?

love

relationship

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bdn317 relationship is a bonding between 2 people. there are different kinds of relationships. Ex. a relation a child has with his parents, a reltion a husband has with his wife and children etc etc. Trust, care & understanding are the base for any relation. We can...

22 Mar 10

Do you want to gain or lose weight?

intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

For my present weight, I really want to lose weight because it's hard for me to wear my favorite clothes at this time and I can't move faster anymore. The problem is that it's hard for me to lessen my food intake that makes me...

gain

lose

weight

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bdn317 I was very active in sports before and had maintained a descent weight constantly. But recently i have put on some weight. So i need to start loosing weight soon else later it will be difficult to loose weight once it goes beyond control.

22 Mar 10

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On Branding Muslims as Anti-Socials..............

moribus2 @moribus2 (106) • India 20 Mar 10

Recently I came across an article that tells us about the contribution of internet to the civilization. I was pained to find a statement "there is hate spewing madrassa in some eastern hellhole which can now spread Koranic evil...

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bdn317 Dear friend, this is a very complicated topic and a very sensitive one. Here i will share my personal opinion about what i think about this topic. Please make it a not that, am not going to point at any religion. am just trying to explain my thoughts. We...

21 Mar 10

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Movies- alone or with a friend?

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 21 Mar 10

When you go to the movies do you enjoy going by yourself or with friends? I'd rather go on my own as it's like I am lost in my own world with the big screen and the surround sound. I also enjoy going with friends but I guess it...

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bdn317 I do not have the habit of going to movies as i normally hate crowded places. I prefer to watch the movie at home by buying DVDs and watching them on my Home Theater system.

21 Mar 10

Would you marry someone from a different culture?

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 21 Mar 10

I am an American, born and raised in Southern California. My husband is Indonesian, born and raised in Northern Sumatra. We met, were married and still live in Indonesia. I know that I found the right man for me, he is perfect and...

culture

marriage

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bdn317 Marriage is supposed to be a very serious decision in life. But nowadays, the break-up decision is taken so easily. So i feel, this is not correct. When a couple decides to marry, they must think about their long term life, as how will they adjust with each...

21 Mar 10

Have any good advice of Loosing Weitht?

enix119 @enix119 (101) • China 21 Mar 10

In terms of loosing weight, Many girls,painstakingly,eat little. I found these girls are almost out of spirits and looks lack of nutritions. I always do not agree on loosing weight by this way. By contrast, it's better to have a...

loose weight

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bdn317 To begin with, it depends on how fat the person actually is when he/she decides to loose weight. If the fat is too much, way out of control, then they must follow a very strict diet at least till they loose considerable weight, so that they can start living a...

21 Mar 10

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Would you donate your body for medical research after your death?

avani26 @avani26 (1518) • India 20 Mar 10

Jyoti Basu was an Indian Politician belonging to the Communist Party of India(Marxist) from West Bengal, India. He served as the Chief Minister of West Bengal from 1977 to 2000. He had pledged to donate his body and eyes for...

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bdn317 As far as my thinking goes, after death it hardly matters what happens to anyone after death. But if something useful can be done by using a dead body's organs, then may it be. Anyways there is no shortage of bodies in this world. So ultimately, it depends...

21 Mar 10

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Friend from a far

laniekins @laniekins (4579) • Philippines 19 Mar 10

Have you ever had a friend (well I assumed that all of us have) who's live and work now far from you and suddenly you find him/her on social network like this but found out that he/she's not interested on you anymore, like you...

best friend

friend

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bdn317 yup. It happens most of the times. That too if its a far off friend, there is more possibility of such a thing happening. It just depends on how much time we dedicate to each other. Its not like you contact that person for a whole week continuously and then...

19 Mar 10

Is it right or is it wrong?

dabyo217 @dabyo217 (67) • Philippines 18 Mar 10

I was once in a relationship that ended badly. At first i was in love (i thought so) but as the relationship goes, I believe that it isn't love that I felt but rather infatuation. Since I don't want to make it worse by giving her...

decision

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bdn317 dear friend, i still think you should have given some more time, discussed about it with your partner and also try to know and let know what actually is the problem that was leading to the breakup. your decision may be right or may be wrong. only time will...

19 Mar 10

Can u Ever forget your first love

vimalpatel @vimalpatel (76) • India 19 Mar 10

First love is always special.Isn't our world change after that.But I was thinking as no matter how beautiful person you will get in your future.May be she/he loves you more than your first love.Can we ever forget completely our...

first love

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bdn317 1st love- thats one of the most important moment of your life. although it depends on how much you actually loved the person. If you have loved the person more than anything else, then sorry to say this my friend, you will never forget it rill your last...

19 Mar 10

What did you do with your first salary?

common_man @common_man (1799) • India 19 Mar 10

First salary, its very important for all. they do some thing special worth remembering with first salary. What did you do with your first salary? do you remember? As regards me, my total first salary was pick pocketed and i...

first salary

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bdn317 my 1st salary was not much. But i had thought of buying something for my parents with that. But since my salary was not enough, i decided to give it to my parents as my token of love and the respect i have for them.

19 Mar 10

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