bobevanse

@bobevanse (36)

Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Traffic Jams and Rush Hour-Who else hates them?

highflyingxangel @highflyingxangel (9225) • United States 28 Jan 08

So I got to thinking today about the city in which I currently live and the traffic situation. It is a college town with about 30,000 students, not to mention all the people that live here and work here. So, imagine the scene when...

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bobevanse I am lucky. I live in a small city,which has no traffic jam. Although I am in a hurry every morning, I can drive easily cross the town to offcie.

4 Mar 08

How do you commute to office?

subha12 @subha12 (18440) • India 4 Mar 08

how do you go to office? by your own car or by public transport? or it by office transport? I go some part by public transport and some by office transport. how do you go

commute

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bobevanse I went to office on feet before my office moved. Now I drive my own car to work. It is a urgle old car but runs great. Every day it takes my daughter and I to the kindgartern and office every day. It is my baby.

4 Mar 08

how does it feel to have one...

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 3 Mar 08

im the only girl in the family and i have two brothers(eldest had passed away years back)..and im thinking of what if i had a sister?how does it feel to have one? sometimes i envied those who had one..thinking that its good to...

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bobevanse I only have two brothers and no sisters. I am eager to have one but my mother said no. I have a very close friend, who is like my sister at some sense. We have no secret with each other and hang out together. I don't have a birth sister,but I am lucky to have...

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what would you do if you love a boy who has a girlfriend?

lifeiselsewhere @lifeiselsewhere (135) • China 4 Mar 08

recently incurably fell in love with a boy i met at work,but! he has had a girlfriend. i disappointedly decided to give up,but my mind was not in control! Every time he stepped in to the room I felt everythin is covered by the...

love

unrequited love

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bobevanse Wow,that's dangerous to love a boy with girlfriends. My advice is to leave. Don't disturb them, or you will hurt three of you. There are lots of nice boys, and you can find one for you. Who want to share love with others? If you don't want, please don't try to...

4 Mar 08

As A daughter....Do I deserve this?

Grace35 @Grace35 (136) • United States 29 Feb 08

My mother was very young when she had me and my brothers. No were not triplets, my brother came when she was 16, i came at 17 and my little brother came about the age of 22. Nice to know she took a break! I can honestly say that...

daughter

mother

pain

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bobevanse I am so sorry for you. Usually every mother takes care of her kids. Maybe your mother had some bad experience when she was young. We can't blam our parents. But honestly your mother didn't take the responsibility as a mother. Maybe with aging, she will realize...

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a second mom

heart143 @heart143 (1202) • Philippines 4 Mar 08

All of us have mothers. Our mothers brought us in this world, took care of us and gave us guidance and support. While all of us have just one mother, I'm lucky enough to have two...my biological mother and an important woman in my...

life

mother

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bobevanse You are so lucky to have a second mother to love and take care of you. I am not as lucky as you,but I really have several friends to help me. Friends are very important to me. When I am down, they encourage me to move on. When I am short of money, they lend it...

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Getting your child`s attention

helpful_ideas @helpful_ideas (1620) • United States 2 Mar 08

So this subject came up in another discussion about spankings and I REALLY would like some advice or suggestions from other parents out there about getting the attention of a three-year-old. My son is usually a very good little...

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bobevanse When my daughter was at you kid's age, I usually put her on the bed and get down on my knees to talk with her with eyes looking into her eyes. She is a lovely girl. When I did that, she gether her intention and listen to me carefully.

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A mother's touch

heart143 @heart143 (1202) • Philippines 1 Mar 08

"Mommy!" cried my little girl as she shows me a cut on her knee. I would clean her wound and put band-aid. "Stop crying now...you see?...no more!" as I kiss her. My little girl will then stop crying and smile. The magic of a...

mother

parenting

parents

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bobevanse When I was hurt at my early ages, my mother blew on the wound and kissed it. That makes me feel less pain. Now I am a mother and I blew and kiss my daughter's wound when she is hurt. Does blowing or kiss really helping cure the wound? There is no magic kiss....

3 Mar 08

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making maney is very easy.but it takes little time.

simplyman2006 @simplyman2006 (1706) • India 2 Mar 08

well i know u will be asking me how it is possible that money is easy to make i know its very much easy u just have to focus on it. look we listen to many people who was belongs to poor family and now they are very much rich...

wanna be rich

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bobevanse Wow. This is first time I heard someone say making money is easy. You must be very rich now. I am working very hard and haven't making lots of money. I admire your ambitious.

3 Mar 08

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how much money you make a day?

aconites @aconites (768) • United States 2 Mar 08

if you calculate your earnings for a day..how much you make on the internet?? with mylot and the others ptc sites that you click and if you do offers ... how much your total?

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bobevanse I didn't caculate it before. Today I paid attention on that and found that it was almost 0.5 dollars. Not so much. Anyway I have a stable job. Earning on internet is only my pocket money. I don't think you can make big bucks through surfing on the internet.

3 Mar 08

Will referrer get 25% of your mylot earnings?

yannycui @yannycui (376) • China 28 Feb 08

According to earning policies of Mylot, the referrer will get 25% of my mylot earnings. Do I only get 75% of my earnings? For example, my earnings is 10 dollars. Will refferer take 2.5 dollars and leave 7.5 dollars?

mylot

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bobevanse Read the earning programs of Mylot. You will get it.

3 Mar 08

shortcut of making money

btbwr0007 @btbwr0007 (86) • India 3 Mar 08

can u tell me the short cuts of making money?

shotcut of money

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bobevanse If you want to make money legally, I don't think there is a shortcut.No pains no gains. Every penny comes with hard-working. So don't dream for that, get up and start now to responde as many as you can.

3 Mar 08

If you won a million dollars tommrrow

SusanShayAvon @SusanShayAvon (1003) • United States 2 Mar 08

what would you do with it and do you think it would change you in any way? The first thing I would do is get me a brand new vehicle or maybe two. I think I would buy a mustang just because I have always wanted one. I would also...

money

mustang

opinions

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bobevanse I never dream I can win such a big money. If I could win, I will pay for my checks first,then give some of them to my daughter,parents and siblings. If I have some left, I will donate them to charity agencies to set a charity fund to help people in trouble.

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Do you borrow money to pay bills or do youleave them?

pumpkinjam @pumpkinjam (8879) • United Kingdom 3 Mar 08

When you have nothing and there are bills to pay, do you borrow the cash to make sure they're paid? Or do you wait (through choice or necessity) until you have the money to pay them. I tend to prioritise my bills. For example,...

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bobevanse Usually I have the money to pay the bills. If I didn't have the money to pay for them, I would borrow money from my brothers or parents.They are always there ready to help me to pass the difficulties.

3 Mar 08

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crossroads in life, what did you do?

jpso138 @jpso138 (7851) • Philippines 3 Mar 08

I believe that each of us have come to a point where we have to decide on something that is very difficult. Its something like a crossroad and you have to make a decision. Regardless whatever it is, there are always choices and...

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bobevanse I had several crossroads in the past. I made the right choice on some,while I chose the wrong way sometimes. It is really difficult to choose when you stand at the point. Others' advices may be not suitalbe to you. As we becoming old, we are maturer than...

3 Mar 08

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what are your simple pleasures?

tigerdragon @tigerdragon (4297) • Philippines 2 Mar 08

all we think right now is how to make money and making ends meet or some specially the youngsters is how to make money to spend it on their wants rather than their needs. And for some , they bother themselves complaining how the...

in harmony with yourself

life

living

simple pleasures

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bobevanse My simple pleasure is to sit under the sun listening the bird singing and feeling breeze touching my cheek. Simple pleasure need no money, fame or fortune. It depends on yourself. The rich is not always happy and the poor is not always sad.

3 Mar 08

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Do you love to walk outside?

st3ph_17 @st3ph_17 (146) • Philippines 2 Mar 08

I often walk to the office for around 15 minutes and I listen to music while walking. I recently started doing this when I got this new job and I haven't done it before. I thought it would be difficult to walk instead of taking a...

music

nature

walking

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bobevanse I like hiking,especially on Spring or Summer evenings. Breathing the fresh air, enjoying the sunset, listening to the singing bird, I can relax easily. Go outdoors and do some sports can keep up our health.

3 Mar 08

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Why would i get Married ?

Gesusdid @Gesusdid (1676) • United States 18 Feb 08

ok so one night me and some friends are talking about the dreaded topic of Marriage so the people say "Well i would like to get married by , this time when im 25 or 27 ..so on and so forth then the conversation gets to me , and i...

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bobevanse When you are mature enough, when you are responsible for your family, when you feel you can stand the burden of family, you can get married. Age is not a problem.

3 Mar 08

Does Love Choose Age in a Relationship?

angeljenn @angeljenn (894) • Zaragoza, Spain 1 Mar 08

They say that "Love conquers all." And i really do believe in that saying, even though there are lots of sad love stories out there...Nowadays, i can see lots of people who were having age difference in their relationships...i...

age

love

relationships

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bobevanse Yes, age is really matter in a relationship. If both of you are at the same age, it is easy to find something in common.You can share the same habits, topic and friends. Gap is obvious between the young and old.

3 Mar 08

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Now that I have broken up...How do I move on?

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 5 Apr 07

Breaking up from a relationship is truly tough, but recovering from the break-up and moving on is even harder, especially if you truly loved the person so much. How did you survive these hard times? It only has been three days. It...

ending a relationship

love

relationship

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bobevanse If you don't still come out from the shade, you should be patient to begin a new relationship. No one can begin a new one just after the old one be finished if the old was a true love. Take your time.

3 Mar 08