charvill

@charvill (58)

Age 43

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Do you think that listening to each other is better for a relationship?

Zammeee @Zammeee (66) • Belgium 29 Apr 12

I believe that you have to listen to your partner in order to make the relationship work. That way you can talk things over, sort out problems and tell the other how and what you feel. This way your partner can adapt to you and...

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charvill I agree! Even in friendship, a good listener keeps the relationship stronger and it bonds more. The feeling of your are comfortable with that person because that person is always willing to listen, that alone will make us happy because they can confide...

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use a Calculator while shopping

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 29 Apr 12

When you go grocery shopping do you bring a calculator? After shopping at Aldi for a many years I've noticed that they often post the unit price or price per ounce. I've found this to be a great tool shopping at other stores....

groceries

grocery shopping

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charvill Bringing a calculator everytime going shopping is helpful specially if you only have small amount of money on hand. You can easily calculate whether you already over spend or not.

30 Apr 12

smoking and teens

Adiela @Adiela (18) 22 Apr 12

I am a mother of two teenage boys. I have recently discovered that my 15 year old smokes. I've asked him if he does but he says it was only once but I know for a fact it was more than once! What do I do? Do i ignore it until I...

parenting

smoking

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charvill We know for a fact that we can't always be on our kid's side to protect and guide them but for as long as the line of communication is open for the two of you, theres no reason for you to not to tell your kid the bad effects smoking will give him. Talk to him...

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"Don't rush. Marry someone who has a good job."

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 22 Apr 12

A relative of mine told me "not rush in marriage, Marry someone who has a good and stable job." I have been thinking about marriage but you know life is really difficult nowadays. I guess she is right. I don't want to imagine...

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charvill It's true. In reality, love is not just saying "i love you" words to each other; its a matter of how capable that "i love you" to sustain a family. I'm not saying here marry a rich person if theres no love then its not worth it. I mean, as long as both of you...

23 Apr 12

Cool birthday with little money

trohichko @trohichko (197) • Bulgaria 22 Apr 12

Hi, everyone! Tomorrow I have a birthday and I wanted it to be special, to be celebrated in some memorable way, but... I'm short of money :( I was wondering if there is any cool way to spend birthday not depending on money. Do...

birthday money joy

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charvill Our birthdays is just like any other days in the calendar that will come to pass, but since it is not just an ordinary day for us, we can celebrate it in simple way but memorable one. No need to spend so much amount of money just to make it an unforgettable...

23 Apr 12

Does it matter whether men or women are breadwinners?

Archaiwy @Archaiwy (599) • China 22 Apr 12

A long time ago, it's a custom that man are breadwinners while women are caretakers at home. But now the tradition gradually changes somewhere. Women take the place of men to support the family while men become stay-at-home...

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charvill It doesn't matter, whether it is the man or the woman, as long as it helps the family. Nowadays, its better to be practical because expenses are getting high. What matters most is that partners should give understanding to each other, helping each other, and...

23 Apr 12

what should be prioritized first, school or work?

yrallih @yrallih (147) 19 Apr 12

I've been mind-bugged with this question since I am a working student and the past few days I need to decide on what to pursue. Either I leave my job because my internship at the bank would be eating up a lot of time or maintain...

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charvill It is best to prioritize schooling because work can come after you finished a degree or a certain course. If you got a diploma its much easier for a person to look for a job

20 Apr 12

More than 1 cellphone !!!!!

ryanong @ryanong (9665) • Vietnam 19 Apr 12

Last week, I met some friends for drinking coffee. Most of them have at least 2 cellphones. There are 3 guys who have 3 cellphones; samsung, iphone, nokia types. I asked them why do you have many cellphone like that, for what? The...

3 cellphones

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charvill Well, having more than one cellphone has advantages like if you lost one there you still have a spare one, if you dont want unknown person pissed you off or messed with you then you could put their nos to your other phone or if you dont want clients use your...

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why MEN moveon so fast after a breakup

julilene @julilene (21) 25 Nov 11

ok so i had been with a guy that i was totally inlove with for almost 3 years.but he just suddenly stopped loving me and cheated on me by the end. i was really heart broken to find out that he was already in a relationship after 2...

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charvill Because, when a man sees someone he thinks more that what he has, they can easily court the , we,girls do not do, we dont court guys. We just wait for someone. But, whatever happens in between the relationship, you should always leave something for your self.

25 Nov 11

EDSA to be renamed as "Cory Aquino Avenue"

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 24 Nov 11

Hello Lotters, This is yet another freaking annoying public servant who thinks that giving a road name to a Former President of the Country, the first Female President Cory. Though we already have a Highway named...

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charvill I have heard this on the news yesterday night that someone is thinking of replacing EDSA to Cory. What for? Does this make sense? For me, there's no reason for it to change. There are other problems to consider and be given solution than wasting time over this...

25 Nov 11

Can loving be painful?

jane1974 @jane1974 (23) • Philippines 15 Nov 11

Loving someone is uncertainty..we really don't know if our feelings is being reciprocated, ignored or just taken for granted. In this instance, let me asked you this question. Which is more painful to live with someone who truly...

is loving painful

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charvill Of course, loving someone who doesn't love you is more painful. Isn't that unfair? But, although you don't get love in return at least you give love. As the saying goes, it is better to give than to receive.

16 Nov 11

Do you believe that Everything Happens for a Reason?.....................

lijoos @lijoos (346) • India 15 Nov 11

I do, but i dont! its realy a sentence we use everytime to forget or to apolagise something happend. not at all everythings are happening for a reason. but there are many things in my life happend for a reason. i lost my...

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charvill I say yes. Sometimes we take for granted to ask ourselves why good things are happening to our lives and we always see the bad things that happens or happened. Usually when bad things happens, we say, it happens for a reason; but to those good things we never...

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how to be a good friend

adhyz82 @adhyz82 (36249) • Indonesia 2 Nov 11

sometimes our friend can accompany us, sometimes can support us.. but sometimes our friend can be a great enemies for us. how to be a good friend and our friend can be still our good friend?? share, please

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charvill For me to be a good friend is to a good listener. Be there when they need a companion, understand as much as possible and do not throw criticism, and most specially be who you are, do not pretend.

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Do you believe in purgatory?

eljayo @eljayo (1105) • Philippines 3 Nov 11

Hi guys! They say that the purgatory is place or condition where the dead ones are temporarily punished because they have not repented well during their living days.Their living loved ones can pray fro their soul to help them be...

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charvill No. There are only two places the bible tells us, its heaven and hell. When human die he will either go to heaven or hell depending on his relationship to God. If one dies, accepted Christ as his personal savior and follows his words, then this man will surely...

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Internet is changing our lives!

JulyKing @JulyKing (110) • China 3 Nov 11

Good afternoon,you guys! When it comes to internet,I think no one would be strange about it!Nowadays,internet is changing our lives,people in a growing number not only children,youths,but also oldies begin to use internet!It...

internet

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charvill Yes it really change our lives. With this new technology we can pay our bills, shop on-line, have friends, chat with friends afar, and so much more that we cant live anymore without internet. Although there are advantages and disadvantages, of course we cant...

3 Nov 11

Do you think God will answer your prayers?

bessyjanmayi @bessyjanmayi (278) • Philippines 2 Nov 11

If you are not saved, your father is the devil. Look at it in your Bible on John 8:44. If the devil is your father and not God, how can you say in your prayer the word God the father, when He is not your father. Get an example to...

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charvill Our God is a big, big God. He listens to those who ask in prayers, those whose prayers are coming from their hearts. If one people who prays, believe that God will provide all his needs then it will come true. There are these devil worshippers- if they pray to...

2 Nov 11

Perfect age to get married.

koneho12 @koneho12 (165) • Philippines 2 Nov 11

One television show in our country tackled this opic just an hour ago and I would like to know your opinion about this. In my part I would like to get married if I have much enough savings, and I already achieve my personal goal I...

age

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charvill If you are mentally, emotionally and financially stable and you think you're ready for a big responsibility ahead, then, go! Find that person you will love for the rest of your life and get married. Good luck!

2 Nov 11

Chatting While Working

lordcaocao2025 @lordcaocao2025 (4098) • Indonesia 29 Oct 11

Did you like chatting while you are working? If you like it? What media you use it? Id it cell phone, Black Berry, I PAD, PC or Laptop. Also tell us about the Messenger that you use while chatting at the office. If not, what...

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charvill For me I dont do chatting while working because it disrupt your work and it just consume more time than doing your job,unless of course if it requires you to chat with somebody or its work-related. If i have time lets say its break time, i open my facebook...

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The dead deserves respect

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 29 Oct 11

In the Philippines, November 1 is a legal holiday. It is a day intended for Filipinos to go to cemeteries and offer flowers and light candles for the dead. Personally, I believe that the dead, would not know anymore, these...

november 1

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charvill Honestly i feel the same thing as yours. I go to the cemetery to visit our departed loved ones whenever i have spare time. I rarely buy flowers nor candles because i believe they dont need them. but if i can, i try to buy some flowers to put on the tomb, my...

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