chona0912

@chona0912 (103)

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How to release the boredom of work?

JackRoy @JackRoy (242) • United States 12 Oct 10

Everyday life is going more challenging. And to meet the expectations of everybody the pressure of work is increasing. But how long a human brain can work or how much pressure it can handle? It is found that we are getting bored...

boredom

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chona0912 hi , been employed for more than 20 years . there are times i got bored with work but i always put on music in my work station and i am always looking forward to weekend outing or simply bonding with my kids on weekend. When totally exhausted i stop what i'm...

12 Oct 10

"I am so unhappy, with life and my husband" " I cry myself to sleep "

Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163749) • Garden Grove, California 11 Oct 10

this discussion was triggered by responses to another discussion. I was saddened to read how many women do cry themselves to sleep because they feel trapped and dependent on their husband. It shocked me to think in this modern age...

need to feel free

sel esteem

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chona0912 i am married for more than 25 years now,i have a good job and my husband is jobless at this moment but everytime my husband gets drunk with his friends i am always terrified with what trouble he may do later because for the past years since he was jobless he...

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Favorite Holiday

BrittneeD @BrittneeD (350) • United States 20 Sep 10

What is your favorite holiday and why? Especially if you are from another country and your holiday is not very familiar to the USA could you please explain about the holiday I like hearing about other cultures. My favorite...

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chona0912 hi , i'm from the philippines and most of us here , likes the christmas season to come , in fact we celebrate christmas as early as september. When the ber months are here , example september , october , november , all filipinos are already anticipating for...

21 Sep 10

Why it is so hard to trust in a relationship?

norily @norily (54) 20 Sep 10

Base in my experience in present,i had a boyfriend which i met only in dating site. Were in 1 year already and almost 2 months. We didn't met yet in personally. Hopefully by next year, he said he will go down here and he planning...

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chona0912 how can you honestly love someone you did not personally met . I have doubts of your feeling because you easily love somebody you did not met. maybe you love him for the wrong reasons . you should also doubt your boyfriend because boys do not fall in love...

21 Sep 10

Organising my online jobs and sites....It really helps...

kiran8 @kiran8 (15346) • Mangalore, India 21 Sep 10

[i]I too went through this phase of registering on every site that was recommended to me and then finding out that it is a scam etc etc...Now after a couple of years and a few burnt fingers I have at last become a lot more...

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chona0912 thank you for the information . you know i'm really looking forward to know some legal sites. wow , you must earn a lot on your on line jobs

21 Sep 10

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Cannot afford to support financially but dong something that helps

suspenseful @suspenseful (40191) • Canada 20 Sep 10

I am more of a head person then a fixer upper, but for the last couple of weeks, my friend and I have been crushing cans. This is to help a charity that needs it, but that is not the reason. Before my husband got worse and needed...

not exactly empathetic

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chona0912 i like you helping out , supporting others , volunteering .but it seems your help does not come from the heart. I know a lot of people who volunteers , and i envy those people because of selfless love. maybe there are also people like you said helping out for...

21 Sep 10

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what would you do if you were in my shoes?

jvmaglinteB @jvmaglinteB (11) • Philippines 21 Sep 10

Hi, my lotters! I just want to share this and maybe get advice in a way.. I'm with someone for 3 years now, long enough to know each other's bad and good sides. Just as things were goin' good, here comes a "blast from the past",...

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chona0912 hi , you easily fall into temptation. What would you feel if your partner did it to you. In a relationship, one should be devoted to only partner so that life and family and the children too would succeed . I tell you . I've been married for so long now and my...

21 Sep 10

Cannot get my belongings back. Need advice.

Ramaditya @Ramaditya (1226) • Indonesia 20 Sep 10

Alright, I will make it short. A month ago, one of my friends borrowed my external hard drive (HDD). All my movie files were there, many of them were rare and hard to find. A week ago, we fought because of our personal...

hdd

theft

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chona0912 hi , why don't you call her parents , or her teacher or somebody close to her . Why don't you go to her place and talk to her parents. But if you can afford to buy another , just think that you have donated your HDD or charity in that way it will not stress...

21 Sep 10

Should I turn back my exlover???

tahuonggiang @tahuonggiang (47) • Vietnam 20 Sep 10

I have a boy friend but he was may ex darling. We couldn'tlove because he has 2 children, one girl and one boy. In that time, He was comming divorce and I loved him so much. But my parents disagreed for our love. In that way, I...

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chona0912 hi , in the first place why did you marry your husband ? . You know that its against the law of God and the law of man to commit adultery . Why should you let satan tempt you. I'm sure satan will be very happy if you return to your ex lover . Please don't do...

21 Sep 10

how will you create your own style life?

khoikhoi @khoikhoi (93) • Vietnam 21 Sep 10

Throughout the world it is known that social status and money depict the lifestyle that people lives, their viewpoints, and possibly their goals. Different social classes can be distinguished by inequalities in such areas as...

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chona0912 hi , i created my lifestyle based on my belief in God . Meaning simple , i may acquire material wealth but my heart should not be attached on earthly material things.

21 Sep 10

Is Watchig Movies Good?

rijovjohn @rijovjohn (428) • India 20 Sep 10

I love watching movies. But here are many people who says watching movies a lot is not good especially for children. It can cause violence & many other bad behavior. What is your opinion on this?.

movies

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chona0912 hi , i don't think that's true just be sure that you explain scenes that needs explanation for example if there are violent scene in the movies , explain that this should not be done because if you do this the police may catch and jail you or God displeases...

21 Sep 10

Is good the public transport on your contry?

RamRes @RamRes (1723) • Argentina 18 Sep 10

Hi everyone!! I go to work everyday, and I use the public transport, first I go on train and the the bus. But, that trip is always a nightmare. I go on the peak hours, where everyone is trying to get in time to their jobs, and...

bus

public transport

train

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chona0912 hi , i live in davao city , that's in the philippines . our city is not that crowdwd yet so we have less commuters and traffic . We ride in a public utility jeeney within the city and the public utility bus outside the city. Compared in Manila , that is the...

19 Sep 10

Too much love, would it really kill you?

abish1987 @abish1987 (188) • Philippines 18 Sep 10

I have a friend and he asked my advice if "too much love on his girlfriend could possibly destroy their relationship. I actually failed to response on this matter since my mind is not set for answering rhetorical or any of this...

too much love

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chona0912 hi , i don't think so , maybe its how you define love . They say to love means to let go of whom you love when the one you love doesn't love you anymore. When you love someone it doesn't mean the person had to love you back so that person finds another release...

19 Sep 10

Having a good day

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (64200) • United States 18 Sep 10

LONG, but good. I woke up just after 6:30 a.m. Since I went to bed around 11, I got a good bit of sleep and was really ready to get up, besides, the dogs were ready to get up (actually that's what woke the roommate up, the...

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chona0912 hi , that is really what you called a nice day . Nothing to do around but shopping and then visiting some friends . Wow , i wish i could do that , but alas , i don't have that money to spent . Anyway , if you have lots to spend then go.

19 Sep 10

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Should we bring up our children in strict way or lenient way?

chayapathys @chayapathys (2111) • India 17 Sep 10

I had an uncle who had two sons and the age difference was nearly ten years between the two.As he was a disciplined man himself he was very strict towards his eldest son and watched him closely and also trained him in very...

good luck

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chona0912 hi , i'm a mother of five, 2 are boys , while 3 are girls . My father raised me up very strictly especially when i started dating. When its time for me with my kids i decided to bring my children up with love , lots of love . I always want to place myself in...

18 Sep 10

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My friends aren't in the same circle

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 17 Sep 10

and I like it this way. I have found that when you have friends there are going to be times that you have conflicts with your friends. When you have conflicts with your friends you need someone to talk to and to let off...

circle of friends

friends

venting

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chona0912 hi , yes i have friends who aren't in the same circle . i have catholic friends like me and i also have non catholic friends. I cannot share my religious views on my non catholic friends but we respect each others belief and there is no problem with that and...

18 Sep 10

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When your spouse has their Ex boyfriend/girlfriend on Facebook. Is it wrong?

diedra24 @diedra24 (21) • United States 16 Sep 10

Recently my husband had left his facebook unattended and while yes I was wrong for looking, I looked. Turns out he had been messaging back and forth with an ex girlfriend. I normally wouldn't have minded but this was someone he...

facebook

love

relationships

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chona0912 hi , i don't know if its wrong but i think it would be very dangerous if you let him continue what he is doing. The next time he chats with his ex you sit beside him and let him know that you are uneasy with what he is doing.

17 Sep 10

Can I live if I become an online beggar?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

Two years without work make me think ways or create an idea that I think it can make me earn. One thing I thought is to open a beggar website or blog. A simple one and its only function is to ask for donation...lolz... Do you...

online beggar

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chona0912 hi , i think its very bad and you're very lazy . to think that you can go online means you have money , so why beg ?

17 Sep 10

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