cthorn

@cthorn (20)

United States • Age 40

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Christmas for the soldiers...

cthorn @cthorn (20) • United States 20 Nov 07

My husband's best friend is in the army and stationed in Korea. Unfortunately he won't be able to come home for Thanksgiving or Christmas this year and he's really disappointed that he won't be spending the holidays with his loved...

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Laser therapy treatments to quit smoking?? Does it work?

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 19 Nov 07

I started smoking when I was 7. I'm 30 now. I want to quit smoking really bad, but I honestly just don't know where to start. I have no will power and I just can't seem to stop and the more I think about smoking, the more I want...

acupuncture

laser therapy to quit smoking

quitting smoking

smoking

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cthorn My mother in law tried the ear laser thing, I think they shock a place on the inside of your ear and it's supposed to make you not want to smoke anymore. It costs like a hundred dollars and it does not work! She wanted to smoke immediately after she left the...

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What Would You Think?

girljar @girljar (287) • United States 15 Nov 07

My husband and I were separated for awhile earlier this year. We got back together in June, and we moved to Florida from Indiana. Since he's been down here, though, a couple of times he has gotten text messages from a woman in...

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cthorn Sounds like a pretty sticky situation. I think if it were my husband, I'd try to let it go. Unless the messages indicate that maybe she wants to start something up with him or that they already have, if she's so far away you probably have nothing to worry...

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I saw a motel transaction in his credit card statement? What should I do?

zanybrio @zanybrio (76) • United States 15 Nov 07

I was out on a trip of 20days 2 months back. Things have not been going good between my hubby and me. By chance today,checking something else, I go to see his credit card statement and saw a transaction for $45 for a...

cheating

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cthorn I'm the jealous type so I'd automatically assume the worst. How do you not remember paying for a motel room in the last few months? It's not like paying for gas or grabbing something to eat, seems like it would stick out in your mind. However, I always thought...

19 Nov 07

You're over 30 years old...do you still play video games?

jhartana @jhartana (1084) • Australia 18 Nov 07

As the title suggests, do you still play video games even though you're over 30 years old? If so, how often do you play? Are you married and still play video games? Does your partner restrict you from playing games? Do you play...

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cthorn This is a huge issue in my house. My husband is almost thirty and is totally addicted to World of Warcraft, a computer game. Apparently it's a really popular game where you play against other people from all over the world on the internet. He plays it for like...

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are YOU too dependent on your child?

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 18 Nov 07

I ask this and it may seem like a silly question to some. But i have been told this many times by my older sister as welll as my husband.. they say that i am too dependent on my 6 year old daughter... when they say this tey mean...

mother

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cthorn I am pretty much the same way, but I wouldn't call it being dependent on your child. I've been told that I'm selfish when it comes to my three year old son. When he was a baby I didn't like it when other people held him. I got upset about the way his grandma...

19 Nov 07

A Friend

bing_r77 @bing_r77 (237) • Philippines 19 Nov 07

How do you define a friend? What is its bounderies? Is there a limit of helping a friend?

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cthorn I define my friends as the people who have stood by me through thick and thin. They are the ones who will never leave your side, never do you wrong, the people who know you inside and out, and love you for every bad habit you have or every imperfection.

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What are ways you can make yourself Lose your voice?

primesend @primesend (85) • Philippines 19 Nov 07

If you want to lose my voice, what are ways?

health

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cthorn When I was younger, my mom could always tell if I had been drinking the night before because the morning after my voice would be almost gone. I think it's because people start drinking and won't shut up. Maybe you should try getting really loud, seems to work...

19 Nov 07

Do you believe that once we say something, it can never be taken back?

freeasabee @freeasabee (54) • Australia 19 Nov 07

We need to be careful what we say, because words are very powerful. Something that can be said to us 30 years ago, can still hurt us or still empower us. Being a parent I need to be aware of not saying something out of anger...

feelings

powerful words

words

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cthorn I believe that once you say something it can never be taken back. I can't remember things that have been said to me, but I can vividly remember saying hurtful things to other people. I can't say whether or not the people on the receiving end still think about...

19 Nov 07

why are fat people at the receiving end of society brutalities?

nathie999 @nathie999 (1) 14 Nov 07

A fat woman who boarded a taxi had to pay double the amount-because she's fat.... An overweight "guy" in college was labelled "mutant" by an educator... A seemingly fat lady lost her 3 year old relationship -bcos her guy said...

being fat criminal

fat woman

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cthorn It's not "criminal" to be fat. The problem is that some people are overweight because of their genetics and others because they are lazy. When you see a heavy person you automatically think that they are lazy and that they could be thin if they wanted too....

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Buying a PlayStation 2

krsnay @krsnay (1) • United States 11 Nov 07

My husband thinks that if we buy our son a Playstation 2 for Christmas we won't be able to find any games next year. He's afraid that PlayStation will stop making them, like xbox games when the 360 came out. Does anyone know...

buying

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cthorn The great thing about video games is that they can be bought and sold at used games stores. We bought a Playstation 2 a couple of years ago and have no trouble buying games for it yet, we even still buy Playstation 1 games because they work on the Playstation...

19 Nov 07

Politically correct! MIscarriage

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 19 Nov 07

A girl I work with just had a 'miscarriage' at about 12 weeks into her pregnancy. I was corrected by someone who told me that the word 'miscarriage' is no longer used, because it implies blame. I was told that 'Spontaneous...

miscarriage

politically correct terms

spontaneous abortion

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cthorn I think that spontaneous abortion sounds much more negative than miscarriage. I've heard both terms used, but I still say miscarriage. Even though the word makes sense, it still involves abortion, which automatically makes me think of a woman's choice to give...

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What do you buy most for Christmas gifts?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 19 Nov 07

Are you the one that shops for sweaters? Or are you the one that picks up that special little sentimental gift that will make someone cry....or are you the fruit cake shopper that send off something prepackaged like that? I try to...

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cthorn The gift I give the most are candles. Every woman displays candles in their home, burns candles, etc... There are so many different types of candles that you can find one that will fit almost any type of person. I even bought a money candle for my brother one...

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dreams

cthorn @cthorn (20) • United States 19 Nov 07

Has anyone ever seen their face in a dream? I used to dream that I would walk into the bathroom, stand in front of the mirror, and see my face all distorted looking. It was really odd. My face never looked normal. Has this...

dreams

What I admire most from my mother?

Verity @Verity (851) 19 Nov 07

My mother is known to me as a "Greatest Mother of All the Mothers I've ever known in this world." It is not only because I owe my life from her but also because she is a woman of splendid beauty, humility, intelligence, and of...

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cthorn My mom is the most giving, selfless person that I've ever known, which is the reason I admire her above all other people in my life. She has seven children and gives so much of herself to all of us everyday. She thinks of everyone else first, and herself...

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***Do You Drive With Your Right Hand, Left Hand, Or Both Hands?***

Kashmeresmycat @Kashmeresmycat (6369) • United States 19 Nov 07

I was thinking about this on my way home from work today and thought I'd throw this at you to see what you think. I am right handed but cannot for the life of me, drive with my right hand. Don't you think that's...

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cthorn I am right handed but only drive with my left. I think it's because I am always playing with the radio, which would be nearly impossible to do if I drove with my right. My husband is left handed, but drives with his right hand, which is odd, I wonder why he...

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What do you want for Christmas?

laurika @laurika (4532) • United States 19 Nov 07

This is the question my hubby ask me yesterday and I tell him, we are together for 2 and half year so he should figure it out by himself what I want. Did I do the right thing? If your partner will tell you this, will you know what...

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cthorn I've been married to my husband for five years, and every Christmas we go through the same ritual. I say I want nothing for Christmas, and I end up getting some random piece of jewelry. Ideally, he would know exactly what gift would be perfect for me,...

19 Nov 07