genesisgroldan

@genesisgroldan (214)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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it is really hard for a worker to afford a house

conquer2012 @conquer2012 (324) • China 15 Oct 11

nowadays, whether having a house or not has become a necessary factor to make evaluation on a person. while for a common worker, it is quite difficult to afford a house. Prices of houses in a common city can reach at a surprising...

to buy a house

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genesisgroldan I guess one of the greatest investment a person can have is a house. I myself is an employee who wishes to have a house someday. I think it is more like an achievement than a social status. For me, yes we must admit that owning a house is quite costly but for...

19 Oct 11

Times where you wish you would have listened.

megamatt @megamatt (14290) • United States 18 Oct 11

I think we understand the importance of listening to people. It is extremely important now more than ever before to really open your ears and close your mouth. However, that lesson was not always learned. I think that there were...

listening

listening regrets

listening skills

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genesisgroldan One of the qualities of a matured person is being able to listen more and talk less. Well, for me, that was also one of my problems before. I tend to talk a lot and listen less. The result? I did not learn so much until I decided to change that habit. Well,...

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Love at first sight or just an attraction?

angelgie05 @angelgie05 (118) • Philippines 19 Oct 11

hi people, me and my boyfriend had a discussion before about love at first sight.. I ask him if he believe in love at first sight and he said yes, because thats what he felt for me the first time he saw me... but I said maybe it...

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genesisgroldan I do not believe in love at first sight. Well for some I think they are attracted to the outer beauty then goes deeply to love. Love for me has a very broad meaning. It is like loving the whole person. Not just the outside but the entire personality and the...

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You Are Making Me Cry...

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5874) • Philippines 15 Oct 11

Ey, folks. I feel so overwhelmed right now. The latest topic I had posted here was very personal. Out of desperation and depression that I have discussed it here, wanting to share my burden and my pain, not to be understood but...

mnylot friends

mylot listeners

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genesisgroldan I'm sorry to hear that. But hey, this is the right place for you to vent those feelings out. You really did not need any advises right now and it is good to know that people here in my lot are very much wiling to hear your side of story. You can post anything...

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Going Abroad

7thspring @7thspring (233) • Philippines 12 Oct 11

Hi! I'm leaving my country soon to work abroad, particularly in Saudi Arabia. I know, it's the strictest nation and I'm kinda anxious about leaving. The thing I hate most is packing. What to pack and not? Do you have some tips?...

work

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genesisgroldan Wow you should be excited by now. Another journey and adventure of your life. Well, honestly I am not really into packing. Well I think that is because I have not found myself packing for overseas yet. Well as an advise try to pack the most basic and necessary...

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when you do good, you feel good!

Bashful87 @Bashful87 (123) 26 Aug 11

Everyday it is a must to us to do good towards others,when we do good, we feel good.Do you have any recent experience to prove the stand of this matter? If you have, then we're all excited here in My lot to hear from you.

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genesisgroldan Yeah I believe that this is true. When you think positive, you will also have positive results. This happened to me the other day. When I woke up, I programmed my mind to be happy and also stated some positive affirmations about myself. When I went to work, It...

15 Oct 11

nemenie...

thirdyballs @thirdyballs (73) 2 Oct 11

I find nemo as a heart warming movie. It really touched my heart. A very family oriented movie especially for father and son relationship. Nemo a light story and has a moral lesson. Watch and enjoy this with your family.

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genesisgroldan I agree with you. Finding Nemo is an awesome movie that every family should watch. It has a great moral value and somehow I find it very funny. Their adventure is quite a roller coaster ride. It is oughta be watched by little kids. And as what you have said it...

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Do you know what you want?

JosephP @JosephP (1115) • Jamaica 14 Oct 11

I believe that happiness comes from getting what you really want. The problem is that many people do not know what they REALLY want. They think they want something but when they get it they still want more. What do you really...

happy

life

want

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genesisgroldan I believe that you have to be clear when setting goals. It has been proven that the more specific you are in setting your goal, the more likely you can achieve it. Like "I will lose weight this year". It should be "I would loose 5 lbs in 30 days". You should...

15 Oct 11

What is the most interesting proof of love you have experienced?

jessica_red @jessica_red (9) • Romania 15 Oct 11

For example, my boyfriend found out that I couldn't sleep at night and that I needed to drink milk with honey before going to sleep. So, he looked for the black honey I needed and he brought it the next day so that I wouldn't go...

boyfriend

love

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genesisgroldan My husband is not that showy. Often times, I feel envious with those couples who seem very sweet with each other. My husband does not show his affection most of the times. But I know that he loves me very much. When I was about to give birth, I was surprised...

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Do you listen to people when they speak or try to interrupt?

sreekutty @sreekutty (1051) • India 15 Oct 11

I like to listen to anyone when they speak before replying, but a member in my family always thinks she is a 'radio' and speaks in between, not only when I speak to her, but also when I try to speak to others in my family. She...

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genesisgroldan That is a common problem. Mostly with our family or friends. I guess one thing that you can do is just trying to ignore her. You can always give way to her comment or idea but it does not necessarily mean that you are agreeing to which whatever it is that she...

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Ways to earn money online ?

dharan @dharanil (319) • India 15 Oct 11

Give me a way to earn legitimate (not scam sites) money online

make extra money

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genesisgroldan Hey! There are different ways to earn money online. You may visit several websites that are legit. Starting with writing, surveys or just simply paid to click advertisements. Here are some you can...

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How do you value your family?

janevi @janevi (888) • Philippines 14 Oct 11

Yehey! it's semestral break. Time to go for outing. Today, we are going to the one of the beautiful beaches with the family. It's bonding time once again, time to evaluate how have been doing this past semester. One of my...

bonding time

valuing our family

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genesisgroldan As same as other moms, I work 5 times a day. So during weekends, I make sure that I am committed with my family. No matter how tired I am, I make sure that I have enough time with them that makes our bonding valuable. I believe that life is too short to waste...

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How is you when you are 24 years old?

sunchen @sunchen (17) • China 12 Oct 11

I am a 24 guy.And I have just finished my college life which I still very missed.Now I begin my first career ,surely I appreciate my job now.To my sorrow,until now I have no girl friend which often confuses me.I want to get rid of...

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genesisgroldan When I was 24, I am still very much single and focused on my career. My life is quite wonderful and I can say that I am enjoying every single day of it. It was also the time that I met my future husband and surprisingly, I bore my first child at this age. Even...

12 Oct 11

time to end the relationship?

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 12 Oct 11

I believe that every relationship is different. It's time to end a relationship when the other person stops offering love and commitment into the relationship. When the person is not focused on going forward and growing in the...

heartbreak

relationship

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genesisgroldan Based on my experience, every relationship should have trust and respect for its major foundation. If one of these aspects dies, then road to ending the relationship might be a subject. Every relationship is a commitment. When you marry someone and so you...

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Not to take thingd for granted

rosdimy @rosdimy (3926) • Malaysia 19 Aug 11

Sometimes it takes a major event in life to make us realise about certain things like who our real friends are, and not to take things for granted. I suffered from a haemorrhagic stroke in May, and was warded for six days....

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genesisgroldan I am sorry to hear about what happened. But I do pray for you getting well real soon! Well we don't have to wait for a major event in our lives in order to see someone's value. As long as we live, we have to appreciate those people who have become a special...

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Life is fair or unfair?

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 19 Aug 11

I always get people stared at me when I go out to eat, shop, or pumping petrol. No, I am a local people born in my country 30 years ago. I don't have any weird signs on my face either. The question is am I look weird or...

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genesisgroldan Well you just have to know your capabilities and use your strength for being successful in life. If people always stare at you at times then that must mean that you are a good looking person. Find a career that may suit you. Perhaps, being successful depends...

20 Aug 11

I am feeling good ! I am feeling great !

amitabh_sen @amitabh_sen (23) • India 17 Aug 11

Every morning when you get up say ten times "I am feeling good ! I am feeling great !" Try this for 2 weeks regularly. You will see a noticeable difference in yourself !

feeling good

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genesisgroldan I will try this again. I kept on making affirmations every morning but it is not constant. I believe that this will help you start your day right. Looking at the mirror and saying good things about yourself and life can make you feel better. I also believe in...

18 Aug 11

Do you really listen to others?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 18 Aug 11

At times others may give us advice or suggestions that really don't want to hear. When others talk to you do you listen? Or do you tune them out when they say things that you don't care to hear? For me at times someone may give me...

listening

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genesisgroldan Honestly, there are times that I really do not listen to others' advice. I make it to the point that I listen to them when they do me a favor of sharing their piece of cent that I'm analyzing the situation first. It really is not necessary to follow everyone's...

18 Aug 11

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