kjhasselstrom

@kjhasselstrom (304)

United States • Age 51

Joined myLot 20 years ago

Live today like it's the last day...

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should a 42 yr old woman get pregnant or not?

ruthinian @ruthinian (2309) • United States 22 Feb 08

I'm 42 yr old and just got married recently. I have no child of my own but I am raising a 6 yr. old autistic boy from my hubby's failed relationship. The boy is his third kid. The first two children (both girls, working and in a...

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kjhasselstrom You may want to have a serious discussion with your husband about his lifestyle and maybe make some changes together. You have a right to have a fear--and keep this in mind, a man's sperm do not age. Women's eggs age. So your husband will have the sperm of an...

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Why Can't I Get Pregnant Darn It!!! Any Sugesstions? (Be Nice LOL...)

SassyKittyKat @SassyKittyKat (2135) • Australia 21 Feb 08

I'm 29 and I will turn 30 in October. I got married in April of 2008 and I had been on birth control for almost a month when I did. I got off of the birth control around June or July of 2008, in hopes that I would get pregnant....

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kjhasselstrom Hello :-) I would get a second opinion or ask to be referred to a Reproductive Endocrinologist. There are things they can check and medications to help you maybe ovulate better. Also, I recently found a great online resource. Do a search online for the...

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WOW...Totally Thrilled...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 13 Sep 07

WHOO-HOO!!! I just had to share this!! I just got my very first payout from MyLot :) :) I am so happy!! I'm just so thrilled to not only see the payout but to know that MyLot does just what they say they do. Thanks MyLot and good...

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kjhasselstrom Way to go!!! DO you mind if I ask how much it was?? Thanks for sharing :-)

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Picking up the vet bill for someone else's cat?

sedel1027 @sedel1027 (17846) • Cupertino, California 7 Sep 07

DH has a cat -Billy - that lives at his moms house. When he moved out 6 years ago, he tried to take Billy with him and she said no because Billy was use to the area and she didn't want to move him. Last year they had to sell their...

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kjhasselstrom I think it depends on how comfortable you are with taking to her. Your DH may not want to ask her to pay for any of it, so you can politely bring it up in conversation, especially since money is tight. If she offers to pay back, great, however, if not, take it...

8 Sep 07

Separation Anxiety for dogs????

Lil Bit aka Royal Mom @royal52gens (5488) • United States 8 Sep 07

As some of you are aware, my hubby and I separated in July. Now you would normally expect some issues to arise with the children, right? The children are doing rather well. But Lizzie (one of our dogs) is having a very hard time....

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kjhasselstrom When my ex and I divorced, we had 3 cats at the time. I know that the older one did not like the change--as most cats love routine and hate change. My cats did eventually adjust to my new husband, however, when the ex would come over for the kids, meow, the...

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Is it true Zoloft makes people gain weight?

Lovelylilpeapod @Lovelylilpeapod (110) • United States 4 Jan 07

Is it true the prescription drug, Zoloft, causes weight gain? I'm just curious, cuz I'm starting Zoloft. I want to make sure this is a true statement, cuz I have not gained weight from various birth controls, quitting smoking...

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kjhasselstrom I did gain weight--- I went from size a size 5 to a size 12 in one year!! I also was not moving much because I was in pain, but I did gain a lot of weight, which in return made me depressed about that. I took Zoloft for depression and PTSD.

8 Sep 07

Side Effects of Anti Depressants?

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 31 Jul 07

After the birth of my son fourteen months ago I was diagnosed with severe postnatal depression, and went onto Zoloft, an anti depressant. I had no side effects (well maybe a dry mouth occassionally but that wasn't too dramatic...

anti depressant side effects

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kjhasselstrom I was on Zoloft for PTSD and pain---did you know Zoloft helps with that as well?? Anyways, it worked well for me. I did suffer insomnia, but had to take medication for that too. My side effect was weight gain. I had to say good-bye to my size 5 and hello to...

8 Sep 07

Social Security Disability...SSI

creativedreamweaver @creativedreamweaver (7297) • United States 6 Feb 07

I need some information, as I have seen on here, that there are several of you in the US, that are on Social Security Disability. My doctor has recommended that I apply for it, but I am hesitant to do so, even though I know it...

disability

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kjhasselstrom Hello--- Even if you have not worked, you can still collect disability benefits--I was just awarded my SSD and SSI and now we are checking to see if my children and husband qualify to receive benefits as well. I was in a car accident and have been messed up...

7 Sep 07

Where Do You Pray??

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 7 Sep 07

I've always believed that God can hear me no matter where I am...in the shower, lying in bed at night or anywhere. I believe He is with me all the time and therefore can hear me anytime I want to talk or pray to Him. I don't think...

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kjhasselstrom I find myself praying to God throughout the day--and it does not matter where I am or who is with me. If I need to speak to him I just do so knowing that he will answer. As for going to church, I have to be completely, whole-hearted to attend. I don't want to...

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Nails....

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 19 May 07

Do you keep your nails long or short when you are typing on the pc? I see women at grocery stores with llloooonnnngggg nails that still run the register like crazy. I have to keep mine short or I end up hitting the wrong keys and...

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kjhasselstrom Oh a post about nails--I am so excited to write something... I have been a nail bitter all of my life! I have only grown my nails out 4 times in my lifetime--and the longest time only lasting 6 months. Now my nails were short--I mean no nail bed and bitten...

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I am sooooooooooooooo depressed.

Lil Bit aka Royal Mom @royal52gens (5488) • United States 4 Sep 07

Recently, I am aware that I am depressed. I sleep a lot. I have a hard time getting myself motivated to do anything. Is it any wonder? Considering what my summer has been like? Fine! I am depressed. I can accept that. I don't like...

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kjhasselstrom Oh hun--I went through months of depression early this year and then on and off again... Thankfully, I am on a off again cycle-- I was so depressed about life and my poor kids and husband were and are amazing! The appetite went away, I could not sleep and I...

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Exes: Do we really miss them or are they a security blanket?

gmakesmoney @gmakesmoney (2923) • United States 7 Sep 07

I was just thinking about an ex and out of nowhere I realized that the relationship was never really great and while it was intense and had it's moments they was never really more than but a handfull of them throughout the years....

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getting over an ex

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kjhasselstrom Excellent post--got me thinking about all of mt ex's and past relationships. I absolutely DO NOT miss any of them. I was where I was supposed to be at the time and I loved my ex deeply. I did fall out of love with him and therefore, knew I had to move on. The...

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I demand to know......Which one of you did it!!!!!!??????

Lil Bit aka Royal Mom @royal52gens (5488) • United States 7 Sep 07

That is right! I noticed. Which one of you got your discussion deleted? Who got banned?? How do I know this has happened?? I just re-checked my money and I am down .06 cents since this morning. So one of you did it. LOL Who got...

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kjhasselstrom LOL--ME ME ME---Oh wait, I'm not on your friends list...yet?!? Would be great to make a new friend...

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I want to know what is the hold up with my application for disability benefits?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 29 Dec 06

I am waiting for health benefits from the Quebec government. I am in pain, permanently disabled by a disease and they are making me wait and wait for their decision. My doctor tells me I cannot ever work again. I just want to...

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kjhasselstrom I have been waiting for my disability benefits since 2004 and from what I understand, the government can take their sweet lil' time awarding them. I am in the same boat as you as I am in a lot of pain and just want to get fixed! I don't understand this. I...

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How Can I make money

johatesjazz @johatesjazz (5) 29 Dec 06

Does anyone have any ideas how I can make some extra cash. I work full time (in the uk) and need to get an extra £200 per month. Any ideas?

money

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kjhasselstrom What kind of skills do you have? DO you write, can you draw, do you know how to make digital graphics, do you know any html?

29 Dec 06

Really good - Letter to spouse

cute_missmary @cute_missmary (3866) • United States 21 Nov 06

My Dear Wife, You will surely understand that I have certain needs that you with your 54-year-old body can no longer supply. However, I am very happy with you and I value you as a good wife. Therefore, after reading this...

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kjhasselstrom LOL---Funnt stuff. I've received this in my email a few times over the past few years and it never gets old. Thanks for posting, made me laugh! You get a (+) :-)

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It's expensive to raise healthy kids!

thinkingoutloud @thinkingoutloud (6127) • Canada 28 Dec 06

I have a real problem with the fact that, where I live, I can buy a 2-liter bottle of soda for maybe 87 cents on sale but it costs between $2.50 and $3.00 for a 2-liter of skim milk! We hear in the news, on a regular basis,...

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kjhasselstrom Ut-oh, putting us on the spot eh? I honestly think we don't have healthy eating habits. My daughter, she loves fruits and veggies so she likes to make sure she has plenty to eat, and she is only 11. I make them drink milk and lots of water daily, but I...

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Airlines loosing luggage

rosebug23 @rosebug23 (1906) • Australia 27 Dec 06

My grandchildren came to stay with us for a few days over christmas.When their parents picked them up from the airport tonight my grand daughters luggage was missing. She is so upset as all the christmas presents we and other...

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kjhasselstrom Oh your poor grand daughter. I feel for her and your daughter--how frustrating! Your story reminds me of the movie, Meet The Parents, where Ben Stiller's character lost his luggage and all that jazz... I have never had that happen (knock on wood)... but I...

28 Dec 06

ORIGINAL topic here...........

pookie92 @pookie92 (1714) • United States 28 Dec 06

Do you believe in the "bucket" theory? Let me explain. When a person is "created" there is an empty bucket. Only so much room to fit everything in that compiles a person. In this "bucket" you will find beauty, brains,...

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kjhasselstrom That is a very interesting theory--and oddly enough makes a lot of sense to some extent. I do know a few people that seem to have it all, beauty, brawn, and brain. I agree with the post above mine, I will be looking at people in a different way wondering...

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Many family members have quarrels and don't speak to each other. Do you?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 23 Dec 06

Is there someone in your family you don't speak to because of a quarrel? At holiday time, many families will avoid each other because of this. Others will find a way to forgive and enjoy the holidays together. Will you be alone...

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kjhasselstrom I depends on the situation. My husband and I do not speak to his family on his dad's side. We just found out that his sister had written a bunch of checks using an account that my husband closed a long time ago. We are wondering how these checks even got...

28 Dec 06

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