mafi0831

@mafi0831 (108)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Why do People Marry and Quarrel after?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 31 Oct 09

Before marriage, most people are always wanting to satisfy their partner and then there are full of love, kindness and so on. However, once they have gotten married, they may tend to quarrel for all kinds of reasons without any...

mariage

quarrel

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mafi0831 As a married woman, i married my husband because i love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him. I want to fulfill my dreams with him. But there are times that we can not avoid to quarrel for some petty reasons. The cause of that is i still don't...

31 Oct 09

Should I Stay or Should I go?

usemyname @usemyname (640) • Philippines 28 Oct 09

Is it ok to stay together with your spouse even though things are not working out? I mean, we tried everything. . . From couples therapy to reconcillation but nothing seems to work. I'm thinking of dissolving our marriage but what...

dissolutio of marriage

for the kids

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mafi0831 It is really hard to be in a situation like yours. I thinks that it is better to let it go. Things are not working out to both of you after you have done everything. I can see that there is no more love. That is why it is not working out anymore. If you both...

29 Oct 09

When is it ok to lie? For example,

bryanwmc @bryanwmc (1051) • Malaysia 26 Oct 09

When is it ok to tell a lie? Sometimes truth hurts more and has no foreseeable gain apart from making things more miserable,whereas a little white lie can avoid a bad situation, When is it ok to lie or should we tell the truth all...

lying

truth hurts

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mafi0831 i think that it is okay to tell a lie if the situation badly needed. If that lies will do good to that person, we can lie. It is just white lies. If it will be advantageous to the person, it is ok to tell a lie. For example. a friend of yours tells you that...

27 Oct 09

what do you feel when you KISS someone that you dont LOVE?

amyson @amyson (3498) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

kissing have a lot of meaning,but kissing someone that you dont love make you feel guilty?i watch some of the movies that they kiss someone not their girlfriend is just alright do they feel guilty of kissing someone that they dont...

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mafi0831 i have not tried kissing anybody except my husband. I believe that kiss is sacred. You should only kiss. In the movies, actors and actresses kiss each other because they are just acting. They are paid by their acts. But in reality, kissing someone you don't...

27 Oct 09

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Life without LOVE is NO Life at all?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 25 Oct 09

From where I stand, a life without love is just like an unsharped pencil. Yes, love brings passion and desire, the passion to do things, the desire to be with someone ---whats the point of waking up everyday...

life

love

passion

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mafi0831 of course, love is the most important thing in this world. Life without love is useless. Love makes the world go round. We live because of love. Love for our friends, family,animals,etc. We are inspired to do things because of love. I can not imagine life...

26 Oct 09

Are you still eager to check your Mylot earnings daily?

phillip_shiny @phillip_shiny (2330) • India 24 Oct 09

Dear people, I am still eager in checking mine. Because I am glad to see the reward the very next day... I get my earnings updated tomorrow if I work today.. Not even at the time of paying 'cause I have a strong faith that...

earning

mylot daily earnings

mylot earnings

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mafi0831 i am also eager to check my earnings because i am new here and still curious if i will earn something. my friend told me to try this mylot and i will learn a lot of things. So far, i like mylot. I hope that someday my earnings will increase. I am earning while...

25 Oct 09

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3 signs that your man is cheating

BART78 @BART78 (2927) • Canada 23 Oct 09

girls, singles, this if for you: how do you know if you are dating a cheater? 1. revived interest in appearance, i your date suddenly undergoes a makeover of sorts, in which he spends much more time on his appearance, it could...

3 signs of cheating

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mafi0831 hahaha, is it based on experience? just asking my friend.

25 Oct 09

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Have you ever lost your wallet? How much was in it?

charmz1005 @charmz1005 (679) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

I think most of us lost are wallet, maybe because it was stolen or misplaced. Just curious if what was the largest amount of money did you lost with it? I think mine is about P100, which is equal to $2, lol. I was young back then,...

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mafi0831 I lost also my wallet. it was stolen by a pickpocketers in CM Recto. I was freshman then and i was new in manila. I have a backpack. A man behind me told me that my wallet was snatched. When i saw my backpack, the zipper is opened. I was really upset because...

25 Oct 09

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on what month does 1st school sembreak falls in your place?

xannebull @xannebull (1793) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

today is the first school semestral break of all students, from preschool to college, and all of the students are having a week to rest and the school would resume after all souls day celebration.how about you?

sembreak

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mafi0831 tomorrow will be the start of my son's sembreak and classes will resume Nov. 3. Office just have a one day holiday in nov. 2 so i will not be able to enjoy the sembreak with my son. He will just stay at home and play computer games. That's it.

25 Oct 09

French fries with what ? coffee, sauce, tea, mayo ........

aweins @aweins (4199) • India 25 Oct 09

i love french fries but now i eat less becaue they are nothing but fried potato and full of fat and calories. now i cant afford to have an inch also more on me. i have suffered a lot after pregnancy. d you people enjoy french...

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mafi0831 I love french fries especially with mayo mixed with catsup. It is really delicious. You should tried it. You are correct, it is full of fat and calories but i really can't help eating it. Just dont eat it when you are pregnant. It is bad for the baby.

25 Oct 09

How to sell myself in public?

zhangmingyuan @zhangmingyuan (60) • China 24 Oct 09

I am so inward that i seldom sell myself in public,i am afraid of talking in public ,i have tried many times and i faied many times ,i donot why ?meybe it is with my education.my teacher and parent often tell us the studying grade...

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mafi0831 Education is really important but it will be useless if you will not express it in public. People will not be able to know you. If you will be shy, nothing will come to you. You should be confident to face them. At first, it is really hard because you will...

25 Oct 09

Japanese or Chinese food?

redphile @redphile (2264) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

These two fine cuisines are what I crave for when I go out. Well, I eat Filipino dishes at home already so I want to try something else. Japanese food: I love sushi, tuna sashimi, california maki and the hot wasabi! Yum! At...

chinese

cuisine

japanese

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mafi0831 i would rather eat chinese food if i have to choose between the two. I don't like eating raw foods. I like to eat chinese foods. But i want to give a try eating japanese foods.

24 Oct 09

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Does a Man has right to beat his wife?

deepika201 @deepika201 (268) • India 18 May 09

Today when i was coming from my office ,i saw a man beating his wife.As i am against domestic violence, I went and scolded the man and told that i will call the Police.But to my utter surprise the woman scolded me and told me to...

beat wife right

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mafi0831 of course not. Husband has no right to beat his wife. Marriage does not give the husband the right to beat his wife instead he is given the full responsibility to take care of his wife by loving her and not by hurting her. Marriage is a bond blessed by God so...

24 Oct 09

would you move or stay?

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 19 Oct 09

Hello, I have a few questions to ask and want to get some advice if you have. If a couple, who married here and have house and work over here ... but all the sudden the husband wants to go back hometown to open a business that...

move or stay

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mafi0831 Well, I experienced that but we were not yet married. I decided to give up my career and stayed with him in his hometown after marriage. I decided to do that because I believe that I can look for another job there. I am now staying with him in his hometown for...

20 Oct 09

Do you prefer homemade food or outside food?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 17 Oct 09

I prefer homemade food than the ones outside the confines of the house. For one, you can assure that the food made in your own house is indeed safe and is really within your taste and preferences. I miss my mother's homemade...

eating

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mafi0831 I prefer homemade food becuase it is safe and costs lower. there are times that i dont want to cook so i just buy outside. But it is rare to happen. My husband doesnt want outside food. If i am tired, I will just ask him if we can buy outside but he doesnt...

17 Oct 09

Does your spouse snore?

froggieslover @froggieslover (3069) • United States 17 Oct 09

I was just sitting listening to my husband as he sleeps and I can't help but be annoyed by his snoring. He for some reason just recently started snoring but it seems to be every single night now and it is loud. He never used to...

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mafi0831 My husband is snoring. I am used to that. I wake him up he doesn't snore because there might be problems. If my husband is snoring that's the time i know he is sleep already. I even hug him during sleep and i am not bother with his snoring. If you love your...

17 Oct 09

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My friend borrowed money and never came back

shadow41 @shadow41 (2351) • Philippines 17 Oct 09

Actually he was a friend of my friend and I can say we're just acquainted to each other. He came to me begging to let him borrow some money. He said he's going to pay something really important. He promised me that he will return...

borrowed money

friend in need

lending

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mafi0831 It is really disgusting what happened to you. I have also experienced that. Like you, she never borrows again because she still owes me. There are people who are really pro in borrowing but after borrowing they got amnesia of paying. Those are sweet talkers....

17 Oct 09

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are you in favor of the automated election next year?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 15 Oct 09

Good governance is based on a relationship of trust between the government and its citizens. The instruments and mechanisms of such governance must also be trustworthy. In the development and application of information and...

automated election

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mafi0831 I am in favor of automated election next year but i still have doubts that it will result to an honest election. but i think it can minimize the frauds, because after a couple of days there will be results already. Manipulation can be minimized but still it is...

16 Oct 09

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Businessman or Employee Forever

viewxyz @viewxyz (59) • Indonesia 15 Oct 09

Sometimes I think being a businessman is a good ideas, but sometimes I think not. Realizing there is always a Good side and the Bad Side from it, make me confuse to take decision. I have two condition here: 1. Being a...

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mafi0831 Putting up a business is really risky. You don't know if it will earn or not. unlike if you are employed, you are sure that there is always money to be earned. but for me, no employee will be rich because the employee helps his employer to become richer and...

15 Oct 09

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