If you have a job without Aggravation, you don't have a job

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@pgiblett (6524)
Canada
January 29, 2016 8:23am CST
This saying actually came from a fortune cookie, that I took a picture of some time ago. If you have a job, ask yourself how aggravating it is? How much time do you spend responding to every other person's petty little needs rather than getting on with your own work? Why won't that phone stop ringing? You have to admit it, this has to be one of the things you actually love about the job, it makes you feel needed. Everyone craves to be left alone, to be free of aggravation, yet it is a part of every job whether CEO or the janitor. How aggravating is your job?
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
29 Jan 16
If there is no work or anyone to bother us, we will get very lonely and quit the work. I think jobs such as night security guards or cemetery keeper or other jobs that require not much human contact are not for most of us. We will feel very lonely though it is peaceful and quiet.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
Human contact is so important and I am sure the night security guard wishes for something to happen so that he can call the police and doing so justify his job.
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@vandana7 (102699)
• India
29 Jan 16
It depends upon the nature of work you are doing. If you are preparing legal document, you don't need disturbance. My bosses in my last employment were good at using their cellphones and laptops, but when it came to intercom they sort of found it below them. Then messages were sent to me and I had to go to their room to answer silly questions for which Intercom would have sufficed. Yeah..that kind of aggravation we all can do without.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
@vandana7 Not had an intercom in an office for at least 20 years, wow there is a blast from the past.
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@DaddyEvil (174797)
• United States
9 Feb 16
I'm honestly not sure how to answer this, Pete... My job is to cater to the wants and needs of my cell phone customers. I sell cell phones, both contract and pre-pay for a living... I LOVE my job! I love helping my customers save money by finding them the exact phone and plan that best suits their needs. I love explaining how to use new features that new generations of cell phones exhibit. Most of the time, I even love helping my customers trouble-shoot problems they encounter while using their phone... Hint: Quite a bit of the time, the problems lie with the owner of the phone, not the phone... One thing I can tell you for sure, no matter how well you know your phone, there is always something you don't know how to do on it!.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
But if all the customers went away and no longer had problems with their phone, then you would no longer have a job would you?
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
@DaddyEvil I know, but here there have been many closures of mobile phone stores.
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@DaddyEvil (174797)
• United States
9 Feb 16
@pgiblett OMG! You are being funny now, Pete! You and I both know the chances of that happening in my lifetime is exactly 0%!
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@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
I think I agree. The more responsibility the less bliss. However how we handle the challenges will determine how well we do the work?
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@vandana7 (102699)
• India
29 Jan 16
Actually, if the work moves with a steady graph of responsibilities it is fine. One day there is little or nothing the next day you don't have time to breath...it can get tense.
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
@pgiblett Now I'm confused as manager your work was to respond to others? @vandana7 I agree work load is important.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
@Bluedoll As a manager I had about 1 and a half hours to do MY work, the rest of the day was frequently taken up by responding to the needs of others (not that it wasn't part of the job). @vandana7 Steady movement is always useful, it is always good to get it off you plate, by either passing it on or completing it quickly.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 16
I don't think I agree with that - I loved my job and had very little aggravation.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
And what was your job then?
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
@jaboUK and the horses never tried your patience?
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
29 Jan 16
@pgiblett I worked with horses, taking them from semi-wild animals to tractable well-mannered riding horses. Though that was not the sum whole of my job - I did everything associated with horses.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
My jobs have aggravation. I would like to just teach when I am at school, not collect lunch money etc. etc. Mystery shopping has its share of aggravation too - repetitive tedious reports spring to mind. But I am sure there are aggravation free jobs out there too.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
31 Jan 16
@paigea okay didn't know that.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
@jaboUK Seems to have managed to find one. Take a look at his response.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
@pgiblett jabo is a she. I will look.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 16
Very.. I am in sales and numbers do the talking, so I always need to find new clients.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
and of course that is a source of constant aggravation, I have worked with many marketing people over my life. Good to know you.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
@nottoooldtowrite The worst thing about prospective clients are those that will not sign, eventhough you know they need your services.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 16
@pgiblett good to know you too. Thank you.
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@irishidid (8687)
• United States
1 Feb 16
I work in a hotel and it varies. Some guest feel they are entitled and are rude to the staff but on the whole there are many more nice people. I find it's also a good resource for humorous writing material.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
I have spent many a day in hotels as I have traveled on business I remember being behind one of those people when checking in one day. The first thing I said the the member of staff when she finished serving that person was "take a deep breath and hum, then once you have gotten them out of your system please talk to me."
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@rebelann (117285)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Feb 16
Yes, I completely agree ..... it's so aggravating that I can't get back to sleep once I've awakened to answer the call of nature. On the plus side, I'm retired so I deal with my furbabies and myself, no boss tells me what to do and if I get a phone call it's exciting, I just love to talk it up with those telemarketers, poor things aren't allowed to hang up on me so I just jabber on.
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@rebelann (117285)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Feb 16
EXACTLY @pgiblett isn't it fun to hear the aggravation in their voices as they try to get us to end the conversation?
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@rebelann (117285)
• El Paso, Texas
9 Feb 16
Well only if I don't get those dang recordings which bore me to drinking @pgiblett
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
@rebelann You must be set to have some fun is year then?
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
30 Jan 16
I think that being aggrivated is the part what employers are paying for. Lol.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
I must disagree with you. It is part of the duty of a manager to reduce conflict in the workplace. I always sought to resolve conflict whenever it arose.
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@LadyDuck (502957)
• Italy
29 Jan 16
This is an intelligent remark. I think it's true, we feel more important and needed if we have more challenges.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
We should be looking for the next challenge.
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• United States
31 Jan 16
When I was working my job has times when it was aggravating but one the whole it was fine. There were co-workers I found more aggravating than the job itself
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
31 Jan 16
Aggravation can come in many forms - co-workers and people in other departments can be among the worst
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
2 Feb 16
I have had a YOB for the last 38 years, but retired last year. I didn't misspell the word. YOB means Your Own Business. In the Direct Sales industry that's what we called our JOB. No boss but yourself, but it was NOT without aggravation, of course. There were always customer complaints and upper level management to deal with. While we were not employees, we still had to follow the rules and upper level management was always changing the rules, and the profit structure and the sales levels, etc. I am so happy to be retired, even though I enjoyed my YOB and reaped a lot of benefits from it, such as FREE all-expense paid trips to Europe, Mexico and other places in the USA. Now, I don't have to put up with any aggravation. and that means a lot to me.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
I like that term, in the UK a yob, was a young layabout who adopted yobbish attitudes (particularly towards the police). I prefer your definition. You see the self-employed person's aggravation is always from the customer, I know I have been there as well.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
@IreneVincent It is funny how one thing has a different meaning in another place.
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• United States
9 Feb 16
@pgiblett I wasn't aware that a yob meant that in the UK. I'll have to remember that. At one time, the company I worked for had, sales teams in the UK and Ireland but the tax structure there finally caused the company to withdraw. That was several years ago.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Jan 16
The stress was pretty bad, so yes, it was aggravating. I was glad and sad at the same time when they fired me. The stress just rolled off my shoulders. So now my job is right here. I'm retired. The most aggravation I have is keeping up with the notifications.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
30 Jan 16
Those notifications can be stressing if you don't keep on top of them. Retirement can certainly stop the aggravation.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
31 Jan 16
@just4him that is so simple to have, which is why I decided to control them and not let them build up.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Jan 16
@pgiblett I'm getting a handle on the notifications today. I have a hundred to go, lots better than the three hundred I had a couple days ago.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
29 Jan 16
In my last job I did a lot of training. Some were easy to train but others.... Let's just say I considered checking myself into the nuthouse!
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
I have been to many training events and I can understand precisely what you are saying. Again it proves the fortune correct.
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@vandana7 (102699)
• India
29 Jan 16
I was the source of aggravation I suppose. lol.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
29 Jan 16
What here? No way? Just keep doing what you do!
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
9 Feb 16
Not very.. my new job as a social media strategist can be stressful yes.. I have short deadlines and clients don't always know what they want. But aggravating no. It was worse previously, when I worked with a bunch of empire building corporate old boys, who basically BSed their way to the top & would do anything to stay there. So I can hands on heart say, the job doesn't have to be aggravating, it's what you're willing to put up with.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
9 Feb 16
Clients that don't know what they want is a common problem, that has been my life.
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
9 Feb 16
@pgiblett Yep, I actually make my living based on that.. so can't complain. xD
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• Canada
20 Feb 16
At times it is very frustraiting, but I also remember that there is more to it then frustration.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
20 Feb 16
Of course there is more than frustration, that is the joy of it.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
19 Feb 16
you have a point, we all like to feel needed. I work from home and yea even with that there is still some aggravation.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
19 Feb 16
I also work from home and there can be many aggravating things (especially when waiting on others to respond) but I have found over time that as soon as all aggravation is gone from the job it is time to move on (or you will be let go).
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@OKennedy (1130)
• United States
21 Feb 16
That is the thing with us today we aren't ever happy. We want a job then we have one and we hate it when things don't go smoothly. When that happens with anything I am doing I stop for a moment. I step back and think I remember before I started this how much I wanted it. When I got it I remember how Happy and Grateful I was to have it because it was a step in the direction I wanted to go. Now think how many others would give a limb to be in my/your miserable source of employment that helps you keep a roof over your head,clothes on your back and food in your stomach.After that you are less likely to be as upset. Regroup refocus and get to it. Finish the task and when its done and out of the way you can move forward.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
22 Feb 16
I am a great believer that we should be grateful for the things that we have. You are right that sometimes life can be tough.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
23 Feb 16
@OKennedy I agree we can't let it consume us all we can do is learn from it and help us grow stronger.
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@OKennedy (1130)
• United States
22 Feb 16
@pgiblett Life is tough and it is tougher for some of us at different times. We just need to not let it consume us.
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