What I Love About Retirement Communities
@DeborahDiane (40848)
Laguna Woods, California
February 17, 2017 3:20pm CST
Recently, @JudyEv wrote that she and her husband are looking at retirement communities in Australia, where they live. I am curious to read what she finds out, because I wonder if they are pretty much like retirement communities here in the U.S.
In the U.S., there are generally two kinds of retirement community.
One is called a CCRC or Continuing Care Retirement Community. They can be very expensive because you have to buy into most of them and, in addition, you pay a large monthly fee. However, that fee includes your place to live, your meals, maid service and any nursing care or memory care facilities you need in the future.
The second type is the over-55 Active Adult Community. In those, you buy or rent a home or condo. They do not provide meals, maid service or medical care. You live independently and pay for any services you may want. As people age, they often hire caregivers, housekeepers and other service providers they need.
I live in an over-55 Active Adult Community. One advantage is that the condos here are less expensive than similar condos in the surrounding area. Southern California is very expensive, but the condos in our community cost less than similar homes outside the community.
Another advantage is there are many, many facilities in our community which are designed to keep senior citizens active.
Our community has 12,000 condos and 18,000 residents. It has six general clubhouses, a performing arts clubhouse, a golf clubhouse, a library, a community center and a city hall. There are two golf courses, five swimming pools, several tennis courts, three paddeball courts, three gyms with young personal trainers to assist us, a lovely park, and stables with horses the residents can use for lessons or trail rides. (I enjoy the stables regularly; my husband prefers golf.)
My husband has a number of serious health problems and we appreciate the fact that many of the activities are open to people with limited strength or endurance. People are tolerant of each other, as well.
There are over 200 clubs which residents can join. Every day there are dozens of classes you can take, including art and exercise classes. You can also take computer technology, photography, history, government, language, music and other types of classes. There are dinners you can pay to attend, as well as parties, plays, concerts, and special events. There are two "drop-in lounges" where residents can stop by for coffee or tea.
Our community is four miles from Laguna Beach and, within a ten mile radius, we are surrounded by restaurants, shops, hospitals, movie theaters, museums, skilled nursing facilities and everything else we could possibly need to maintain a good quality of life as we age.
No one could possibly do everything available here, but the variety of activities prevents anyone, no matter what their age, from sitting home and doing nothing.
One of my friends calls my community "summer camp for adults."
My retirement community is not unusual. There are communities like mine all over the United States. Some of the better known ones in the U.S. are The Villages in Florida, Laguna Woods Village in California, Sun City Texas, and clusters of other retirement communities in places like Lancaster, Pennsylvania, Green Valley, Arizona and Palm Springs, California.
Now you know a little about the retirement community where I live. I am looking forward to learning more about the ones which Judy and her husband visit in Australia.
I know that @JamesHxstatic moved to an Active Adult Community in Oregon with his wife Anne a couple of years ago. He enjoys playing pool with the other men in his community.
Do you live in a retirement community, or plan to move to one in the future? I can't wait to hear what others think about them.
(The photo above is the view of one of the golf courses from the restaurant at the golf clubhouse.)
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 17
It does sound like an ideal way to live - I don't think we have anything like that in the UK. I could be wrong, but I've not heard of any, not near us anyway. We've lived in our house for over 40 years, and we'll go out feet first - the same as PainsOnSlate.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane I honestly don't think we will ever leave. If we become incapacitated we will employ someone to look after us in our own home. Obviously we hope that will never happen.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
17 Feb 17
@jaboUK - I have seen the photos of your garden. It is so beautiful, I think I would be happy to be buried there! Maybe you'll never have to leave. LOL
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@Mike197602 (15504)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 17
You're right...I said the same thing.
Nothing on that scale in the UK and I looked.
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@sallypup (69190)
• Centralia, Washington
17 Feb 17
Wow!! on where you live. I looked into a community in Oregon. Its not a good fit for us cause we have dogs and cats. And its also too confining- it sounded like we'd be in a motel setting until we were gone. We are seriously thinking about moving somewhere else when my hubby retires in a few years. We need to get near a bus line. I will miss the three acre freedom but age happens. Its going to be like ripping off a bandaid when I leave here but like I said, age happens. I need a place that has enough land for a garden and hubby needs a shop. We both need places to walk and mental stimulation- university and poetry groups.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
17 Feb 17
@sallypup - Washington is a beautiful state. You might be able to find a one-story house in a small university town where there is a college emeritus program. Sounds like that might be a good choice for you!
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@Marilynda1225 (91126)
• United States
17 Feb 17
My girlfriend and her husband moved into an over 55 community a few years ago and !ove it. They are always busy and their social life is amazing. I don't live in an adult community but there are times I seriously think about moving to one
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@Marilynda1225 (91126)
• United States
18 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane it does sound like fun and I wouldn't mind downsizing
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
17 Feb 17
@Marilynda1225 - When we moved here, some of our friends thought we were "too young," since I was just barely 55 and my husband was 59. However, we have lived here 12 years and never regretted our decision. We both have at least one activity in the community every day ... and sometimes two activities. The hardest part was downsizing, since we had a fairly spacious house. However, once we gave away a lot of our "stuff" to our four daughters, it has actually been a relief and life is so much simpler.
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@JudyEv (382324)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 17
@Marilynda1225 @DeborahDiane The few we know who live in these places love the lifestyle and keep telling us we should do it sooner rather than later. We're not quite so sure yet. :)
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@garymarsh6 (24028)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 17
OH my that sounds absolutely perfect, so many groups and activities to entertain and keep you amused and occupied. I would love to live somewhere like that and all the time maintaining your independence. We don't quite have the same thing here although there are some small housing developments I do not think they are as well organised as that. They are on a much smaller scale. I think there should be similar places like that here as there is a big market for something along those lines.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@JudyEv - There you go ... start one of your own! Maybe you could have one where you could keep Herc! LOL 





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@JudyEv (382324)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane I don't think I have quite enough millions!
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@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
17 Feb 17
I do not live in a retirement area but there are some lovely ones around that friends live in. We bought the single family forever home with the idea that we will be here until they come to get us with a hearse.....We like the neighborhood and the neighbors, most on the street are older, very few children.. Your place sound very interesting.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
17 Feb 17
@PainsOnSlate - You made the most popular decision, which is to remain in your pre-retirement home. That is what the majority of Americans do. Retirement communities are often full of people who had to move for medical or financial reasons, as well as those who were not attached to their former home and neighborhood.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@JudyEv - Yes, I have known a few people who stayed in their pre-retirement homes too long, and things did get complicated for them. One couple we know ended up with her husband sleeping on a hospital bed in their kitchen, because they had a two story house and he could no longer get upstairs. They finally had to move.
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@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
18 Feb 17
I have not played so much pool lately, but I do play table tennis (very competitive games) three times a week and we have been swimming in the indoor pool and hot tub pretty often.
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@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
18 Feb 17
@JudyEv I read an article about table tennis being good for aging brains, the motions and coordination involved helps clear the fog or something. 

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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@JamesHxstatic - Our community has lots of amenities, but it does not have an indoor swimming pool. Some people in our community would like to have one of our pools enclosed, but there are no plans to make that happen. It would be nice, though, in rainy or chilly weather.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
23 Feb 17
Senior homes are the need of the hour and India is slowly embracing this idea. I had this dream and did a lot of spade work in this direction. I even wrote a project but so far did not succeed in putting up anything. Have not given up.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
23 Feb 17
@allknowing - Keep working on this idea. You are right that senior homes are the need of the hour.
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@LadyDuck (502636)
• Italy
19 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane I know I remember we visited some when we traveled there several times a year.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@LadyDuck - They are very popular here. There are retirement communities in nearly every state.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 17
@LadyDuck - I'm glad to hear you visited retirement communities in the United States.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54716)
• United States
27 Feb 17
It sounds like a wonderful place to live.

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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
28 Feb 17
@Tampa_girl7 - We were lucky to find a place that we enjoy and can afford. I like to encourage other people to look for places like this, too.
@CookieMonster46 (13453)
• United States
20 Feb 17
Honestly by the time I am able to retire, I may not be able to afford to live in a retirement community if they are very expensive.
I am single right now, and this is always a thought of mine, what will I be doing when older, if I am not with someone. Will I be able to afford to live comfortably.

@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
25 Feb 17
@just4him - Yes, there are great places to live all over the world. There are retirement communities all over the U.S., too. Pennsylvania has some great ones.
@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
20 Feb 17
@just4him - I think it helps that we are living in a mild climate, so people can get outside and do things the year around.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane I'm sure that helps. Though people can do things in any climate.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@JudyEv - I'm sure you saw my other comment that there are several retirement communities in the U.S. which are much larger than ours. The one thing we have that is unusual is the stables. We believe we are the only community that has stables and horses.
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@JudyEv (382324)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 17
@DeborahDiane Yes, I can't believe lifestyle villages could be so huge! That's quite amazing.
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@nottoooldtowrite (2715)
• Philippines
18 Feb 17
Sounds like a wonderful community.
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@DeborahDiane (40848)
• Laguna Woods, California
18 Feb 17
@nottoooldtowrite - We enjoy living here. We stay busy!
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