How do you let someone know they have stinky breath?

@TheHorse (238294)
Walnut Creek, California
October 10, 2017 6:07pm CST
With little kids, its easy. You say, You have doggy breath! Did you brush your teeth this morning, young lady? But with adults, it's a bit more nuanced. If it's one of my college students, asking me a question at close range, what am I supposed to do? The horrible part is you wear it for awhile. Do you have a solution to this ubiquitous problem? I'm off to see a kid client, a tin of Altoids by my side. Minty fresh breath is important to me.
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@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
11 Oct 17
Difficult question. So, the second best is to have strong mints around. If not for her/him, for you. Mints help with smelling less.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
I should give a lecture about oral hygiene at the beginning of the semester.
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@JudyEv (381942)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Oct 17
I wouldn't say anything but is there any way to tell if you have bad breath yourself? That's what worries me.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
I try to test it now and then. In my case, I'm sure my preschool kids would let me know. One asked if I was pregnant once.
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@DianneN (254931)
• United States
11 Oct 17
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@JudyEv (381942)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Oct 17
@TheHorse And were you? That would send me on a diet pretty quick.
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@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
11 Oct 17
I don't say anything. It's hard though because there are some people who really come up close to talk and I wish they would just let me keep my space then I wouldn't have to smell their breath. If I can smell their breath than they are too close.
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@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
11 Oct 17
@TheHorse I have a highly sensitive sense of smell. I smell stuff that isn't even there. So I'm guessing I could smell it and quite possibly bother me.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
My breath smells like ambrosia and nectar (and Altoids), so it wouldn't bother you.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Oct 17
@patgalca I have a sensitive sense of smell too. Sigh.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
11 Oct 17
I usually bring chewing gums with me. I don't need to say foul statements towards a person with halitosis. I offer a gum to ease up breathing with this person.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
12 Oct 17
@TheHorse Then, I will endure the agony.lol
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
That sounds like a good plan. But what if they say no?
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Oct 17
@Shavkat The humanity!
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Oct 17
My suggestion, similar to how you take care of your own breath. Kindly offer that person a breath mint, while taking one yourself, first. This will help resolve the problem, without saying a single word:)
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
I've done that. When they say "No, thanks," I suddenly remember that I have an important meeting to go to.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Oct 17
@TheHorse LOL Good for you, your breathing is a whole lot more important than another person's silly question!
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• Peoria, Arizona
11 Oct 17
I normally just try to keep my distance or smell my arm or sleeve or something. and if they are one of those people that are always in my face then I just slowly say halllitoooosisss. And then leave, I am way too sensitive to smells haha
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
A am too and always have been.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
25 Oct 17
I have the same problem , some of my colleagues have such awful breath that it becomes difficult to make conversation . They insist on coming close while speaking which makes it worse . I honestly don't know how to tackle that.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse I feel that is a combination of poor dental hygiene and drinking not enough water especially in a tropical country like ours where we need to drink a lot of water .
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
Can you tell where their stinky breath comes from? Is it gum disease? Is it anxiety? Is it poor dental hygiene? Is it some deeper disease? I'm always curious.
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@divalounger (6182)
• United States
11 Oct 17
I offer breath mints!
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
Do you first say, "Your breath smells like baby poop"?
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
12 Oct 17
It' a hard situation because when the person talks to you in a close manner, you have no choice but to bear it. Though sometimes, I would stand and pretend to get a tissue and blow my nose so I can go near the trash bin on the corner of my table place.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
12 Oct 17
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Oct 17
I start thinking about laundry, and what shirts I have ready to change into.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
25 Oct 17
It can be very awkward but if it someone you must have contact with then maybe a subtle offer of a Tictac might suffice. If they refuse, insist it would be a good idea, that should get the point across.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse Well it beats pointing out that the odor of garlic sure does linger lol
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
I'm not sure if that method would work for me.
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@LadyDuck (502316)
• Italy
11 Oct 17
It's hard to say something, some people get offended. I would suggest to bring mints with you and to offer immediately some to the "offender".
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@LadyDuck (502316)
• Italy
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse You eat one mint and offer one, just it was a candy, this way people should not feel offended.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
A student bummed a "f*g" from me last night. I enjoyed that. But I don't know if I'd feel comfortable proactively offering someone a mint.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
11 Oct 17
I wouldn't know what to say. I would just try to move a bit more away if that was possible.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
I'm bound by my job to listen carefully and provide helpful responses. Sometimes I want to take a shower when I get home from teaching.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Oct 17
@fishtiger58 The Humanity! Two hours later, I'm driving...what the heck is that? No doubt a couple of doggy breath particles became dislodged from my clothing and floated up to my nose.
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@fishtiger58 (29819)
• Momence, Illinois
11 Oct 17
@TheHorse Yea just the thought of that is supremely nasty.
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@teamfreak16 (43581)
• Denver, Colorado
11 Oct 17
I don't know. I just keep quiet and try to get away as quickly as possible.
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
I think that's my usual strategy as well. But when it's a student, I'm trapped!
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
@teamfreak16 I can tel you everything they've eaten for the last three days and exactly how anxious they are.
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@teamfreak16 (43581)
• Denver, Colorado
25 Oct 17
@TheHorse - Yuck.
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@redurnet (1796)
• United Kingdom
24 Oct 17
I guess you could offer them a mint. I had a similar problem with a colleague but I was too shy to even offer them a mint!
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@TheHorse (238294)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Oct 17
Yeah, I'm still not sure what to do about that one.
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• United States
22 Jul 18
i usually just try to get away from them.it sucks when you have no choice tho. i used to work with a guy whose breath was like a field of rotting corpses. i think he had stomach problems..
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
13 Oct 17
Oh what is the toothpaste you use? Colgate..salt fresh...ah that one...I tried that before but it did not help much..I use this now and change my brush every second month. I use it twice and even use mouth fresheners..so that nobody gets to complain. Do I smell good? Message reaches without telling them.
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@DaddyEvil (174335)
• United States
14 Oct 17
WOW! I should hope you don't have a breath problem if you do all that trying to keep it from happening, vanny! I brush after eating at home and rinse my mouth several times if I have eaten at work or when we are out somewhere. "salt fresh"? What is that?
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@DianneN (254931)
• United States
11 Oct 17
I keep backing up. If they keep stepping forward, I'm out of there!
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@DaddyEvil (174335)
• United States
14 Oct 17
Hey! You don't have to back up THAT far, Dianne! I promise, I carry mints just in case someone around me has bad breath! (grinning at you!)
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@DianneN (254931)
• United States
14 Oct 17
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