~I Was Called A Scammer~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
Valdosta, Georgia
January 13, 2018 2:40pm CST
Hey everyone. I had something weird happen earlier today. It took up too much of my time and energy but I had to say what I knew to be the truth.
I'm the admin of a babysitting group and once in a while, drama happens. Someone was bashing another woman saying she does not pay her babysitters. I babysat for this woman for years and she always paid me with no issues.
So, someone messaged me and said I am a scammer just like the woman who supposedly doesn't pay her babysitters because I defended her. 
I have nothing to hide, I am not a scammer, I love the Lord, I love people and I ignored the message as if I did not even see it. I know I'm not a scammer, but I thought it was something worth sharing here...
Have you ever been called something that is the complete opposite of who you are?
I have nothing to hide, I am not a scammer, I love the Lord, I love people and I ignored the message as if I did not even see it. I know I'm not a scammer, but I thought it was something worth sharing here...
Have you ever been called something that is the complete opposite of who you are?50 people like this
53 responses
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
13 Jan 18
You're admin why would you lie when you have a good reputation on there? I'd just ignore that one person.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
14 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies They are just jealous and trolls on the internet. Just because they had a bad experience 'supposedly' they shouldn't bash on other people. I would definitely remove them from the group but also report them too. They shouldn't be giving such information out like that.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@infatuatedbby These ladies were very mean and disrespectful, telling everyone where she lives-where she works-how her husband is deployed-too much info. Then they attacked me too.
Just sad how some people have such hatred in their hearts. =(
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@LisaSteinmetz I did remove 2 people but another is not even in my group. I'm guessing a friend of hers is?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Jan 18
Yes and negativity is always bothersome. One negative comment makes a bigger impression than 99 positive ones.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@JohnRoberts Lot's of people are going on my prayer list today. I feel sorry for them since they are so angry. =(
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@AmbiePam Yes they do and it's so sad. =( I am adding them to my prayer list. They just don't know who they are yet.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Jan 18
Oy 
! You, a scammer - oh please. All you did was tell her your experience with this babysitter . . . and it happened to be a good experience . . . that's no reason to point a finger to accuse you of being a scammer too. Ugh, the things people say and do as they create more drama 
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! You, a scammer - oh please. All you did was tell her your experience with this babysitter . . . and it happened to be a good experience . . . that's no reason to point a finger to accuse you of being a scammer too. Ugh, the things people say and do as they create more drama .5 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@much2say 
Yes it was a very good experience, I babysat for her many times and she always paid me.
I know, lot's of people going on my prayer list today. 
Yes it was a very good experience, I babysat for her many times and she always paid me.
I know, lot's of people going on my prayer list today. 2 people like this
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
13 Jan 18
Always. 
Because people either just assume, or go by what little they know of you or heard about you, over actually getting to know you and seeing who and how you really are.
Or they have beef with you over something and want to try to ruin your reputation. .
Shame that they called you a scammer though. Thats definitely not you.
Because people either just assume, or go by what little they know of you or heard about you, over actually getting to know you and seeing who and how you really are.
Or they have beef with you over something and want to try to ruin your reputation. .
Shame that they called you a scammer though. Thats definitely not you.6 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@Courtlynn Yeah, I am definitely not a scammer but they were just taking their anger out on me.
I will be praying for them, that's for sure.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
13 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies yeah thats terrible
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@NJChicaa (116106)
• United States
13 Jan 18
I wouldn't worry about it Jen. Let people say what they want. YOU know what the truth is both about that woman and about yourself.
I had someone send me what was supposed to be a "mean" message last night. (I got it this morning) I just had to laugh at it and move on with my day. I could barely read it anyway so I have no idea what it was supposed to say. Pretty sure it wasn't fan mail though.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@NJChicaa Thank you. Yeah, I'm not worried much-I was just surprised by the hatred some people have in their hearts. =( Just adds more people to my prayer list.
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@NJChicaa (116106)
• United States
14 Jan 18
@CoralLevang oh no this was an attempt at English. Just absurdly misspelled.
@GardenGerty (157650)
• United States
13 Jan 18
People who are scammers are scamming in order to get some kind of benefit. You stood no reason to benefit for defending this person or testifying to the truth you had from her. These meanie drama queens are nuts. I am glad you spoke up for her.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@GardenGerty Exactly, I have nothing to gain and I wouldn't hurt people like that regardless.
I have to speak the truth.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@jstory07 I do know it's definitely not true. God knows who I am, I will just be praying for her. =)
@LeaPea2417 (36496)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Jan 18
I am sorry that happened to you. No, I it has not happened to me.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@Leapea2417 Thank you. I'm glad it hasn't.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@Juliaacv No she clearly does not. Lol. I have been called a snob before as well because I am quiet. I don't know why people think that about shy people? Strange to me.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@just4him Yeah, this was very untrue as well.
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@kobesbuddy (74713)
• East Tawas, Michigan
13 Jan 18
Oh yes, I sure have been accused and attacked, for being a terrible lady, disguised as a Christian. One boy on this site was following my writings and we both commented, often. One day I addressed him by saying, 'Hey,dude!' He was badly hurt, to imagine that I'd called him names! I explained to him, 'Oh, I was just kidding around, a dude is a male who dresses in very stylish clothing!' He was devastated and stopped My Lotting, because of my meanness! His mother is on My Lot and she attacked me for being so mean to her son. She even tried to get my account closed, because I'm just pretending to be a Christian! I didn't know what to do
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@kobesbuddy He was hurt because you said hey dude? That's not mean though-how strange and sad that he got so offended by it.
I did not know there are any son/mother relationships here on Mylot. That is awful they said that to you. You have proven you are a true Christian in many ways here so don't let it get you down!
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@kobesbuddy (74713)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies Thank you, I do try very hard. But, to say something mean to a young boy, is so unlike me. I adore children, at all ages! He misinterpreted what I said, as if I had called him names
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@nela13 I did ignore it because I won't give people the satisfaction of answering silly messages like that.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
13 Jan 18
I would just ignore them. She may have been late or an agreement that she didnt follow. Its ssd that they lump everyone who disagrees in with them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@ricki_911 I doubt she was even late to be honest. This lady paid me up front and extra usually for years. Don't think she changed in that way-now she makes more money than when I babysat for her!
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@Madshadi Yeah i realize she just doesn't know who she is so I just prayed for her.
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@JamesHxstatic (29256)
• Eugene, Oregon
13 Jan 18
You are the last person I would ever suspect of scamming.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@JamesHxstatic Thank you, I would never do anything like that.
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@MsBooklover (3974)
• United States
13 Jan 18
I probably have and just try not to think about it. It sounds like this person wants to cause trouble.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Jan 18
@MsBookLover Yeah, they have a lot of anger inside. I will be praying for them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@Daelii I absolutely agree with you! They just don't know who they are so I just pray for them. =)
I'm no longer offended by people, no one can take away what they did not give me.
@taciaelisepeace (1809)
• United States
14 Jan 18
All the time but I never let if affect me. I know who I am :).
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Jan 18
@taciaelisepeace That's awesome, me too! I am a child of God and so I just prayed for her. =)
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