Question of The Day- Success
By DB
@dgobucks226 (37621)
April 30, 2019 5:37pm CST
What is your definition of success? What does it mean to you?
For me success can be defined in multi-dimensional terms. There is no one correct set definition for success. Many aspects in one's life could be interpreted as success. For instance, achieving the goals you set for your yourself is a sign of success. Some people might equate success with material wealth. Others may look at success in a spiritual way...being content with your life as an example.
But I do believe people place an emphasis on what they believe being successful is for them. Which gets me back to my original question... how do you define success?
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@rebelann (117238)
• El Paso, Texas
3 May 19
Ahh, like waking up alive @dgobucks226 not something I tend to take for granted given the alternative
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
Sometimes the things we take for granted can be the most important in our life,
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
1 May 19
I think we feel quite similar about it. Most people would probably say a new car, big house, money to travel with, etc....
Though on a personal level I think anyone who has a belief system they are content with, fulfilling friendships, has a roof over their head, food in their belly, clothes to wear and bills paid - is a success
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
6 May 19
@dgobucks226 Awesome! It's so true... I feel like relationships with one's Creator, with one's friends/family are a big piece....
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
I couldn't agree more with that assessment! Simply put success may lie in freedom and fullfillment. Your relationships with people can be an important measure of success.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
1 May 19
As far as I'm concerned there is no success if we don't have a good relationship with our Creator and we must be happy with our lives.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
4 May 19
@dgobucks226 I have never been attached to money. I worked hard and always did well, thanks to God of course. People are more important than things.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
I agree with your viewpoint and would also say extending that relationship to family, friends and even strangers can provide us with an inner peace. A lot more valuable than being rich.
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@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
1 May 19
Success is subjective. For me, it's making it through the day with my family; that makes me successful every day

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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
I agree! Success is what you define it. Having a supportive family is more valuable than being rich for sure. The most important thing in the world is family and love!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
Totally agree! Success is more than just making money. Other traits like Self-belief and hard work are examples of other important contributers to success.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 May 19
Good question and one that takes a lot of thought.
I've never looked at success as material wealth. Okay, I did as a kid, but not as an adult. I don't even think success can be measured by the number of friends you have.
I think success is living your life true to yourself without compromise. It's knowing that I made someone happy today, I encouraged someone, I put a smile on someone's face and made them laugh. It's knowing what your values are and living according to those values, again, no compromise.
I live successfully. I never give a harsh word or answer when someone asks me something. That's not to say I'm never harsh. I'm a mother after all. I'm not negative. I look at the positive side of life. I see the beauty in broken vessels - people. We are all broken people. We all need a word of encouragement. If I can do that, I'm successful.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
I see what you getting at and it is very well stated Valerie. It seems you are saying traits like honesty, character, integrity, faith, love, and loyalty are much more important than your bank account. Having a positive self-image is spreading that positivity to others is a great way to define a successful person!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
4 May 19
@dgobucks226 That's exactly it. 
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
6 May 19
I agree with what you have said. Success can be defined in many different ways. We see high-powered business people as 'successful' yet there are plenty of people who have achieve a lot or who are successful in other ways. I do not always consider myself successful in my career because I am not earning a living from writing. On the other hand, I do earn some income from freelance writing so, in some ways, I am successful. Apart from that, I have a lovely, loving family - I know that I am a good mum by seeing how my children are growing up. That is success too.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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7 May 19
Yes absolutely right! There are numerous ways to measure success. You make a very good point there, Success in being a good Mom is so important. Mothers do so many things for their children and cannot be replaced by anyone.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
That's true. The fullfillment you receive from taking care of your family provides you with happiness and a sense of accomplishment.
@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
That's an interesting viewpoint on success. I also think character is a very important factor. Being yourself, treating others with kindness, having integrity are keys to living a successful life!
@RasmaSandra (98016)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 May 19
Right no success for me means I can get by writing online and as long as my writing is accepted and I can get all the work done I am successful.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
Your relationships with people can be an important measure of success. Also the acceptance of your writing contributions provides you something much more important than money, a sense of self-satisfaction for a job well-done.
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@porwest (112876)
• United States
1 May 19
For me it is pretty simple. It does not matter what title you have and it does not matter how much money you make. If you HAVE money, that's success no matter how it is derived. I have a friend, which we actually just visited in Miami on our vacation, that makes $120,000 a year, and is a professor at a college in Ft. Lauderdale. I do not consider her successful because she is flat broke. She is overdrawn in her checking account, has $50 in her savings account, and is in debt to the tune of $50,000 in credit cards. She lives in a high rise luxury apartment in downtown Miami overlooking the bay, she has a PHd, she drives a Mercedes less than two years old, she makes a good wage, and yet...I do not find her successful at all.
On the flipside while my wife and I combined make six figures, we drive a 2011 Ford F-150 and a 2010 Ford Edge, neither of us have college degrees...but we have money in the bank. I think we are successful. We could be 100% unemployed for at least five years and not blink an eye. Not only is that success in my opinion, that's COMFORT.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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3 May 19
A very convincing argument and a terrific example of how preparation and living within your means, in addition to showing proper discipline, is important in fiscal matters. To have that financial peace of mind helps in relieving stress and aids in securing happiness in life. I wonder if your friend life is really fulfilling since having material things is offset with such financial issues?











