Death of a loved one..trying to deal

United States
July 30, 2019 5:46pm CST
Trying to deal with the death of a loved one right now. And that loved one is the guy who many of you know as @goaskalice I am his fiance, and he passed away this past weekend. I just really don't have the appropriate contact information to let the developers of this site to know. So I am hoping they can reach out to me via mssg on here, email (I think I have two registered on the site. My apologies and condolences to those who knew him from the site, and have worked with him over the past many years. We, his family are all in a state of shock still as well. Much love to everyone.. Edit: Firstly, thank you so much for all of your thoughts, prayers and condolences. I am overwhelmed by the number of responses. To answer what i can of repeated questions i saw as i looked over all the comments. He was 52 years old, did have some health problems that flared up now and again, but as far as it has been determined at this point, he passed away peacefully in his sleep (he suffered from mild sleep apnea) Myself, his children, grandchildren and the rest of his family and friends cannot thank everyone enough for the outpouring of care and concern and prayers and donations etc. They are all so greatly appreciated as we are still in mourning/grieving for him. Once again, so much love to you all. ~FruitCakeLiz
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@myLotBugs (211)
• Kansas City, Missouri
30 Jul 19
I'm in shock right now..... Gil was the heart and soul of myLot for a good decade. I never had the pleasure of meeting Gil in person, but I respected him and trusted him like a true friend. @fruitcakeliz I am so sorry for your loss.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
31 Jul 19
Gil was a friend to many people here, even though he was known to most as 'Alex' and to a some others as @Xfahctor (though they might not have known about his other role). His patience and forbearance (and sense of humour) as an Admin was, I know, appreciated and respected by many. I'm sure that many, like me, will want to send our love and condolences to all of you, his family.
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@allknowing (130074)
• India
31 Jul 19
He did talk about his illness and perhaps he succumbed to it. Will miss him.
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• Philippines
31 Jul 19
i remember that username, but never noticed the connection all this time. i don't even remember the original alice anymore.
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• United States
31 Jul 19
Yes I remember him as @Xfahctor, thank you owlwings.
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@Juliaacv (48512)
• Canada
30 Jul 19
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. I have not been a member of the site for the many years that some others have been, but I respected and counted on him fixing things in the background, which he always did. He helped see to it that things ran as smoothly as possible. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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@moffittjc (118252)
• Gainesville, Florida
30 Jul 19
I am sorry for your loss, and I offer my condolences. Thank you for sharing and letting us know, even in this difficult time for you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.
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@TheHorse (204797)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jul 19
I am in shock. I admired his sense of humor and his sense of integrity. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
31 Jul 19
@myklj999 Thanks JJ for the link!
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@TheHorse (204797)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Aug 19
@myklj999 I did not! Fun stuff. I wish I'd gotten to know him better.
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• New Baltimore, Michigan
4 Aug 19
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@JudyEv (324933)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Jul 19
I am so, so sorry. My sincere condolences to you and his family. That's very sad news.
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@vandana7 (98641)
• India
31 Jul 19
He was just 51!
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@JudyEv (324933)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jul 19
@vandana7 It hardly seems real. Very sad.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48868)
• United States
31 Jul 19
@vandana7 that is too young to die
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@vandana7 (98641)
• India
31 Jul 19
I am really sorry for your loss. This is really painful I know to lose fiance like this so suddenly. Hope god gives you strength to withstand this pain and feel his consoling presence in your painful moments.
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@rebelann (111026)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Jul 19
My condolences for your loss, and I know he will be missed here by so many of us.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
31 Jul 19
whaatt!! nooo!!! rip, alex. thanks for everything. so sorry for your loss, liz.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
31 Jul 19
I am so sorry to hear about his passing. So many of us had the opportunity to chat with him personally. My thoughts and prayers are with you and his total family and friends.
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@DianneN (246338)
• United States
31 Jul 19
I am in shock and so very, very sorry to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences.
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@NJChicaa (115855)
• United States
30 Jul 19
I am SO sorry to hear this! @mylotbugs
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@Happy2BeMe (99411)
• Canada
30 Jul 19
I am shocked and saddened to hear this. My sincere sympathy to you and his family.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
30 Jul 19
Oh my goodness. I had no idea! So sorry for the loss.
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@much2say (53827)
• Los Angeles, California
31 Jul 19
I'm so sorry to hear this. I've always appreciated his good heartedness and humor - oh he will be missed. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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@FourWalls (61783)
• United States
31 Jul 19
I'm so sorry as a myLotter. I'm more sorry for you on the personal level. My prayers and sympathies to you.
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@LadyDuck (456875)
• Switzerland
31 Jul 19
I am so sorry, I cannot believe that it is true. Please accept my condolence, I am on this site from many years, I considered him a friend, even if we never met.
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@kobesbuddy (74243)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Jul 19
This news really saddens my heart I will be praying for you and for your family, after this very painful loss of a loved one
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• Peoria, Arizona
30 Jul 19
Oh dear, that is terrible. My condolences on your loss.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
RIP Gil... Now, who will do his work? A big loss to Mylost family.
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