Are you ruthless or just ruth?

@JudyEv (381739)

Rockingham, Australia

September 7, 2019 11:33pm CST

A friend is the most obliging, peace-loving person but is having trouble with one son who has now called her ‘ruthless’. For some reason, this made me think that there is no ‘ruthful’ or even ‘ruth’ in English. At this point, I thought I’d better google it and wouldn’t you know it? Both ruth and ruthful are actual words. ‘Ruth’ means, according to the Merriam-Webster online dictionary, ‘compassion for the misery of another’ or ‘sorrow for one’s own faults’. ‘Ruthful’ means ‘full of ruth’ or ‘full of sorrow’. So that’s my something learnt for the day. ‘Uncouth’ is another word which is quite common. ‘Couth’ is not quite so common but is an actual word. I find language and words fascinating. I don’t have a photo for ruthful or ruthless so here is a bonus kangaroo picture.

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@LadyDuck (502148)

• Italy

8 Sep 19

Thanks for another kangaroo picture, I love to see them. Thanks to you I learnt a new word today.

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@LadyDuck (502148)

• Italy

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv It happens that I hear Italian words that I never heard before.

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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)

• United States

8 Sep 19

I love seeing the kangaroos too.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

I was quite surprised to find it was a word. I won't be using it as I don't believe any of my friends would have ever heard of it.

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@porwest (112717)

• United States

8 Sep 19

It is always fun to learn new words. It's funny to me that we use both ruthless and uncouth all the time, but never ruth or couth. Hmm. Might have to start spreading those around a bit and see if they catch.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

You might get a few blank stares for a while.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

@porwest It used to really bug me. Say something and out come the mobiles. But I've had to admit that sometimes it's really handy to be able to get instant answers.

@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

10 Sep 19

@JudyEv Gruntled is another that you don't hear but disgruntled is fairly common.

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@rebelann (117196)

• El Paso, Texas

8 Sep 19

Well blow me down, I didn't know that, thanks for the English lesson

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@rebelann (117196)

• El Paso, Texas

9 Sep 19

I always thought Ruth was simply a name @JudyEv

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

@rebelann Me too so I was really surprised.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

I guess everyone knows ruthless but very few know of the others.

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@moffittjc (128824)

• Gainesville, Florida

8 Sep 19

Lovely, thanks for today's educational session on the English language! I had no idea about ruth and ruthful. Those are words you just don't hear anyone saying these days. Maybe we should all start using them and make it 2019's buzzing trend words! And I learned something new today as well...that learnt is an actual word!

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@moffittjc (128824)

• Gainesville, Florida

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv I didn't need to look it up...you said 'learnt' was a word, so I took that as being as good as the word of God! LOL

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

Yes, I'm allowed to spell 'learned' as 'learnt'. Perfectly legitimate. Did you look it up?

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

@moffittjc It was the word of the Goddess!

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@birjudanak (14316)

• India

8 Sep 19

Sometimes in angryness people speak anything and this words are like that which i think. Sometimes here people keep saying you are not good person even make a single mistake or else. I am addicted to see different photos of knagsroo now.

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@birjudanak (14316)

• India

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv wow this time baby too. Yes i not take many things on mind but let people to do what they do. Only little hurt when our own people do but its OK as part of life and Thanks for sharing kangaroo.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

@birjudanak The little joey is having breakfast without getting out of bed!

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

Don't take any notice of unkind people. And here is a kangaroo to make you feel better. If you type 'kangaroo' or 'kangaroos' in the search part of myLot, you should be able to see more posts about kangaroos.

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@Janet357 (75638)

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9 Sep 19

thank for this info miss judy.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

10 Sep 19

@Janet357 Had you heard of 'uncouth'?

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

You're welcome. It's strange the odd things you come across.

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@Janet357 (75638)

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9 Sep 19

@JudyEv cout is a new word to me.

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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)

• United States

8 Sep 19

We have more words then we even use.

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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)

• United States

9 Sep 19

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

We don't really need so many, do we? I know most of us only use a portion of what's available.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (44560)

• United States

8 Sep 19

In the past I wondered how you could be the opposite of ruthless and "ruth" made no sense. Thanks!

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (44560)

• United States

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv Ruthful sounds as odd as ruth!

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

The title should really be 'ruthful' but I don't want to change it now.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (323168)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

8 Sep 19

I like the picture. It reminds me of me in my struggle to zip up my dress. Words are very interesting. I didn't know those ones either.

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Valerie J. Routhieaux

@just4him (323168)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv They really are the pits. Total ugh if they get stuck.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

Zips up the middle of the back are the pits, aren't they? And then if they should happen to get stuck - ugh.

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@MarymargII (12422)

• Toronto, Ontario

8 Sep 19

I've always wanted to be Ruth but alas was just called Linda-- lol! Good point made. I didn't think they were words either!

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

I was really surprised! I'll probably come across it in a book now. That's what usually happens.

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@MarymargII (12422)

• Toronto, Ontario

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv I know I learned something new for sure.

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@thelme55 (79311)

• Germany

8 Sep 19

Beautiful kangaroo. I seldom heard or read ruthfull but ruthless, often times.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

It's funny how one has become popular but not the other.

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@thelme55 (79311)

• Germany

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv that is true.

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@Hannihar (130150)

• Israel

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv Nice kangaroo picture. Thanks for telling us what Ruth means.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

10 Sep 19

I'm in the same place this morning but haven't seen any here yet. Some days we don't see them at all.

@Hannihar (130150)

• Israel

10 Sep 19

@JudyEv I am sure that can happen.

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@Loverabbit (3401)

• Karachi, Pakistan

8 Sep 19

Nice share....so I am ruth but not ruthful cause that will make me look like mr sorrow forever

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

I've never heard the word before so I won't be using it.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

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@Loverabbit (3401)

• Karachi, Pakistan

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv I hadn't but when I searched for the related photos it was sth like this.....oh dear no no

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@DocAndersen (54399)

• United States

8 Sep 19

sometimes I wonder about the process of being a parent. gratitude is sometimes missing.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

That's true here. It must be so hurtful as she wouldn't know the meaning of the word. Well, she would but no-one could ever call her 'ruthless'.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

10 Sep 19

@DocAndersen I think so too.

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@DocAndersen (54399)

• United States

9 Sep 19

@JudyEv it feels like more of an intentional attempt to wound.

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@maximax8 (31042)

• United Kingdom

9 Sep 19

I love your kangaroo photo. I also find words exciting to play around with. I am a peace loving person. I once knew a teacher called Ruth.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

I think Ruth is a lovely name. I was surprised to find it is just an 'ordinary' word.

@jobelbojel (36791)

• Philippines

8 Sep 19

I think I am ruth and not ruthless. By the way, that is a nice photo!

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@jobelbojel (36791)

• Philippines

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv exactly, I would not understand too.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

No-one would know what I was talking about if I said I was ruth. They would think I had changed my name.

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@CookieMonster46 (13453)

• United States

9 Sep 19

I have heard people use Uncouth and Couth, not Ruth, but Ruthful I love the pictures of the Kangaroo.

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

9 Sep 19

The title should be ruthless and ruthful but ruth is the noun.

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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)

• United States

8 Sep 19

aw, sweet pic! i love watchin' critters groom 'emselves, 't times most comical. 'tis 'lways a great day when one learns new thingies. i'm 'mazed by words quite oft, tryin' to figure with some how i've been'n this earth so long 'n 'd ne'er heard 'f 'em 'fore, lol. 's fer yer friend. i reckon she's told that son "no" 'bout somethin' 'n he might be tryin' to hurt her. some young'uns 're jest like that :(

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

Kangaroos do a lot of scratching and grooming. This one was in a really good position for me to get some good photos.

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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)

• United States

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv makes me miss mr. squirrel! what a blessin' to've those right out'cher windows, hon. would so love to see all 'f yer pics 'f such!

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

8 Sep 19

Okay, that is something I do not know also. Thanks for the new words

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

8 Sep 19

@JudyEv yes, that is true

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

8 Sep 19

I wouldn't use them if I were you because I don't think too many people would know them.

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@JohnRoberts (109841)

• Los Angeles, California

20 Sep 19

There needs to be a dictionary for Aussie speak!

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@JudyEv (381739)

• Rockingham, Australia

21 Sep 19

Probably but we only use 'ruthless'. I 'm sure that's common in your country too. What about 'gruntled'? That's one I forgot to mention. I never hear it in everyday speech but it's a word. I hear disgruntled occasionally.

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