I&#39;m Considering Leaving myLot

@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

I don't think you could offend me. You're always positive and upbeat and one of the hardest working people I know. I've got my joy back. Thank you.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (458591)

• Switzerland

11 Apr 20

Skip the negative posts and read only the positive, this is what I do. We are not obliged to read what we dislike.

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@Aquitaine24 (11653)

• San Jose, California

11 Apr 20

I agree with that.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

@LadyDuck I know. It looks like I'll be picking and choosing from now on.

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Thelma

@thelme55 (76484)

• Germany

11 Apr 20

That is what I am doing. I skip those negativity as it makes me sick. I try my best to be positive.

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Four Walls

@FourWalls (62267)

• United States

11 Apr 20

People don’t like people who have joy all the time. That’s their problem, not yours.

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Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (157627)

• United States

11 Apr 20

Love this. Valerie, choose joy. Whatever it takes. I hope you do not leave, but if you do at least I will know why.

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@Aquitaine24 (11653)

• San Jose, California

11 Apr 20

I agree.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

@FourWalls - Thank you. Yes, it is their problem.

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Marlina

@marlina (154166)

• Canada

11 Apr 20

I certainly hope that you won't go away. You are one on my Top 10 list. I always look forward to read your posts and find that you are a very understanding person.I am sure that I am not the only thinking that way

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Marlina

@marlina (154166)

• Canada

12 Apr 20

@just4him And I want you to say there. Thanks.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@marlina Thank you.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

Thank you so much for your support. I'm honored to be on your top 10 list.

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paigea

@paigea (35715)

• Canada

11 Apr 20

Easy to find joyful people here. Scroll past the rest. Take care.

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@Aquitaine24 (11653)

• San Jose, California

11 Apr 20

I agree.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (458591)

• Switzerland

11 Apr 20

@paigea

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M.-L.

@MALUSE (69413)

• Germany

11 Apr 20

Exactly! There are a lot of members whose posts I don't Like and Comment on but there are enough other members with the same wave length.

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John Roberts

@JohnRoberts (109857)

• Los Angeles, California

11 Apr 20

You must really be upset as you are pretty easy going. It has become difficult here and all I can say is avoid posts that will potentially be irritating. I have come close to leaving here myself several times the past few weeks. Yes, I have made comments to others out of irritated reactions so I am also guilty. myLot needs you more than you need myLot and you have a busy full real life to satisfy you.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

Thank you so much for the pep talk. I love it here and the people for the most part. Yes, it was the post that broke the camels back. I don't do well with writing either when I'm angry. So, I didn't do much of that today either, but I did do something. I also got two walks in today.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58485)

• Germany

11 Apr 20

Whatever makes you feel better.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58485)

• Germany

11 Apr 20

@kepweng

Thank you my friend.

How are you today?

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@m_audrey6788 I'll be staying.

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simplyme

@m_audrey6788 (58485)

• Germany

12 Apr 20

@just4him I`m so happy to know

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BarBaraPrz

@BarBaraPrz (45527)

• St. Catharines, Ontario

11 Apr 20

Negativity? Where? You must be following the wrong people.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

I try not to follow the wrong people.

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much2say

@much2say (53952)

• Los Angeles, California

11 Apr 20

I hope you stay! Or if you need to take a break, we'd totally understand, but I'd hope for your return. We need your sweet spirit here

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much2say

@much2say (53952)

• Los Angeles, California

12 Apr 20

@just4him Oh I'm so glad. This is supposed to be our happy spot - don't ever let anyone take that away from you. Happy Easter to you!!

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@Aquitaine24 (11653)

• San Jose, California

11 Apr 20

I hope she does too.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@much2say Thank you so much. Yes, I'm staying.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4394)

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11 Apr 20

Of course you are free to do what you like but I would say: Don't let the darkness blow out your light.

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Ken

@kanuck1 (4394)

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13 Apr 20

@just4him I know you won't!

Be on myLot to the degree that suits you but I hope you will stay.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

13 Apr 20

@kanuck1 I'm staying. Thank you.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

Thank you. I won't let the darkness blow out my light.

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Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13447)

• United States

11 Apr 20

Lucky I am not seeing negative when I am here. I hope you stay, maybe just stick to your followers and those you follow. I really need to come here at times and talk with you all.

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Jellybelly

@CookieMonster46 (13447)

• United States

12 Apr 20

@just4him Thank goodness, I really would hate to see you go from here.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@CookieMonster46 I had to get my happy back and seeing the response on this post makes me realize how much people would miss me.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

That's good you're not. Thank you. Right now, I'm not going anywhere. I got my happy back.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (326053)

• Rockingham, Australia

12 Apr 20

I do hope you don't leave. Hopefully, there are more positive people than negative on here and perhaps you'll be able to just ignore the Negative Nellies.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

I will be ignoring the Negative Nellies from now on. I don't need another meltdown like yesterday. Thank you. I decided to stay.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (326053)

• Rockingham, Australia

13 Apr 20

@just4him I'm really pleased. That's good news.

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Jhovan M. Dapiton

@JhovanPH (2672)

• Philippines

13 Apr 20

Indeed.. If Ms. Valerie will leave. But if she chose to leave just to breathe in and relax. We can't force here.. We support you @just4him

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Courtney

@Courtlynn (66921)

• United States

11 Apr 20

Negativity is a part of life but people shouldn't be all negative, or pushing their negativity on to others by being rude all the time. Smh. I hope you don't leave. But I'm glad i have you on Facebook in case you do.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

You're right. People shouldn't push it on others. For now, I'm staying. I'm glad you're on Facebook and we can connect there.

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Courtney

@Courtlynn (66921)

• United States

12 Apr 20

@just4him

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Courtney Dutton

@MommyOfEli2013 (82049)

• Rupert, Idaho

12 Apr 20

I am sorry to hear that you were feeling that way to the point of thinking of leaving! I can understand when some people are just always negative. I have moments, but try not to just be negative.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

I'm glad you work at not being negative. I'll be staying. I got my happy back and the response to this post is very positive about my staying.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

13 Apr 20

@MommyOfEli2013 Thank you.

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Courtney Dutton

@MommyOfEli2013 (82049)

• Rupert, Idaho

13 Apr 20

@just4him I have my moments, but I don't really make posts about it. If I am commenting then I might sound down....but that's about it. And that is great news! I am glad that you are staying...and that you got your happy back :)

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The Horse

@TheHorse (206087)

• Walnut Creek, California

12 Apr 20

I certainly hope you don't leave. Although we are mortal enemies (you are a Packers fan and I am a '49ers fan) we somehow manage to overcome our differences and maintain a MyLot friendship. I see disagreements as an opportunity to learn. Sometimes we think we disagree when we actually don't. That's when the most interesting discussions occur. Vanny (@Vandana7) wonders why Iike sad songs so much. I think it's because I am an optimist. I will find the good in any situation. But it takes time. I will not deny the part of myself that has experienced, and needs to acknowledge, sadness. I will leave it at that for now.

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vanny

@vandana7 (98873)

• India

13 Apr 20

I think you and I need to have a seriooooooooooooooooous chat to lighten up the mood out here...issue is, no househelp and lots to do and the net telling me ..don't be lazy your girth is increasing kinda. But I will try. You do have humor and I am the sensible person.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

13 Apr 20

@TheHorse I have to laugh at your 'mortal enemy' statement. More like intense rivals during football season especially when our teams play against each other. I actually started a book a few years ago where the main character grew up in San Francisco and is a 49er fan. It makes it very interesting when she moves to Green Bay and is immersed in Packers country. I haven't gotten too far on that book. Sad songs give you pause to reflect on life and see the good that came from the situation.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

13 Apr 20

@vandana7 I'm sorry things are as difficult there as they are here.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247099)

• United States

11 Apr 20

There are many more wonderful people here to myLot with. I haven’t been here much the last two days, so I haven’t seen much of anything. Chin up!

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DianneN

@DianneN (247099)

• United States

11 Apr 20

@just4him I’m glad you’re feeling better. It was good to vent, I’m sure.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

@DianneN Thank you. Yes, it was a good vent.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

I'm doing okay now. Thank you. Yes, there are a lot of wonderful people here.

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Thelma

@thelme55 (76484)

• Germany

11 Apr 20

OMG! What happened? I will be missing you here if you leave. Please don't. I have read also negative posts here and so I didn't comment to those.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

It was one negative post too many for me. For now, I'm not leaving. I appreciate that you would miss me if I left. That's so kind.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@thelme55 I hope you're having a Happy Easter too. Thank you.

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Thelma

@thelme55 (76484)

• Germany

12 Apr 20

@just4him Thank you that you stay.

Happy Easter to you.

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Leiann Lynn Rose Spontaneo

@Spontaneo (14703)

• United States

12 Apr 20

Do whatever brings you peace.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

I will be staying. I have a lot of good friends here.

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Leiann Lynn Rose Spontaneo

@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@Spontaneo Thank you. Happy Easter to you too.

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@Spontaneo (14703)

• United States

12 Apr 20

@just4him Yay! Many blessings to you this Easter Sunday! Thank you for staying!

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Diana

@dya80dya (33638)

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11 Apr 20

In my opinion negativity and depression are part of life. People can't be happy all the time. But too many negative discussions can affect us. Maybe you need a break. I hope I didn't upset you.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

No, you didn't upset me.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

12 Apr 20

@dya80dya I know many people only read the title and miss what the post says. It's a shame.

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Diana

@dya80dya (33638)

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11 Apr 20

@just4him I am glad to know this. You read discussions. Many people don't. They only read the title.

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CarolDM

@CarolDM (203452)

• Nashville, Tennessee

11 Apr 20

I hope maybe you could take a break and then come back with a different opinion. I look forward to your positive posts. And there are many on here I don't care for. I just ignore them and find the ones I like.

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@just4him (306704)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

11 Apr 20

@CarolDM Thank you. I will.

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