A Worrier

@DianneN (246549)
United States
August 23, 2020 10:16am CST
I am so happy our grandson has yet another sport he loves. I have been so concerned and upset with his ice hockey games and the fact that the teams didn’t wear masks. Now he is excelling in horseback riding and won a second place ribbon this morning. Living in New Jersey this summer has offered many other safe things for my grandkids to do. I just hope he doesn’t fall off his horse! Why do I worry so much?
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@NJChicaa (115960)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Relax! He is having a good time.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Hubs is worried, too.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@UncleJoe That's true and the same with grandkids.
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@NJChicaa (115960)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@UncleJoe You're right. I don't have kids so I wouldn't know.
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@moffittjc (118421)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Aug 20
It's your job as a grandparent to worry about your grandkids! But as long as he is enjoying himself, try to enjoy it along with him. And congratulations to him for winning a 2nd place ribbon!
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@moffittjc (118421)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Aug 20
@DianneN Haha, people can get hurt even in tennis!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@moffittjc True! I got whacked in the throat once and couldn't breathe, but hit that ball back to win the game.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
I will try, but being a Jewish mother and grandmother doesn't help much. Thanks! We are proud of him, but wish he'd stick to tennis.
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@kanuck1 (4394)
23 Aug 20
I think that worrying comes with the title when one becomes a grandparent. Did he just start or has he been riding horses for a while?
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@kanuck1 (4394)
24 Aug 20
@DianneN It can be fun! However, I was on a horse once and I had such a scary experience that I gave up my goal of being a cowboy that day.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
I think you are right. No, he started riding for fun this summer.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
@kanuck1 That must have been one heck of a scary experience! I hope you found another dream job.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
23 Aug 20
this is a natural thing to worry about.We all do it.Even I about mine.Let us not be negative .Positive is the key word. Us grand parents always worry about them even when they older.He is going to fine
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@DianneN I do understand this.He is going to be fine
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@amadeo Thank you!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
I’m just a typical Jewish mother.
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• Santiago, Chile
23 Aug 20
He will be the best at riding horses in a few year! I guess you worry so much because you care about your grandchildren!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
It’s a dangerous sport and he seems to like jumping which scares the heck out of me. I’m a natural born worrier. Thanks!
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• Santiago, Chile
23 Aug 20
@DianneN I guess it is dangerous, i personally don't like horses. But it will all be alright!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@jvicentevalera I love to horseback ride and love horses. lol. Hopefully, he will be safe. Thanks you!
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• India
30 Aug 20
Haha by nature grandma's do worry but one minute, you don't look like a grandma
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
31 Aug 20
Thanks for that!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
11 Sep 20
@Jazz96 Thanks so much! Love you, too!
@Jazz96 (399)
10 Sep 20
@DianneN He is right you know....You look like you in your middle 20's
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@ptrikha_2 (45458)
• India
23 Aug 20
You are very close to your family and highly concerned. It is something similar to my wife, who too is "overtly" concerned. Yet beware sometimes this can make others around you feel a bit overcautious! Or may be make them want to run away for some time!!
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@ptrikha_2 (45458)
• India
25 Aug 20
@DianneN hmm.... but you still worry!!!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
My husband feels the same way about me. I try not to let the kids know how worried I get.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
23 Aug 20
He's nailing every sport he plays now. Yeah, I noticed there's no mask though.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
23 Aug 20
@DianneN That's true. Just remind him to wear them.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
He turned into be quite a good little athlete. Thanks. He doesn't need a mask outdoors for riding, but should be wearing one indoors with two teams in close contact.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
23 Aug 20
congratulations! i guess he had to tie his long rockstar hair.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Thanks!
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• United States
23 Aug 20
He already looks like a pro! I understand your worry and we never want anything to happen to our kids or grandkids. I'm a bit of a worrier too
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
That outfit surprised me the first time I saw him in it. It's nice to know another worrier. My husband is concerned, but he thinks I'm crazy!
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@LindaOHio (155961)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Congratulations to your grandson. He'll be fine! Have a wonderful Sunday.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Thanks, but I can't help worrying that he will fall or get thrown. Very risky and he's into jumping! Happy Sunday to you, too.
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@LindaOHio (155961)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@DianneN I hope he never falls. Hugs right back at 'ya!
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@BloggerDi (3113)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Wonderful pics! I think it's normal for moms and grandmothers to worry about such things!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Thanks, and I needed to hear those words. My husband thinks I'm crazy! How are you and your family doing?
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
23 Aug 20
Wow he looks handsome and happy. All the best to him
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Thank you! He is always happy when winning. lol
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Aug 20
Parents and grandparents all worry, or so I am told. You should be very proud.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Thanks, Carol.
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@rebelann (111127)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Aug 20
I don't blame you for worrying but we all know it does no good, the young will do what they want regardless.
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@rebelann (111127)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Aug 20
Of course not @DianneN you've been through it with 2 boys already so now you're more aware of the dangers.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
You are so right! @rebelann Thanks for understanding.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
You’re right, but I can’t help myself.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
24 Aug 20
Wow. Congratulations. Not all kids can do what he does. He is definitely having fun.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
24 Aug 20
@DianneN How old is he?
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
Thanks! He just started riding about 6 weeks ago. I'm just worried he will hurt himself in a jump. He's so light and skinny.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
@jobelbojel He's 10 years old. His sister is 12.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Because you are a good grandma, it is a worrisome time. I was at Clinton Crossing yesterday with Kasey and two of the boys and while people had to wear a mask in the stores, they were walking around without them. Freaked me out it did!!! Congratulation to your grandson, he looks so professional lol
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@DianneN I did that in the beginning but I don't now but all of my delivery people wear a mask, with Door Dash too. I just couldn't live that way anymore especially after that trip home from Florida. So far so good, but I do keep social distance except with a very small group of people, a very very small group. Irene and I have stopped wearing masks when we are in her house or mine and Kasey and I mostly meet outside to visit. The boys wear a mask when they are in my house except for Jack and he goes nowhere so he is not much risk. At the Y we keep distance and they are very particular about sanitizing everything. It's a crazy world.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@BelleStarr I totally understand. We relaxed a bit visiting our son's house last week for our anniversary celebration. It couldn't be helped, although he spaced the tables as far apart in his screened in room. He also made us walk through his house, rather then walk through the wet grass to get to his screened room. Sigh.....If we didn't get sick when our grandkids were here, we should be good for a while.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
Those non mask wearers freak me out, too! I requested that the Instacart delivery people wear a mask and clean gloves when they deliver to my door. So far, so good! I don't want to open the door to get my groceries with their virus particles floating in the air. I sanitize each item I remove from the bag, then sanitize my kitchen. I'm a nut, but like worrying, I can't help myself.
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@LadyDuck (457901)
• Switzerland
24 Aug 20
I am also a worrier Dianne, there is nothing I can do, I always fear that something "could" happen. Congratulations to your grandson.
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@LadyDuck (457901)
• Switzerland
24 Aug 20
@DianneN I guess your husband is not and he reassures you all the time.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
@LadyDuck He isn't a worrier and tries to pound sense into me. I think he's given up. He is, however, very concerned about our grandson's choice of jumping, and instantly reminded me of what happened to poor Christopher Reeve who was highly trained and experienced. I'm surprised I haven't turned all gray by now.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
Of course you are a worrier. We are TWINS! Thanks!
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
23 Aug 20
I also worry about something too. Congratulations to your grandson, he is a very talented boy.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
We are so alike. I know how you worry, too. Our kids and even grandchildren are something we will always worry abou no matter how old or young they are. Thank you! He's been surprising us a lot lately and seems to take after his father.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
23 Aug 20
@nela13 Join the worry club! Thanks so much!
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
23 Aug 20
@DianneN I already know I will be a worrier for the rest of my life. He is a very handsome young boy.
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24 Aug 20
No problem if he is fall. It would be experience for him.
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
@hellorahmat . Thank you!
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@DianneN (246549)
• United States
24 Aug 20
I hope that if he falls he won't be paralyzed.
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24 Aug 20
@DianneN We hope for the best.
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