Me Time

@just4him (306113)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
February 16, 2021 2:01pm CST
The last couple of days I haven't wanted to be on the computer. I wasn't here, and I worked on my book on the first of the last two days. Yesterday, I spent the afternoon with my grandson. I helped him get his check and get it cashed. Being a holiday, banks were closed, so we went to Wal-Mart to get it cashed, and did a little shopping. It was a good afternoon. I still don't want to spend much time on the computer. We started the heatwave today. It's 15 F with 1 F wind chill. We're above zero for the first time in 2.5 weeks. In the next week, we'll get into the 30s F. Maybe I'll break out my shorts. I'll also be going back to the gym for the first time since this deep-freeze started. I'm on the schedule for next week. I've been watching a lot of TV. Not doing much of anything. I thought about ordering groceries, but I couldn't find the products I buy, so that's out. I think I'll check out Amazon. I don't need anything immediately, so that might be an option. Okay, that's why you haven't seen me. I cleared the notifications this morning and I'll clear them again before getting off the computer for the day. In case you're wondering, yes, depression is setting in from too much inactivity and not going anywhere due to the deep freeze. Once I get back to normal activities, I will be back to my normal self. Getting out yesterday with my grandson helped. I also have my next hair appointment booked for next month. Now to find some groceries from somewhere. Thanks for reading. The image belongs to me. How is your day going?
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 21
You have been busy. Me time is important. I know about the winter blues. A beautiful photo.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Feb 21
Thank you. I don't usually get the winter blues. This year is the exception with as cold as it's been and not getting out.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
16 Feb 21
Me time is very important
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Feb 21
@marlina Yes, it is.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
16 Feb 21
I have a feeling you're sad and I'm sorry about that. I hope you get better soon.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I'm doing better, thank you.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@Nevena83 Thank you.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
17 Feb 21
@just4him I am glad to hear that.
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@jstory07 (134458)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb 21
I hope you find the groceries that you are wanting.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I'll go to the store for them today. Ordering online won't work.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
16 Feb 21
I am sorry that you feel down a bit, yes, I think it is because you can't go to your exercise and swimming,
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Feb 21
I'm sure it is too. Thank you.
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@kobesbuddy (74554)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Feb 21
This is good to hear, you're spending more time with your family members. I've been online too much, it's driving me crazy and my depression is back again. Maybe turning the computer off is a good idea, I will do this also.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
It is a good idea to turn it off and do something else.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@kobesbuddy I'm glad it's improving. You're welcome.
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@kobesbuddy (74554)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Feb 21
@just4him I gave my mind a rest and it's working. My depression is improving, thank you for your prayers.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
16 Feb 21
Me time is very important. I also have winter blues and I sleep too long almost every day that I can only Mylot in the evening if I am in the mood. I hope we will be having Spring soon. Enjoy your week.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I'm sorry you have the winter blues too. I hope we can all get back to normal soon.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@thelme55 Yes, we will.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
17 Feb 21
@just4him I am sure we will be back to normal soon.
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@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
16 Feb 21
I'm sorry, Valerie. I know several people really get down when stuck inside. A lot have seasonal affective disorder, and I can't imagine.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Staying indoors has come to an end. Temps are up. I'm going shopping today. I've never been affected by a seasonal disorder.
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@AmbiePam (85484)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@just4him My late grandmother was. It got her something fierce.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 21
@AmbiePam I'm sorry it did.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
17 Feb 21
I am sorry you feel depressed. I try to move on, I do not want to show to my husband that this situation is getting on my moral.
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@LadyDuck (458008)
• Switzerland
17 Feb 21
@just4him I say to myself that I am lucky to be healthy, we have no financial problems, why should I be depressed when many people have no more money and mo more a job?
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@LadyDuck That's good you are in good health. I'm usually not depressed. I agree with you. There are many people in worse situations.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I'm moving on too. I don't like showing myself how weak I am.
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
17 Feb 21
It was warm here, too. But not as warm as you. We got up to 10 today.
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@xander6464 (40872)
• Wapello, Iowa
17 Feb 21
@just4him And right now, it's 15. In another couple of days, if it keeps going like this, we'll be able to open all the outdoor pools!
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Ten is a good start.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 21
@xander6464 By my reckoning, that should be soon.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
16 Feb 21
Well, we're snowed in right now... But just because I keep refusing to go out and clear the snow/ice off the car. It was -11 F when we got up this morning... And we had to force the door open against the snow piled deep on our covered front porch... The temp has risen to 12 F now but I still don't want to go out in it. We don't need anything, no matter how many times Pretty insists she needs cookies. *sigh* I've already given her my cookies. She can wait. I hope you feel better, Dearheart.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
17 Feb 21
@just4him I'm glad things are better there at your house. It is snowing again here. The temp has come up to 12 F now and is supposed to reach a high of 13 F today. Pretty doesn't need cookies. I had a family pack. She took the whole thing.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@DaddyEvil She shouldn't need cookies for a while now. Warming up here too. We'll see snow again on Sunday, I think.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I'm sorry you're caught in the deep freeze too. I'm sure the snow looks nice to look at. Maybe you can get Pretty her cookies today. Today is much better. The temps are on their way up. We're out of the deep freeze.
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 21
Things are going well when I don't have to work. When I do work the wound that is still healing feels like it's running on my shoes but half the time I think it's the vein over my ankle bone that is swollen or something. I have a lot of dry skin and marlina suggested vasoline so I've been using that when I don't have to go anywhere and that's helped a lot with the dryness. I see my foot Dr in two weeks for a nail clipping and I aim to talk to him about the wound itself and the related issues with the area not healing all the way yet.
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• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 21
@just4him the previous wound I had in the same spot in 2018 lasted a year and the months. This one I've had since October and it now has a scab on it so that's good. I had a scab on a vein that blew once years back and that took about a year for the scan to fall odd naturally. It would fall off but another would form soon after. I learned to leave things alone on that part of my foot.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 21
@MarshaMusselman I'm glad it's healing faster.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 21
I'm sorry the wound hasn't healed yet. I'm glad the vaseline helps.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
17 Feb 21
I'm happy you had time to spend with your grandson. I haven't been here much either. We are still in Vermont and haven't decided when to return to CT.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
19 Feb 21
@just4him We are up here alone being safe as usual. Sorry for the late reply. Being on vacay makes it difficult to myLot.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Feb 21
@DianneN Not a problem. I've been writing, so I haven't been here much. I'm glad you're having a good vacay.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Thank you. I'm sure you're enjoying skiing and your son and grandchildren.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
16 Feb 21
Time to break out some good worship and praise music. I am singing in my mind These are the days of Elijah (Judy Jacobs does it best in my opinion and you can find her on Youtube). From where you are down to here the forecast after the weekend is for warmer than normal temps. Got a big pot and small pot of chili going for later (the small pot don't have beans as a member dont like kidney beans) It is smelling up the kitchen where I am at the table here on my laptop quite nicely. It was still in the mid 30s when I last checked the temp, but after the next 3 days where temps will be in low to mid 50s (one day 49F) we will climb here to the upper 60sF to low 70sF. Will be looking forward to taking some walks in the neighborhood. Thanking God also today the sun has finally stop peek a booing and is staying out today which is making things look better. hugs
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 21
@Elizaby No! I hadn't heard. I know I haven't seen or heard anything about him for a while. I knew he had cancer, but I thought he beat it.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Judy Jacobs does a good job with the song. I usually have some music going on in my mind. I'm glad the temps are warming up there. Here too. Chili sounds good.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
17 Feb 21
@just4him I loe all her music and een teachings. Did you see or hear where Carman has gone hoem.
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@Dena91 (15860)
• United States
16 Feb 21
Taking a break from the computer is needed at times. I am sorry you were beginning to feel depressed because you haven't been able to get out like you are use to. At least the deep freeze is beginning to let up for you. Glad you spent some time with your grandson yesterday. I am sure that helped a lot.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Yes, it did. Thank you. I'm feeling much better now. I got out earlier and got groceries. It felt good to get out of the apartment.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 21
Getting out and about is very effective in dealing with depression I believe. Hope you are ok now.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 Feb 21
@just4him That's good.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I am, thank you. I got out this morning.
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@paigea (35680)
• Canada
18 Feb 21
Sorry you were not feeling your best. I think I saw you were back to normal!
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Feb 21
Yes, things are good once again.
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@paigea (35680)
• Canada
25 Feb 21
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@Hannihar (129453)
• Israel
17 Feb 21
@just4him I can understand how all of this what is happening is very hard on you. I hope you find groceries. I can understand why you do not want to be on the computer right now.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 21
@Hannihar Thank you.
@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
I went to the store. It's the best option. It was nice this morning when I went.
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@Hannihar (129453)
• Israel
18 Feb 21
@just4him I am glad you were able to go to the store and get groceries.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
18 Feb 21
Sometimes it's good to change things up and get out of a routine. And when your feeling blue it's hard to focus on things. When your ready you will return to a more active routine. Winter always gives me the blues. But fortunately I tell myself it won't last forever and Spring will come. These feelings are only a temporary setback.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 21
Yes, they were. Life is back to normal once again.
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@dgobucks226 (34356)
20 Feb 21
@just4him Very good
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
17 Feb 21
Hey, a little bit of you time and even a little break from the computer is well deserved. Enjoy it and we will see you on the other side.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 21
@porwest That's good you did.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Thank you. It was a good break.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
18 Feb 21
@just4him I have done it from time to time. I always come back fully refreshed and ready to go.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
17 Feb 21
@just4him You must have had a tight but thanks you managed. Here its night already. Doing fine just mylotting for a while before getting to bed. Nice Pic I must say!
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
Thank you. I hope you have a good night's sleep.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 21
@Laurakemunto You're welcome.
• Kenya
17 Feb 21
@just4him sure I will! Thanks for the wishes.
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