Love problems
@Nevena83 (65282)
Serbia
April 3, 2021 11:49am CST
Good day friends
Yesterday I had a very busy day with my brother. He left before midnight yesterday. I spent the whole day setting up computers in a very cold room and today I feel tired. And cold and rainy weather affects that.
For several days now, I noticed that my son was silent, that he was eating poorly, and one day I caught him crying. I tried to find out what the problem was, but he was very cheeky, so I left him alone. Today I saw that he had very little breakfast, so I went to his room. He was crying, sobbing ... I tried to talk to him, to joke, but all I found out was that his girlfriend was mad at him and that he was guilty, but I couldn't find out the reason.
While I was with him, she wrote to him to come to her, so he told me he would tell me the reason when he came back.
It's hard to watch a child suffer and I don't know the reason.
Are you emotional in love?
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18 responses
@kobesbuddy (74569)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Apr 21
I had two boyfriends(at a very young age)who broke my heart. Yes, I cried about this! Did I truly love those two boys? Holding hands wasn't a sufficient gage, to determine what I felt about another child. The healing process is hard, but we eventually get through it. Children are very durable, if they have supportive parents!
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@kobesbuddy (74569)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Apr 21
@Nevena83 I am the exact same way. I hide my personal emotions and don't often share them. It hurts!
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
3 Apr 21
@kobesbuddy Now I spent half an hour again convincing him to tell me what the problem was, but he just kept quiet.
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@kanuck1 (4394)
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3 Apr 21
I have loved and I have been crushed too many times and now I am not interested in love anymore as I have other important things to keep me happy and busy. 
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
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3 Apr 21
I think one of the strongest feelings one has is love, so yes to your question. And being in love can be a rollercoaster at times because emotions run so high. Trying to develop and grow a relationship can definitely become a learning process resulting in spats, upset feelings and insecurities. Stresses happen and couples working differences in wants or needs is common. Although heartbreaking to see your son cry it just shows how much he loves her and actually is a positive sign...
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
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5 Apr 21
@Nevena83 Must be very personal for him. I'm sure in time things we ease..
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
6 Apr 21
@dgobucks226 It's better today. I think this was something that upset him a lot.
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@snowy22315 (169983)
• United States
3 Apr 21
I think everybody is if they are really in love. Sometimes even if they aren't.
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@RebeccasFarm (86760)
• United States
3 Apr 21
Oh so very sorry. I saw my son like that one time only when he was 16.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
4 Apr 21
I tried to find out several times yesterday, but he just kept quiet, so I told him if it was easier for him to write to me, so he wrote to me in a message this morning. He told the girl that he thought he was envious of watching adult movies. So she told him that it could be great envy and he was sorry that he hurt her and that he was watching it.
I didn't want to talk to him on that topic today, because I wanted to let him go, but you can definitely see here how much he misses the male figure in life.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
3 Apr 21
Yes, you are right. I know it’s normal, but it’s hard to watch. I always said that he doesn't have my qualities, he is always serious, cold, silent ... and I am smiling, sociable, positive, but when he entered into a more serious relationship, like this one, I noticed that he was in a love relationship like me - very emotional.
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@aureategloom (8344)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
3 Apr 21
either they're going to fix it or break up. both are natural processes. i hope it ends well, don't worry 
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
4 Apr 21
Yes I am emotional in love.
I can do anything for a person whom I love and get upset when I don't see the same person doesn't love me in return. But that's okay why should we have expectations from others. We cannot force someone to love us.
Children as they are not mature enough are more emotional than the adults.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
4 Apr 21
You're right and I'm just like that. Emotional people find it difficult to bear situations in love.
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
5 Apr 21
I am sorry about the situation. We are not open to what we feel unlike girls, you can tell your emotions. We can keep it ourselves. Hoping everything will be okay.
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