I thought I was going to have a heart attack or stroke
@Nevena83 (66063)
Serbia
June 19, 2021 2:39pm CST
Many of you know about the situation with the graves of my ancestors. Today, I experienced stress again when I saw that the rose, which grew on its own after it broke, was pulled out again.
I was so bad at the time that I thought I was going to have a heart attack. My heart was pounding, I felt pain in my chest, my head was pounding with pain, I was dizzy ....
My father is drunk as he is every day and he didn't want to do anything, but I called the police, because I can't stand injustice anymore. The police came, but they immediately told us that it was not a criminal act and that there was nothing they could do. That hit me.
One policeman was full of understanding and I felt that he trusted me and advised us what to do and that meant a lot to me. After the cemetery, they came to us for coffee.
It is now 9:30 pm and my head is still shooting with pain.
My aunts are with me, but my father drives me crazy, who is so drunk every day that he doesn't know about himself.
I feel exhausted. 
Good day friends I wasn’t active because I had horrible days. My grandmother (my father's mother) died 20 years ago. I loved her very much because she was a...
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@kaylachan (84760)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Jun 21
Try to calm yourself, getting yourself worked up helps no one. Leasest of all, you.
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@snowy22315 (208875)
• United States
20 Jun 21
Take deep breaths...and relax. Maybe you should not go see the graves since it is so upsetting to you. Most of the reason they are doing this is to upset you guys and get a reaction. Maybe if you stop reacting and being upset..they will not feel the need to do it anymore.
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@snowy22315 (208875)
• United States
20 Jun 21
@Nevena83 Unless you have to pass them, maybe you can just avoid looking in that direction.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
20 Jun 21
@snowy22315 The fact that they live just a few meters from my house and that I see them every day makes me feel bad, but I hope that this will come to an end one day.
@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
20 Jun 21
I am sorry that the experience stressed you so much. It sounds terrible. Here that kind of vandalism is a crime.
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@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
20 Jun 21
@Nevena83 I understand how you feel about the vandalism. It is a horrible thing to do. I hope you are feeling a little better today. We have laws about that kind of thing, but most of the people who commit that type of crime don't get caught.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
20 Jun 21
@Porcospino Yes, I feel sad and helpless. I can't understand that someone can touch graves, I think it's something sacred.
@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Jun 21
That really disappointed me, because then it benefits them and they can do whatever they want. We may not have good laws, but I believe in God's laws.
It's hard, I have a hard time controlling my emotions.
@DaddyEvil (174405)
• United States
19 Jun 21
How odd... That's called vandalism here and is a crime.
I hope you feel better... I know it's upsetting, but you need to let it go. It's not worth getting sick over it.
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@DaddyEvil (174405)
• United States
20 Jun 21
@Nevena83 I'm sorry. I hope you don't get sick.
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