A Day In My Life

@BelleStarr (61047)
United States
July 28, 2021 5:23pm CST
I thought I would give you just a glimpse of what a day in my life is like 6 am- Al calls for me, I got to him and tell him it is too early to get up but call me at 8 7;52 I get a call. He asks if it is close enough, sure is lol I help him toilet and then go to fix breakfast. While I’m in the kitchen I let the dogs out and then give them their food. I make a cup of coffee for me then make a cinnamon crunch bagel to share. He eats 1/4 which is good for him. I give him his morning pills, 1/2 a glass of cranberry juice and a small container of pink grapefruit sections. He also has a couple of swigs of my coffee. It was a good breakfast. Phone rings health aide would like to come at 9am to bath him Instead of 1:45. Since he is up, that’s great. 9:am while al is getting washed and dressed I jump in the shower. 9:30 am the aide and I make up the new hospital bed for Al. 10 am the aide leaves and I turn on the Tv for Al and I and go to work on my chrome book. 11:15 Kathy calls she will stop by my house on the way over to visit. Do I want anything for Al at DD. Maybe a few munchkins 11:50 Kathy arrived with the mail and an ice tea for me!! 12:00 Pt arrived oops I expected her later. 1:pm pt leaves Al slept through her visit again. Kathy and I go out to lunch. Danny stays with grandpa. We eat outdoors, it was a lovely change of scenery. 2pm back home sitting in the room with Al. He is asleep. 5pm Al wakes up confused. I tell Him it’s time for supper and his pills. Give him water to drink. He wants the steak Danny made for him yesterday. Unfortunately, Danny ate it when grandpa wouldn’t eat it but luckily he had made a steak wrap today and was able to unwrap it. Al ate a few bites of steak and I made Stouffers Mac and cheese and a glass of milk. We moved him from his regular bed to the new hospital bed which has side rails and is lower to the floor. Now it’s 6 pm and Danny is sitting with grandpa while I sit outside watching Jack and his friend from next door on the trampoline. I have one article to finish tonight and 4 due Friday. So that is my day in a nutshell. Pretty busy even though I’m pretty much homebound.
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@kaylachan (57687)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Jul 21
You're still productive and able to work and help someone.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 21
Yes my days are very full for the most part.
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
29 Jul 21
You are a very busy lady. I pray for Al and hope that he will be better soon.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
@LindaOHio not so brave, I had a crying jag yesterday, sometimes it hits me hard that my life as I know it may be gone forever
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 21
The more time passes the less convinced I am that we can ever go back to the life we had before, but I am adjusting to what we have now.
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
30 Jul 21
@BelleStarr You are a brave lady. God bless you and Al.
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@Juliaacv (48442)
• Canada
28 Jul 21
You have a really good routine down there, you are so organized. It was nice of your friend to pop in to take you for lunch, that must be an incredible break in your day.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
It was, it’ was a wonderful break. Some days are overwhelming
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@Juliaacv (48442)
• Canada
3 Aug 21
@BelleStarr I'm sure that you are Al's hero.
@LadyDuck (458141)
• Switzerland
29 Jul 21
Your days are full, do you sleep well at night? I got out of the bed at 5:30 this morning, later than usual, I suppose I needed some more sleep.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 21
Some nights yes but mostly I am very restless. I wake up many times in the night. How is your husband?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
@LadyDuck I understand and if you are like me it leaves you feeling like you never quite get enough sleep but if I try to nap I don’t sleep
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@LadyDuck (458141)
• Switzerland
29 Jul 21
@BelleStarr My husband feels pretty well, thank you Belle. He has a new appointment booked with his cardiologist for mid-August. I also wake up many times in the night, I can never sleep more than a couple of hours in a row.
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@wolfgirl569 (95188)
• Marion, Ohio
29 Jul 21
It sounds like you have a good routine going and some good helpers too
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 21
I do have a routine, it is the best way to make sure we can accomplish everything we need to every day.
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@wolfgirl569 (95188)
• Marion, Ohio
29 Jul 21
@BelleStarr Thats what I tell people for how I keep track of all the critters. I have a routine worked out so I dont miss anything.
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@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
29 Jul 21
Wow, such an eventful day! So glad Al is improving. He has a wonderful wife and family who take very good care of him.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
It has been challenging and just when I think it’s getting better we have a setback but now it’s been more than a week of good soooo
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@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
3 Aug 21
@BelleStarr Don't give up, but I know it's so hard.
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• China
29 Jul 21
You are as busy as a bee trying to cover the bases at caring for Al and writing.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
Yes I am indeed
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
29 Jul 21
You really had a very busy day. I wish AI gets well soon.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
Thank you, he is showing improvement but slowly
@RebeccasFarm (86754)
• United States
29 Jul 21
You are a busy lady. i had to laugh when I read that the steak got eaten, oh well haha Keep your chin up Belle, you are doing fantastic Love to Al xo
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
Thanks OT, I just try to put one foot in front of the other most days
@jstory07 (134464)
• Roseburg, Oregon
29 Jul 21
You are doing good every day.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
I certainly try!!
@Shiva49 (26202)
• Singapore
29 Jul 21
And you find time to keep us updated. This is not a normal routine but life takes turns to test our mettle. Happy that you are staying focused too with your writing routine uninterrupted. My mom passed away last year and it was a hectic time for us during the last few years. We did our best and that counts.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
That is all any of us can do and your right, it is what counts.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
28 Jul 21
It sounds to me like Al is doing a little better. And he's able to eat some foods that he couldn't swallow, before. That's progress, wonderful news! And for you to go out for lunch, this was a nice treat:)
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
It was a great treat, loved sitting outside and enjoying a meal
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Aug 21
@BelleStarr And you could plan to do this, about once a week:)
@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
28 Jul 21
Happy you have others to keep you so you can get a break as well. Happy to hear he can eat better now.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
Yes his appetite is improving daily
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Aug 21
@BelleStarr Wonderful to hear. Thinking about you.
@S4mmyboy (3266)
• Mumbai, India
29 Jul 21
Ohh you keep yourself very busy with all the daily chores..... Do take care of yourself as well
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 21
I do try to
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
29 Jul 21
You had a very productive day. Helping out someone in need is really something good.
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• Germany
4 Aug 21
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
Yes it is. Thank you
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@rebelann (111178)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Jul 21
I would think it's good to be busy under the circumstances. I hope you'll get more good days with Al.
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@rebelann (111178)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Aug 21
I pray he will get stronger. You sure are working hard to that end.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
I have been having some great days now if we can just get him stronger it will be even better
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
5 Aug 21
@rebelann we are but it is a tough road
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@sallypup (57888)
• Centralia, Washington
29 Jul 21
Your day sounds stressful. Its amazing that you can continue to write. I'm glad that you have found ways to get some help- lovely that Danny sits with his Grandpa.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
It has been good for both of them
@DianneN (246838)
• United States
30 Jul 21
That’s one heck of a day. Glad Al is doing well.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
2 Aug 21
Thanks, he really is showing positive signs. It makes my heart happy
@Deepizzaguy (94552)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
28 Jul 21
Thank you for sharing your amazing day.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
Your welcome
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@NJChicaa (116002)
• United States
28 Jul 21
oh that sounds challenging
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
3 Aug 21
It is but he is getting stronger
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