A Little of This and That

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@RubyHawk (99367)
Atlanta, Georgia
February 15, 2022 6:52pm CST
I hope everyone’s had a beautiful day. Some days can be beautiful even when it’s rainy Although I’ll take sunshine any time. I haven’t done much today, a little cleaning, a little furniture polishing and a tad of cooking. Had a long phone conversation with a sister, I’m lucky to have four sisters and a brother. This sister and I married cousins and we’ve always been close. She had two sons and a daughter. I had three sons. Our kids were close growing up. Of course as families go, they have grown apart as they got older. Anyway we always have a lot to talk about. Do you have a brother or sister that’s especially close?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 22
Nice photo here. I miss talking to my siblings. Enjoy your evening.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
Carol, do none of your siblings live near you or have they passed away?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 22
@RubyHawk They have all passed.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
@CarolDM I’m so sorry. That’s what my youngest sister says about being the youngest. She’s afraid we’ll pass away and leave her alone.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
16 Feb 22
Yes, I have close siblings and we have a lot to talk about.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
That’s neat. My sisters and I have always been best friends. I know sisters who will not even speak to each other but I’ve always been proud to have siblings.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
@thelme55 Yes, we are so lucky.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
16 Feb 22
@RubyHawk We are very lucky to have sisters like we have.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Feb 22
How wonderful to have a sisterly relationship like that! I have one younger sister . . . I can't say we are super close, but we can always chat for a long time at our get togethers (haven't done that in a couple years!).
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Feb 22
@RubyHawk That's pretty much us too.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
20 Feb 22
@much2say It’s hard for everyone to find the time and get togethers aren’t good with covid everywhere.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
We haven’t had any get togethers in a few years that’s why we keep in touch by phone.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
16 Feb 22
I only have one brother and in the past we were very close, unfortunately no more now.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
17 Feb 22
@RubyHawk - Who knows, should will be alone, he will get closer to the family.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
That’s too bad but it does happen. Maybe you-can still get back together.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
@LadyDuck All my siblings and I have different opinions about everything., religion, politics, and almost anything you can think of but we take it in stride and stay close.
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@RasmaSandra (98033)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Feb 22
Nice photo. I am an only child and my mom was lucky to have me as a very late in life baby. She lost twins and one baby in the DP Camps in Germany during WW II so if that had not happened I would have had plenty of siblings,
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@RasmaSandra (98033)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Feb 22
@RubyHawk they are very lucky that way
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
@RasmaSandra They are lucky. The two younger children in the picture are their children.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
I’m sorry but I know your mother was over joyed to have you. My son and daughter in law lost a set of twins at birth and the twin of their daughter didn’t survive birth but they do have a son and daughter.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Feb 22
I'm glad you talked to your sister. I'm glad you're close. I have a brother and a sister. We're getting closer.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 22
@RubyHawk It's getting time for that. We have a couple more months before we can plant.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
19 Feb 22
@just4him my sister called today saying she’s planting her onions today.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
That’s wonderful. One of my sisters called this morning. She was cleaning up her garden for planting.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Feb 22
I do not. But had a couple of very close cousins that were like siblings because I spent a lot of time with them when mom would drop me off for weeks at a time at her siblings homes. mom had 2 brothers that married sisters and those cousins were called " double cousins" as they had the same blood and genes you might say their moms were sisters and their dads brothers. So it was almost like they were sisters and brothers. Confusing right?
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
17 Feb 22
@RubyHawk they are close to each other, but at my age, I have lost most of them plus I haven't lived back home Ohio, for many years plus a few have passed away.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
No, not confusing at all as I said ,my sister and I married cousins that made our children first and third cousins. Our kids were close growing up but they grew apart later. It’s nice that you have those cousins that are still close.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 That’s what happens as we grow older. My sons are no longer close to their cousins. They’ve all gone their separate ways.
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@rebelann (117244)
• El Paso, Texas
16 Feb 22
You're so lucky. I'm not close to my sibling at all.
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@rebelann (117244)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Feb 22
Thanks. A friend of mine told me that it was because I was 3.5 years older which meant I was from a different era, could be, who knows.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
@rebelann I’m three years older than one sister, seven years older than the next, nine years older than my brother , fifteen years older than my next sister and seventeen years older than the youngest.I feel like I helped raise them all. We were always together from when they were born. We were all at mamas house a large part of time.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
I am lucky. I’m sorry you don’t have a relationship with your siblings.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
16 Feb 22
My sister and I married cousins too. I love that photo.
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• United States
17 Feb 22
@RubyHawk Welcome
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
Really, I guess it’s not too unusual. Thanks, they’re my grandchildren.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
16 Feb 22
How far are you from your sister? I can say I am closer to my sister. I have 4 brothers and a sister. I am close to one brother, the second brother. Growing up, we were apart. Now, good thing the pandemic brought us in one home, 3 of us, me, my sister and my 3rd brother.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
We don’t live what I call near. Two sisters live about a hundred miles away an two about fifty miles away. My brother about seventy miles.Its not terribly far but during the pandemic we’re all staying close to home. Glad you’re close to some of your siblings and getting closer to others.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
16 Feb 22
@RubyHawk We are scattered except the three of us. The rest are about 46 miles, 113 miles and the farthest in Abu Dhabi.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
@jobelbojel That’s the way we are scattered in different directions.
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@LeaPea2417 (40032)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Feb 22
I have one sister. We have always been close.
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@LeaPea2417 (40032)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Feb 22
@RubyHawk That's true.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
18 Feb 22
@LeaPea2417 I’m lucky to have four. I’ve talked to two of mine today.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
There’s nothing better than having a sister who’s a good friend.
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@askme123 (6223)
16 Feb 22
The kids seem to be enjoying themselves.
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@askme123 (6223)
16 Feb 22
@RubyHawk Ok that is nice.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
@askme123 Thank you.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
They do. They’re my grandchildren.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
17 Feb 22
That’s very sweet. I’m very close to my brother.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
22 Feb 22
@RubyHawk He lives above 40 minutes from us in Connecticut. Real close in Florida in the next building.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Feb 22
@DianneN That’s wonderful. More luck to both of you.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
Does he live near you?
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@Faster16 (3248)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 22
have a brother but not very close, for some reason
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
Something it happens but maybe you will get closer in times to come.
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@Faster16 (3248)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 22
@RubyHawk thanks, I'm trying
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
@Faster16 Try is all we can do.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
22 Feb 22
I have an aunt that I'm close to because we are almost the same age, she's one year younger than me, while my siblings are all much younger. We also share the same interests, blogging and writing, so we talked about how her novel is developing. As for my sisters, we're close too but don't have common topics to talk about.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Feb 22
That’s nice that you have an aunt to share with. I had two aunts I was Very close to but they’ve both passed away.
@xstitcher (39038)
• Petaluma, California
21 Feb 22
Talked to my brother--a couple of weeks ago, I think.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
21 Feb 22
My brother is not well. He’s recently learned he has cancer of the lungs. He must have a few more tests before his doctors decide on the best treatment.
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
16 Feb 22
I had 4 sisters and 2 brothers. Unfortunately, I lost 1 sister to Lupus.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
27 Feb 22
@RubyHawk , Yes, you have been.
@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
I’m sorry. We have been extremely lucky that we’ve all living.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 22
My husband's family are/were all pretty close. As you say, families grow apart while they're busy raising their own kids but, in this instance, the older ones are now renewing old friendships.
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@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 22
@RubyHawk I didn't put that very well. I meant Vince and his siblings are renewing their bonds. A few of the various children of some still keep in touch with some of their other cousins too.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
17 Feb 22
@JudyEv That’s nice. I have very few cousins. My mother had one brother and my dad one step brother who was closer to my age.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Feb 22
That’s wonderful. I’m afraid our children have grown too far apart for that to happen.
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
19 Feb 22
I am an only child, but my hubby has 3 sisters. 2 of them we are sadly no longer in contact with, but have a great relationship with 1 and her lovely 2 boys. Hopefully the other ones come around someday.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
19 Feb 22
Some relatives I’ve lost touch with over the years.It happens in about every family.
@porwest (112876)
• United States
2 Mar 22
I have one sister and we have always been pretty close. But, like you said, over the years we have drifted apart quite a bit.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
2 Mar 22
That happens more often than not. Relatives grow up, have families and often move away. Time marches on.
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