No Mixups for Mother’s Day

@RubyHawk (99425)
Atlanta, Georgia
May 7, 2022 11:38am CST
Last Christmas we had a bit of a mixup. Both sons invited me for Christmas Dinner. We worked it out but this year they got together before making any plans. We’ll be having Mother’s Day dinner at the older brothers house. I always like to take food for our dinners but I’m being told that we’re having a very simple dinner . No pies or cakes, no deviled eggs, nothing is needed. My sister tells me she’d be happy if her kids invited her to dinner and told her not to bring food. She’s always the one who cooks and does the inviting in her family. She also said she’s not hosting a Mother’s Day dinner this year. She’s planning on going out with her husband and having a fun day. It makes me appreciate my kids even more.
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@Chellezhere (5363)
• United States
7 May 22
I'm glad they worked everything out, and they are taking care of the food for you.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
So am I. That’s so thoughtful of them.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
@Chellezhere I’m loving it.
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• United States
8 May 22
@RubyHawk Yes, it is.
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@wolfgirl569 (95190)
• Marion, Ohio
7 May 22
It could be because she always has don that so they think thats how she wants it. Glad the boys worked it out ahead of time this year
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@wolfgirl569 (95190)
• Marion, Ohio
8 May 22
@RubyHawk My mom always did it and wanted too. I tried to get her to go out a couple of times. She always wanted all of the family there
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
It’s a possibility but they might get the idea by next Mothers Day. I didn’t mind having Mother’s Day dinner at my place but it was sweet of them to take over. Now all I have todo is sit back and enjoy it.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
@wolfgirl569 I liked doing it myself but the kids are happier doing it themselves. They enjoy doing it for me.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
7 May 22
That is nice. I remember when I invited my grandmother to my place for Christmas dinner. She had fixed it for so many years. It felt nice to do it for her for a change.
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@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
8 May 22
@RubyHawk .........Nice to let others take it over. Gets old doing it every year. And a lot of work.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
It really does feel good to let someone else do it for a change. After we moved into an apartment my sons decided our apartment was too small for all the family. We continued to have dinners here for a few years then let My oldest son and his wife carry on.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
@celticeagle I enjoyed it but it is a lot of work.
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@rebelann (111177)
• El Paso, Texas
7 May 22
I just know you'll have a really good time, you deserve it.
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@rebelann (111177)
• El Paso, Texas
8 May 22
Thank you, I will. Have a wonderful Mothers Day.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
Thank you. I’ll love it Hope you have a happy mother’s day..
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
@rebelann Thank you.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
8 May 22
I am glad your sons worked this out ahead this time. May be that your sister in law always preferred to go out with her husband and her children know.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
9 May 22
@RubyHawk - I know that not all mothers have received a call from their sons and daughters yesterday and I think that this is a shame.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
9 May 22
@LadyDuck It is. Most mothers look forward to seeing their children on Mothers Day. It’s a disappointment when they don’t get at least a call.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
I think my sister was feeling a little taken advantage of.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
9 May 22
My sister and I always pretty much coordinate. This year we did it at my house.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
9 May 22
That’s the perfect way to do it. Hope you all had a happy Mother’s Day.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 May 22
@porwest That’s wonderful. Glad you could get together.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
10 May 22
@RubyHawk It was a really good time. Had a cookout.
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@AmbiePam (85492)
• United States
10 May 22
That's so sweet. I hope it was a great day for everybody.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 May 22
It was a great day. I hope you had a wonderful day too.
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@RebeccasFarm (86754)
• United States
8 May 22
So lovely Ruby. I wish you a lovely Mother's Day too
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• United States
8 May 22
@RubyHawk thanks
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
Thanks and I wish the same for you.
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@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 May 22
I hope you ended up having a nice Mother's day.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
12 May 22
I had a wonderful day. I hope you did too.
@Dena91 (15860)
• United States
11 May 22
I hope you all had a lovely day together. Mike and I went to his mom's after church. Brother in law cooked some hamburgers/hotdogs on the grill for everyone.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 May 22
Sounds very inviting. My son grilled outside too. We had a lovely time. Hope you did too.
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
8 May 22
I hope you have a lovely dinner. You can just relax and enjoy.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
Thank you. I hope you have a happy weekend.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
9 May 22
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@LindaOHio (156157)
• United States
9 May 22
@RubyHawk Thank you. Have a great week.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
11 May 22
Indeed, it's your day, so you're a Queen for a day, and luckily, you children believe so too. I too, liked doting in my Mom for Mother's Day, back in my the day.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 May 22
We all went to mamas loaded down with food on Mother’s Day and every holiday. I miss that.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 May 22
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
13 May 22
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@Luis11 (399)
13 May 22
That is great
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
14 May 22
@Kouponkaren (5487)
• United States
10 May 22
Aw, good for you. I hope you had a wonderful time. And good for your suster. Her kids should be cooking for her, or at least taking her out to eat.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 May 22
Thanks I had a wonderful time. Hope your Mother’s Day was a happy one.
@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
9 May 22
That is awesome. I hope you had a great day
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
9 May 22
Thank you. I had a great day. Hope you did too.
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
7 May 22
Not cooking on Mother's Day here.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
I used to do the cooking but I’ve let my son and his wife host our dinners. They have a large home and enjoy having the family over.
@GreatMartin (23677)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
8 May 22
Happy Mother's Day.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 22
Thank you. Have a happy weekend.
@RasmaSandra (73444)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 May 22
I am glad you have a good Mother's Day with your family. I always enjoyed cooking on holidays but since I never had a big family it was always me my mom and friends and later in Latvia with me and my husband and occasionally some of his family joined us
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 May 22
I used to do all our holiday dinners. But when my son and daughter-in-law offered I accepted.In earlier times we all went to my mothers house loaded down with food.
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• United States
7 May 22
Enjoy your Mothers Day tomorrow Ruby. It's extra special that you'll be spending it at your sons and you don't have to do any cooking or bring anything for dinner. Sounds like you get a day off and just enjoy being the mom
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
I’m loving it. No cooking and a fun day.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 May 22
Have a wonderful mothers day
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 22
Thank you so much. How are you? Haven’t seen you around for awhile.