Here I Am

@just4him (323168)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
September 11, 2023 11:53am CST
Or am I? I tried changing my avatar this morning. It seems the last one gave people trouble in knowing my gender. I kept getting called, sir. I am NOT a sir. Thank you very much. The last time I looked in the mirror, it showed a beautiful woman. It will be good when the picture glitch is fixed, and you can see my new avatar. Okay, I finished the notifications for the time being. I'm going to walk and take my steps before I return to the computer and work on a book. I decided yesterday not to ditch Ecstasy. I have a lot of work to do with the book. In the meantime, I'm working on Faith to Believe and A Score to Settle. Two books I have finished. A Score to Settle will get more material as I really need to expand it. So, I have my work cut out for me along with the other books I'm working on. How is your day going? Do people get your gender mixed up? Thanks for reading. The image belongs to me.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Good to see you Valerie. I see the photo issue remains after several weeks or longer. Enjoy your day.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
Thank you. Enjoy your day too.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
@just4him Thanks, it was nice and quiet.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
@CarolDM I'm glad it was.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
11 Sep 23
Not typically, but it can be a problem if my hair is short. I should wear more makeup and or earrings.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I don't wear earrings, never have.
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@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Sep 23
I dare not change my avatar right now. No pictures I try to post show up. No, my beard gives me away as male.
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@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Sep 23
@just4him Heh. I did have something of a baby face when I was younger.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
@TheHorse I did too.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
It's good your beard gives you away as a male.
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@Dena91 (17029)
• United States
11 Sep 23
Can't see your new picture. Maybe one day. People don't mix up my gender, that I am aware of. I wish you well on your writing for your various books. Our morning was busy. Got laundry and vacuuming done Ran a couple of errands. Helped Mike move a recliner into where his old one was. We're both tired.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'd be tired too with all that work. Thank you. It's coming along well.
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• Rupert, Idaho
11 Sep 23
My profile pic/avatar hasn't shown up in a while....sorry you are dealing with that now. It will be nice for that to get fixed, if it can. I think when I had short hair in the past I got confused for a male....but I haven't had short hair in forever
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad you no longer get mistaken for a male.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 23
@MommyOfEli2013 That's good it won't be an issue.
• Rupert, Idaho
12 Sep 23
@just4him Well I won't probably ever have short again, so shouldn't have that issue again I hope
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@Gilljane (2897)
• Sutton, England
11 Sep 23
I've given up on photos
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
Your new avatar looks nice.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 23
@Gilljane You're welcome.
@Gilljane (2897)
• Sutton, England
12 Sep 23
@just4him Thank you
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@writerjo (2540)
• India
11 Sep 23
@just4him Glad to hear from you. I am doing good ... God's Grace is sufficient... Now it is 10:31 pm Monday You are looking nice in Profile photo Have a Good Day/Night
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad you can see my profile photo. I can't. Have a good night's sleep.
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@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Sep 23
Good luck on the writing of your books.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
Thank you.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
11 Sep 23
Day is okay.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad your day is okay.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
12 Sep 23
Unfortunately now we can see no avatar at all. This picture problem is becoming annoying. I think that from my avatar people cannot mistake me for a sir, but I have been called "bro", so go understand.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
13 Sep 23
@just4him I cannot see how some users may call me "bro" or "dude".
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 23
@LadyDuck I can't see it either.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
Yours is definitely a female avatar.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
11 Sep 23
You're NOT a guy? I didn't think your avatar looked like a guy... I only ever see a beautiful woman on myLot and in my thoughts.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
Thank you, kind sir.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
11 Sep 23
@just4him You're always welcome, dear lady.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
@DaddyEvil Thank you.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
11 Sep 23
I don't have to much trouble
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad you don't.
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@Fleura (34927)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 23
Sorry I can't see you yet. Yes as a child I was sometimes mistaken for a boy when I had short hair. And as an adult I have sometimes been taken for a man when riding my motorbike.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
That can be frustrating. Eventually, my picture will show up.
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@NJChicaa (127116)
• United States
11 Sep 23
no one mistakes my gender
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad they don't.
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@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
12 Sep 23
No, no one has ever gotten my gender mixed up. I imagine it felt very weird being called Sir. I really hope your new avatar eventually shows up for us to see.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
I'm glad no one gets your gender mixed up.
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@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Sep 23
Wish I could see your avatar.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
Hopefully soon.
@JESSY3236 (22199)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Yesterday was good. I got the sheets and the cat toy I ordered. I worked on Chris's diamond painting. No, but my mother has experienced that. She has a very short haircut and she is painter.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
I'm glad you had a good day yesterday. I'm sorry your mother experienced being taken for a male.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Too bad we can't see your new avatar. Good luck with the books. Have a great day.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 23
Hopefully, soon. Thank you.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
13 Sep 23
@just4him You're very welcome.
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