4/15/24 - Update on My Husband
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (205036)
United States
April 15, 2024 2:26am CST
My husband called last night. He likes the weekends at the facility because there are a couple of nice nurses that take good care of him. The meals are still a challenge though.
His roommate has a hearing problem; and he had to tell someone to turn his TV down. He had fallen asleep with the TV blaring. It's also a challenge to get a good night's sleep there. People will talk loudly in the halls at all hours. No one seems to have a clue.
No physical therapy on the weekends.
Thank you for your continued support, prayers and thoughts.
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19 responses
@MarieCoyle (50323)
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15 Apr 24
Maybe you can find him a set of those soft, noise canceling headphones, they are wonderful for blocking out noises!
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@jnrdutton (3365)
• United States
15 Apr 24
I can definitely vouch for that. I have a pair and would recommend them as well. They shouldn't be significantly expensive last I knew.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
15 Apr 24
I wouldn't want anyone to steal them. There's a lot of that going on in facilities such as that.
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@MarieCoyle (50323)
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15 Apr 24
@jnrdutton
One of my daughters bought my son a pair. He is in and out of the hospital quite often and he uses them there. He says they help a lot.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
The nurses are the worst offenders!
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@FourWalls (79852)
• United States
15 Apr 24
Maybe they assume “everyone” is deaf. 
Glad he’s doing well. Let’s pray he gets home where he can have you, home therapy, normal meals, and a good night’s sleep soon!
Glad he’s doing well. Let’s pray he gets home where he can have you, home therapy, normal meals, and a good night’s sleep soon!1 person likes this
@FourWalls (79852)
• United States
16 Apr 24
@LindaOHio — I tell people I appreciate boring after having my “boring” Thanksgiving disrupted by my mom’s brain aneurysm in 2007. You appreciate “boring” once it’s not there.
You appreciate “boring” once it’s not there.1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
Yes, and we can go back to our nice, boring lives.
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@just4him (318787)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Apr 24
@LindaOHio I'm glad he almost enjoys them.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
My husband almost enjoys the weekends because they take good care of him.
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@jnrdutton (3365)
• United States
15 Apr 24
I'm glad he's being well cared for, and I totally sympathize with his frustrations regarding the clueless people,so rude on their part.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
15 Apr 24
I'm so tired of rude and uncaring people.
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@BarBaraPrz (50600)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
15 Apr 24
And don't forget the elephant races inn the hall at 5am.
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@BarBaraPrz (50600)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
16 Apr 24
@LindaOHio The custodial staff polishing the halls with those big machines... at least that's been my experience when spending any time in hospital.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
17 Apr 24
@BarBaraPrz Oh OK. I understand now.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
Sorry? I don't quite follow what you're saying.
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@snowy22315 (198206)
• United States
15 Apr 24
If the nurses are nice..maybe he can get their assistance with the noise pollution.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
17 Apr 24
@rebelann They might. I could go through the head honcho there.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
I told him he should request a room change.
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@RasmaSandra (90426)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Apr 24
Blessings to him and I keep him in my prayers, Really wish he could have been transferred, Have you asked the other facility to let you know if an opening occurs?
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
Yes, they are supposed to let me know.
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@TheHorse (231916)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Apr 24
The TV thing makes me smile and shake my head. Some of my "older" friends are a bit hard of hearing, and I have to talk loud to reach them. They are comical when they get stoned and can't really hear/understand what each other is saying. 
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@TheHorse (231916)
• Walnut Creek, California
16 Apr 24
@LindaOHio That would certainly make sense.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
Hubby should request a room change or wear earplugs.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
No, no one seems to have any concern for those that are trying to sleep.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
I think he should have asked to be transferred to another room; but he doesn't want to do that.
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@arunima25 (92543)
• Bangalore, India
16 Apr 24
I was thinking on the same line as Marie. A noise cancelling headphones might be a good help if your husband is comfortable using it.
Happy that he likes the weekend there
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
17 Apr 24
Yes, I'll mention it to him. Thank you.
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@GardenGerty (166230)
• United States
15 Apr 24
It is really good he finds things to like on the weekends.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
There are two weekend nurses that take good care of him.
@LeaPea2417 (38619)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Apr 24
Maybe your husband can wear ear plugs when he tries to sleep.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
He could even request a room change.
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@LindaOHio (205036)
• United States
16 Apr 24
Yes, my husband is sensitive that way.
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