A Night Out with the Wifey

@porwest (92028)
United States
November 16, 2024 7:13am CST
Wifey and I rarely go out, so last night was the exception with the only aside being we went out last week as well when we met up with my sister and brother-in-law at a local bar and restaurant called Charlie's Place. I told her it won't be an every week thing, but maybe getting out every once in a while will be a nice change of pace. Last night we decided to hit up our favorite Mexican restaurant in the downtown area where we live called Margarita's. I had a combo plate, which is per my usual, and she had a taco salad, and for drinks she got a strawberry margarita and I got my traditional Sol with a lime in it. Yummy stuff. And it didn't set us back too badly. $63 with tip.
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@vandana7 (100401)
• India
16 Nov
Its time your wife physically abused you. You deserve only that. LOL Ok...$63 dollar with tip for one night out...phew...that is huge for two. East or west, India is the best. I think we could have as much in just 1/5th of what you spent.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
It's the United States. Not too many places you can go for cheap around here, not even fast food. lol
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
@2ndchances24 The stock market paid for it. You don't think I'd actually spend money out of pocket do you?
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
16 Nov
That's what I'm saying, That's cause he can afford such high mighty luxury & SAY he doesn't waste $ yea o.k. H3ll if I COULD afford such luxury I wouldn't do it.
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@grenery8 (10805)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
18 Nov
wow, very nice idea of you going out as a married couple. and glad you enjoyed your food too
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
19 Nov
It was a good time and I got brownie points for it too. Win, win. lol
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@vandana7 (100401)
• India
20 Nov
@porwest LOL...brownie points from whom? Evil grin.
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@grenery8 (10805)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
20 Nov
@porwest that's right
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@wolfgirl569 (107146)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Nov
We don't go out much anymore. Used to go every week. But way back the place we went to started raising prices.
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@wolfgirl569 (107146)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Nov
@porwest We went out most Saturdays even after getting married until she started charging more. It wasn't as much the price as the game. She had a steak with sauteed mushrooms, onions and sweet peppers. First she started charging extra for the onion. Then charging extra for the others. Just raise the price. Don't play mind games
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
Eating out for us is rare as well. We did do it more often when we were dating and first married. But it's just so economical to eat at home, most of the time it just doesn't seem like a good idea other than to make it a rare treat.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
19 Nov
@wolfgirl569 I can't stand "hidden fees and charges." You're right. Just tell me what the price is and if it has to be more, fine. But if it's more than I thought it was going to be because you said one thing and charged another? That's when you lose my interest, and thus, my business.
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@NJChicaa (119857)
• United States
16 Nov
You "told" her? Your wife? WOW. I would have told you exactly where to shove that opinion.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
I control the money, so yes. This is MY call. Ultimately, WE decide of course. It works like Congress kinda sorta. Things are discussed, plans are made, I simply have the final say whether the bill is signed or vetoed.
@NJChicaa (119857)
• United States
16 Nov
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
@NJChicaa I made us very well off. What else do you want? Believe me. She gets what she wants. lol
@anya12adwi (9748)
• India
16 Nov
What is in your combo plate??
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• India
17 Nov
@porwest And how much was tip?
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
@anya12adwi I tipped 20%, or $11.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
I had a chicken burrito and a beef enchilada with Mexican rice and refried beans.
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@LindaOHio (180086)
• United States
17 Nov
I am taking my husband's 2nd cousin out to Red Lobster after my doctor's appointment on Thursday....yummy stuff there too!!! Have a good day.
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@LindaOHio (180086)
• United States
18 Nov
@porwest Thanks. Plus I don't like shrimp; and they have tons of shrimp on the menu. They should call themselves Red Shrimp. They need crab cakes (which they discontinued), clam strips (which they discontinued), etc. and more lobster.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
20 Nov
@LindaOHio They discontinued crab cakes? That was always a staple on their menu. I have not been to a Red Lobster in ages.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
Good thing Red Lobster is still around...for now. They really need to end that endless shrimp thing. It's killing them. Hope you had a wonderful meal.
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@allknowing (137111)
• India
17 Nov
Eating out occasionally is a refreshing experience.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
You have to have treats in life sometimes, otherwise what's the point, right?
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@RasmaSandra (80269)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Nov
Glad you both had a good night out, Hope you can make it a tradition at least a couple of times a month,
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
So long as the stock market cooperates, it's possible. I never spend money out of pocket doing these kinds of things.
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@JudyEv (340745)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Nov
It's nice to treat yourself sometimes.
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@JudyEv (340745)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Nov
@porwest Exactly. And how many do you know who denied themselves just about everything, saving for their old age but then had a heart attack the day they retired.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
I always say, when it comes to money, save, save save. But if you never enjoy some of it, what's the point? You have to set aside a little something to have some fun with every once in a while.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
20 Nov
@JudyEv Too many to count.
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@thelme55 (77133)
• Germany
16 Nov
It’s nice that you went out with your wife. Have a nice weekend.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
You as well, and it was a good time and good eats.
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@sarik1 (7261)
19 Nov
Nice to know. have a great day.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
20 Nov
You as well. Thank you.
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@aureategloom (10292)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
16 Nov
it's always nice to go out with your spouse - as long as you can afford it
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
Stock market essentially paid for it, and we don't go out often. Nice to have a little treat every now and then.
@Dreamerby (5365)
• Calcutta, India
18 Nov
Is tipping compulsory there?
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
18 Nov
At least in restaurants, mostly. Waitstaff are allowed to be paid WAY below minimum wage since they rely mostly on tips for their compensation.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
20 Nov
@Dreamerby It's complicated. Part of it is that restaurants run on VERY low margins. Usually around 2%. So, if they paid more to the waiters and waitresses, the food would be so expensive no one could afford to eat there. So, they are allowed to pay the waitstaff less and it is made up for in tips, and actually, once tips are accounted for, MOST waitstaff end up making WAY more than the minimum wage. It is not unheard of for waiters and waitresses to actually make up to $20 an hour.
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@Dreamerby (5365)
• Calcutta, India
18 Nov
@porwest But that's not a good system. The restaurant is solely responsible for paying the waiters because they hired them. Why should customers be 'forced' to pay tips to the waiters?
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
16 Nov
It didn't set you back to bad ? ARE YOU KIDDING ? I have & WOULD NEVER go to a place that cost that kind of $ not even if it was a family get together, I'd stay at home & make it a family night out in the back yard it's a lot cheaper.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
16 Nov
Honestly, this was a bit of a cheaper night out. Most places will run you a Benjamin or more even for a simple meal. Besides, the stock market paid for it technically.
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
17 Nov
@2ndchances24 I agree with you mostly. But you have to live too. I have made a nice bit of money for us over the years. What's the point if we can't enjoy some of it? Our reward was buying the camper, enjying some camping trips through the summer, enjoying a little bit of gambling, and the occasional night out. It doesn't break us, so why not? We scrimp on so many things. It's nice to breathe every once in a while and enjoy what we have worked so hard to achieve.
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• Cloverdale, Indiana
16 Nov
@porwest I'd rather starve or eat at home B-4 I pay that kind of $ it's a H3LL of a lot cheaper to buy the foods you can cook at home & stop supporting high rate places to drop their prices.
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@dgobucks226 (35647)
16 Nov
With a name like Charlie's Place, you can't go wrong. Kind of like All in the Family's "Archie's Place" a bar venture Archie Bunker bought and ran. Maybe in time we can afford more dining out experiences now that there's going to be a new president in town. Margaritta's are yummy!
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@porwest (92028)
• United States
18 Nov
It was a nice place. They completely remodeled Charlie's and reopened a couple of months ago. The menu improved as well.
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