And then there were four

@JudyEv (361208)
Rockingham, Australia
February 15, 2025 10:41pm CST
Some of you would know that Vince’s two elder brothers have been very sick; one for some years but the other just for a month or two. The oldest died on Friday and the younger died a day later. Their birthdays were on the same day and they came close to dying on the same day. There are four siblings remaining of the original seven. Vince and his younger brother visited the younger on the Saturday. He had just been moved to a nursing home in Donnybrook, our old home town. They hadn’t been home for very long when we got the news that he had passed away. While it’s sad news, they were both ill with no hope of recovery so you couldn’t really wish they were still here. Both with will sorely missed. The elder leaves a wife and four adult children; the younger was a widower and has seven children. The photo shows the older brother with his grandchildren. He had worked in the railways all his life and maintained a passionate interest in trains.
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@allknowing (152004)
• India
16 Feb
We all have to go one day and hopefully without much suffering And that is not in our hands. Sad to know about the two deaths so close to each other I can imagine what Vince must be going through.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
They have had good full lives and were starting to suffer so it's hard to be too sad.
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@allknowing (152004)
• India
16 Feb
@JudyEv No matter how, and when the loss of a dear one is felt
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@DaddyEvil (157241)
• United States
16 Feb
I'm sorry for your loss.
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@DaddyEvil (157241)
• United States
16 Feb
@JudyEv True... Mom was laughing about it when she told me what happened.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
Thank you. It seems a bit strange that they both went within a day of each other.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
@DaddyEvil I guess it would have looked a bit suspicious.
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@id_peace (16500)
• Singapore
16 Feb
My condolences. I hope that they went in peace without any pain.
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@id_peace (16500)
• Singapore
16 Feb
@JudyEv it is indeed a relief. It is also sad to see people we know for a long time just gone like that.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
@id_peace That's very true.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
They were kept pain-free which was a relief. They seem to be better at pain control than they used to be.
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@FourWalls (77975)
• United States
16 Feb
Please let Vince know that I am so sorry for his double loss, and I’m sorry for you losing two brothers in law in24 hours. I know you said they were very devoted to their faith, and I pray their faith is a comfort to the families.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
Thanks for your kind thoughts. Vince and his younger brother had seen each of them the day before they passed so they were pleased about that.
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@sallypup (65644)
• Centralia, Washington
16 Feb
That's a wonderful family photo. I'm sorry for your loss.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
We don't have so many photos of the other brother and I couldn't find one in a hurry.
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@Beestring (15758)
• Hong Kong
16 Feb
That is so sad. I am sorry for your loss.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
Thank you. It will strange now with only four in their family.
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@popciclecold (40088)
• United States
16 Feb
So very sorry to hear this. Sorry for your loss.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
Thank you. It's hard when we lose those we love even when they are ill.
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• United States
16 Feb
@JudyEv I know the feeling.
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@BarBaraPrz (50268)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
16 Feb
So... another page is turned and the book is closed... condolences to Vince.
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@BarBaraPrz (50268)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
17 Feb
@JudyEv I hope someone recorded them.
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@snowy22315 (194685)
• United States
16 Feb
So sorry, but it probably helps knowing it was coming. It wasn't a passing where everyone was shocked.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb
You're right. You could only wish them a speedy passing.
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@RebeccasFarm (95568)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Feb
Oh dear oh dear Rest in Peace to both
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• Arvada, Colorado
18 Feb
@JudyEv Tis indeed Judy.
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@jstory07 (145261)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Feb
It is always great when grandparents do things with their grandchildren.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
He was a great 'railway man' and had an incredible memory and interesting stories about his time in the raiilways.
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@Juliaacv (54488)
• Canada
16 Feb
I am very sorry for your loss. It makes me think that they were a close family for the 2 brothers to pass so close together into eternity.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb
It seems very strange that there are now only four in the family.
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@wolfgirl569 (121059)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Feb
So sorry. And sorry the younger one didn't get his wish. I remember you said he wanted to do something first.
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@wolfgirl569 (121059)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Feb
@JudyEv I am sure they did
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb
Yes, he didn't quite make it. I wonder if they met at the pearly gates.
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@MarieCoyle (47385)
17 Feb
I am sorry for your family, a double loss so close together. As you said, they did have long lives and no hope of recovery, but they will still be missed very much.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb
They will be missed. One was a widower but the other wife is understandably very upset.
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@MarieCoyle (47385)
18 Feb
@JudyEv I am sure you are doing all that is humanly possible to try to help. I love the picture of the brother with his grands, and the big train set up. Lots of memories made there.
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@GardenGerty (165422)
• United States
17 Feb
I am sorry for the two losses, but know that they could not have recovered.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb
It's just nice that they had good, fulfilled long lives.
@AmbiePam (101846)
• United States
16 Feb
That’s very sad, but I am glad they didn’t have to linger in the midst of health issues with no hope of healing. It’s so hard to watch our loved ones suffer.
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@LeaPea2417 (38253)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Feb
That's sad. May they RIP.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb
Thanks. The wife is very distraught of course but she has a very loving family around her.
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@RasmaSandra (88149)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Feb
Many blessings to your family. I will put you all in my prayers.
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@JudyEv (361208)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb
Thank you. It seems strange that there are now only four siblings living.
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