Been too busy - sorry didn't check your posts or reply to your comments

@vandana7 (101773)
India
May 17, 2025 11:49pm CST
The last 2.5 months have been hectic. I learned many new things, and managed to complete many processes related to money, SUCCESSFULLY. So I should be patting my back for being what I used to be 30 odd years ago. It required a lot of surfing, reading, and reading, financial nonsense. It was not a Norman Vincent Peale stuff, which I love reading, or any other inspiring biography. Not even crime thriller. Just plain financial and legal GARBAGE...GIGO. So though I was near my device, and up late in the nights, I couldn't dare to come here, as it would use up my time, and I had deadlines. The work is easing now....I did a few repairs to aunt's building, a bit of sewer cleaning organization, water organization and new tenant organization at my building. Plenty of official letters, and organizing signatures on them. Plenty of information gathering personally by going to Reserve Bank of India, and other offices. Somewhere in between aunt broke her hand, so we had to take her hospital too. Added to that, we are vacating the house she lived in, so selling things in the house and packing and moving the stuff. I think you all are getting the drift. So yeah...not been here much. But I will never leave myLot. It is the only place where I can get mad at something and still be considered sane. Rather, it is the only place that puts up with my idiosyncrasies. Love all myLotters, lock, stock, and barrel. Hugs to everyone.
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@psanasangma (7455)
• India
9h
No matter how much you will be busy somewhere around the earth, Coming back to Mylot is always kind of coming back to your own favourite place
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
9h
I really don't know when it became this favorite...it is not money, it is people here, they listen to you.
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@jstory07 (144037)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10h
That is ok you have been busy and that happens to all of us.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
9h
If I tell you I was surviving on 2 hours sleep ..would you believe me? I used to be like this some 30 odd years ago...WORKAHOLIC out of financial compulsion. LOL
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@jstory07 (144037)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9h
@vandana7 At least you got it done.
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@Dreamerby (8080)
• Calcutta, India
8h
@vandana7 Ahh only 2 hours of sleep? I wouldn't survive
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@BarBaraPrz (49598)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
36m
Not been here much? Well, what do you know? I haven't either, so it's all good.
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@BarBaraPrz (49598)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
Just now
@vandana7 Just not feeling it.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
Just now
@BarBaraPrz GRRR ...now that is not fair...but I understand..:) Sometimes we all are kinda ...not in sharing mood.
@vandana7 (101773)
• India
27m
I had valid reasons...what is or are yours.
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@LadyDuck (474351)
• Italy
8h
I know very well what "being busy" means, you surely noticed that I am no more very active here. Sorry about your aunt, I hope she is recovering well. Take care Vanny.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
32m
Yes, she is. She was in bad shape when she left India. You too take care Anna. I love you..you have stood by my side understood me when folks didn't understand that I was ok with not having them or their kids around. Feel so grateful to god for friends like you. Hugs.
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@LadyDuck (474351)
• Italy
6m
@vandana7 Thank you Vanny, I am so glad we can be friend, even being so far away one from another.
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@DaddyEvil (148248)
• United States
9h
You are my best friend online, vanny... I was worried about you since you weren't around but didn't want to contact you through WhatsApp in case something happened with dad that was taking all your time. I'm sorry to hear that Auntie broke her hand and hope she'd doing better and healing nicely. I'm glad things are easing off for you now and hope you don't get busy like that again for a long time. We only tell you we're putting up with you... In secret, we talk bad about you. Love you, Dearheart!
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
36m
It wont be as bad as it has been so far but the work pressure has not come to a zero. That is a concern somewhat. Next month income tax, then again remittance...there will be constant work.
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@DaddyEvil (148248)
• United States
31m
@vandana7 As long as I know you're okay, then I'll be patient.
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@2ndchances24 (10415)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
9h
I hear you on sanity, I haven't been on here that much either but about every 3-4 days I come around to see who's doing what & get everyone answered back from my responses.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
9h
Scar said that most of mad people are out here. Sure we all are mad at something. LOL I do have catch up to do. :) But there is some back log too...have to slowly clear that.
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@kareng (74107)
• United States
7h
I have missed seeing you around. I hope things settle down there for you. Live can get crazy at times. I'm there right now dealing with this rash and itching that won't go away. Had it since April 24th! Take care!
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@kareng (74107)
• United States
37m
@vandana7 It's something more than just dry skin. I've been to urgent care, and a doctor, next stop is dermatologist on Tuesday. I will probably be back at doctor's office for him to figure out if my old auto immune disease is back in force or I have a new one and which one and to figure out a plan. Sending you big hugs!!
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
28m
@kareng It would help to have kidney function test.
@vandana7 (101773)
• India
58m
Rash and itching, can be due to dry skin, which can be managed with moisturizer, and avoiding caffeine. Other reason can be kidney issues. I would first try the moisturizer. Then rush to kidney specialist ASAP. Take care. You helped me reach 5 dollars once by interacting more. I noticed. Just busy in real life from sometime.
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@abhi_bangal (5726)
• Ahmednagar, India
8h
The best thing that I felt reading your discussion is that you were busy. And I like being busy all the time. There is always something for me to do and I rarely pass my time without doing anything. Looks like you really had some hectic time in the last 10 weeks or so. As you mentioned, at times reading stuff about finance and economics really really puts me off. I wonder how those people write search insightful articles. One more thing that I likeed about all this what you described, is that it helped you earn some money. That is the best thing to happen. And if the work that we are doing also pays, well nothing like that.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
42m
It was not earning money. LOL. It was closing aunty's accounts so that she can move to the US. She is now a green card holder. First I had to convert her accounts to NRO accounts. That requires some time, especially around bank year closing and bank audits. Bankers are either not available on seat, or let other staff who do not know much about it answer your queries, which means doubles your work. Add to that surfing to know how to go about it. LOL Then post office. Their server works for roughly 100 days each year, Sundays and holidays included, if you get what I mean. LOL. Moreover, though RBI requires us to convert the accounts ASAP on living outside for more than 182 days, post office does not have any provision to do so. So shuttling between post office and RBI. Finally approached the main branch, and look who had the answer. The receptionist there. So started closing the accounts. The software is old, and is not equipped to handle accounts conversion. Post office also does not maintain check books. So it takes ages to obtain one. Banks can send the check books to the now US address instead of handing it over to you at the local address. Without consulting you. LOL. And then the mutual fund thing...that still needs to be completed. They have been eternally confused about the transactions. The person doing the job is more focused on selling products that fetch commission than concentrating on the job at hand. Made me travel four times, and the issue is not resolves even now. Will have to go on Tuesday or Wednesday. I am 66 years old, this is my time to do Krishna Rama, not run about like this. And then there was some remittance to do. Remittance means running about to Chartered accountant. He made a few mistakes, then he was out of station, then he returned and again made a few mistakes, then we sorta finalized it, sent to the bank, the bank again raised a few queries, again rectification. All that requires trips to banks and continuous contact with Chartered accountant. Yeah...a hectic stuff, had to complete everything because once she leaves ...it will be expensive to get her signatures. So organizing all that. For guys it seems easy...we cook do laundry and take care of elderly parent before booking a driver. I don't know how to drive anymore. Have problem with my left hand. Even in RBI, few were able to answer questions correctly. I had to go twice....and even the second day, the person who answered was not clear. So I waited till a senior person came to me at guest corner, clarified each and every doubt. And then taking aunt to hospital, and of course, selling things that could be sold, and packing things and shifting them. Tell me, which 66 years old woman does this much...
@wolfgirl569 (116107)
• Marion, Ohio
1h
You have been very busy. Glad things are settling down some now
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
35m
If I was working at 110 percent, I am at about 40 percent now. This is manageable. That was stressful. It still has not reached zero...but I am hoping it will come to 20 percent by next month ending.
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@JudyEv (353479)
• Rockingham, Australia
5h
I'm sure you're interacting here whenever you can. It certainly sounds like you have been busy.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
30m
Trying my best. So much happened these last few weeks, including India reaching brink of war. Unbelievable period.
@LindaOHio (188723)
• United States
5h
I'm glad you were successful in your endeavors. I'm glad you don't plan on leaving us. You would be missed.
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
31m
Successful in most...still a few things are dangling. How can you ever think I will stop pestering you Linda...LOL
@Dreamerby (8080)
• Calcutta, India
8h
It is the only place where I can get mad at something and still be considered sane. You are so right about this. Yes busy days you are having. Lots of love to you too!!
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@vandana7 (101773)
• India
35m
You are an angel. :)