Finbarr is checking me out

@JudyEv (367566)
Rockingham, Australia
May 18, 2025 4:35am CST
We are house-sitting our niece’s place. Our duties include looking after their two cats, Finbarr and Dominic. They are as neurotic as can be and most days we hardly see them at all. Finbarr, which is the one in the photo, is the bravest and will sometimes trot through from one end of the house to the other. Today, he got very brave and came over to sniff my shoe. Maybe one days soon, he’ll let me pet him. I hope he hurries as we leave in a couple of weeks.
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@rakski (149387)
• Philippines
18 May
He is definitely seeing you and curious about you
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He sits and stares at us quite a bit but mostly won't come closer.
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@kareng (79879)
• United States
18 May
@JudyEv He's wondering, "Who are these people? And what happened to my mommy?"
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
@kareng He doesn't like his mommy much either! But he is quite keen on one of the teenage boys.
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@LadyDuck (489169)
• Italy
18 May
What a funny face, he is trying to decide if he can come closer or if it's better to keep the distance.
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@LadyDuck (489169)
• Italy
18 May
@JudyEv - Cats are so suspicious, it takes forever before they fully trust someone.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
That's true. He is not at all sure about trusting me.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
@LadyDuck They are all so different. I wouldn't be surprised if he stays aloof.
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@ARIES1973 (11950)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 May
Finbarr is so cute and adorable. Maybe he is just waiting to be called and it will come near you for a hug.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
So far he hadn't come when we've called him. Mostly he doesn't seem to want to be friends.
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@RebeccasFarm (91049)
• Arvada, Colorado
18 May
He is a lovely cat..I love him Judy.
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• Arvada, Colorado
18 May
@JudyEv I saw two lovely cats yesterday
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
@RebeccasFarm We rarely see stray cats here. And stray dogs even more rarely. I guess it's a good thing.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He is very pretty. I hope he gets quiet enough for me to pet him before I leave.
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@Fleura (33158)
• United Kingdom
18 May
He looks very suspicious in that photo
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He does, doesn't he? He wasn't going to get too near. They are quite weird really.
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@Kandae11 (56878)
18 May
His expression says - " should l trust her or not"?
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
I think that is exactly what he is saying. They never go outside either. They must sleep a lot! lol
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@kareng (79879)
• United States
18 May
Finbarr is very pretty! I hope he decides to be friendly with you soon! He looks like he has quite the personality!
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@kareng (79879)
• United States
18 May
@JudyEv Hopefully with a little more time, he will relent!
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He is pretty and quite a big cat. He has a brush on a shelf but there is no way I can get close enough to brush him! Not yet anyway. lol
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@BarBaraPrz (50950)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 May
Finbar... seems to me I've come across that name in a novel before... Anyway, this one's a cutie.
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@BarBaraPrz (50950)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
19 May
@JudyEv I'm thinking it was in a fantasy novel, possibly one of Elizabeth Scarborough's. But I could be wrong.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
It's a common Irish name I think. I don't recall a novel but somehow I think I should know it.
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@ptrikha_2 (48862)
• India
18 May
Finbarr is very active ! I wonder if he likes being photographed or not?
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@ptrikha_2 (48862)
• India
19 May
@JudyEv So now is he friendlier?
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@ptrikha_2 (48862)
• India
24 May
@JudyEv Well, that is a good news but he could get emotional once your date of departure to home place comes around!
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
Probably not but I was quick and standing well back so as not to stress him.
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@rebelann (115273)
• El Paso, Texas
18 May
I would call that fear. When I was in the hospital my friends would come to feed my cats and my dog but they only saw my dog but she wouldn't come close because of fear and they never saw the cats. Cats tend to be very fearful of strangers, it's a normal cat thingy
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
I'm sure you're right. However, they are both very stand-offish even with their own family.
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@DaddyEvil (163802)
• United States
18 May
I'd be happy the cats left me alone. I'm allergic to furbabies and the closer the animal(s) get to me, the more allergies I seem to have.
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@DaddyEvil (163802)
• United States
19 May
@JudyEv When Pretty can find a stray cat around here, she loves on them and then comes in and I have allergic reactions for a week afterward.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
@DaddyEvil Oh, that's awful. My nephew is allergic to horses and is also asthmatic but his wife went and bought a horse. Thankfully they didn't get along so well, her and the horse, and they sold it on. She was dicing with his life really.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
I can imagine you'd be very pleased to be nowhere near them.
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@JESSY3236 (21276)
• United States
20 May
He's cute.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 May
He is and he is quite a big cat.
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@Deepizzaguy (116666)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
19 May
Finbarr looks nice in the photo.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
He is quite a big cat and very pretty. The other one is black and white.
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@Deepizzaguy (116666)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
19 May
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@porwest (111560)
• United States
18 May
I am sure he will come around. He just needs to get good feels about you. lol
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He isn't really friendly even with his own people so I'm not holding out any hopes.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
@porwest We haven't pushed these to come to us. It's pretty hard to do that when we rarely see them! lol
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@porwest (111560)
• United States
18 May
@JudyEv Some cats are like that. Luckily our two cats are very friendly. Grayson is definitely the shier one when it comes to strangers though. He has to get to know you.
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@snowy22315 (200227)
• United States
18 May
By that time, he might decide you are his new mama!
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
I can't see it happening but you never know.
@allknowing (153918)
• India
18 May
Looks like Finbarr has shed his initial shyness and will soon be around with you.
@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 May
He might be but he's not even very keen on his own family.
@wolfgirl569 (126629)
• Marion, Ohio
18 May
He is pretty. Hope he makes up
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
I'm not too worried. As long as they stay fit and healthy till their family gets home, that will do me.
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@RasmaSandra (91935)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 May
Finbarr is so cute, I hope you enjoy the house sitting,
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
It's going well so far, thanks.
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@LindaOHio (208557)
• United States
19 May
They are wondering who these strangers are.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 May
I'm sure it's upsetting for them to have strangers move in.
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@Beestring (15377)
• Hong Kong
18 May
He is lovely. His facial expression is funny. lol
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
He doesn't really look happy, does he? lol
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