Sometimes They Really Don't Know Any Better

@porwest (105542)
United States
August 22, 2025 8:38am CST
Sometimes things irk me more than others. I have my pet peeves. But don't we all? Yesterday when we were walking around our Schnuck's grocery store, I observed three younger women in the aisles on scooters. They were probably between 17 and 20, which is an important detail to point out. None of them were disabled in any way, and none of them clearly needed to use one. They were out for a good time, as was evidenced by their laughter and loudness, even using the scooters like bumper cars ramming into each other as they made their way through the store. I wanted to say something. I mean, what if someone who really needed a scooter couldn't get one because these inconsiderate imps decided to turn the grocery store into their own personalized amusement park? But in this day and age, opening your mouth in situations like this can land you in more trouble than it's really worth. When I was telling my brother-in-law about this, he said something that struck me. Yes! That's it! I instantly thought. "There was a time when people did this sort of thing on purpose, very aware that what they were doing was wrong. Today, no one's taught them what's right and wrong, and so they have no idea what they are doing is wrong." These girls had no idea. They were simply never taught manners. They've had no life lessons. There has been no guidance in their lives. The thought that the scooters are for people in need never once occurred to them. That's really part of what's so wrong with the world we live in today. They're not rude because they want to be anymore. They're this way because they come from homes that are foundationless and entitled. While I wish no bad on anyone, I do hope that one day one of these girls will need a scooter to get their shopping done and can't get one because three girls just like them in the future have made them into toys.
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5 responses
• Philippines
2h
Calm down, but if I saw them also I will surely feel the same way. I hope they will learn how to think of others too.
@JudyEv (361458)
• Rockingham, Australia
6h
Nowadays people don't seem to think about how it might be for others.
@DaddyEvil (157586)
• United States
17h
When I first started having sciatica pain, I could barely walk without feeling the nerves screaming at me. I used one of those carts. As we were shopping, an older man stepped in front of me and told me I was being rude riding the cart when I obviously didn't need it... Pretty stepped between us and told the old fart that I did need the cart and he should mind his own business. She was nicer than I would have been. I always hated when customers brought their below 10 year old kids (and some up into their teens) into Walmart and let them loose while the parents shopped. Invariably, somebody had just finished working in toys straightening everything out and making the aisles look nice (sometimes that was me doing all that work) when you come around the corner of an aisle you've just finished to find kids climbing shelves and throwing the toys in the floor or taking them to other departments and leaving them there. Teens would ride the bikes until an assistant manager caught them and told them to get off the bikes unless their parents were going to buy one or riding skateboards all over the store, running paying customers over. When I was in the toy department and kids showed up, I'd tell them to go back to their parents. Only one time did a parent come over and complain because they didn't want their kids with them while they shopped. I told the lady she could have left her kids at home if they were okay on their own. She complained to the store manager and the store manager said he'd talk to me about it. Then came to me and told me I had done nothing wrong and not to worry about it.
• United States
16h
That would irk me too and I'm kind of surprised that one of the managers didn't intervene. I'm sure they could see the antics on the cameras.
@moffittjc (125367)
• Gainesville, Florida
17h
I see this same exact situation every single time I grocery shop. Literally everyone using those scooters to shop is not disabled in any way, and most are not even old or middle aged. Like you said, no one has taught them that those scooters are for people who are disabled and/or have mobility issues. It frustrates me to no end.