Love takes some effort

@1creekgirl (44048)
United States
August 26, 2025 11:40am CST
A disclaimer: I'm too often guilty of this myself. Not so long ago if we really cared that you were sick or we just wanted to see you, we'd go for a visit. Nothing like a hug to show our love in person. But if we couldn't, whether you lived a thousand miles away or just down the road, a phone call was the next best thing. We can often tell by the sound of someone's voice how they really are. And if we were just too busy to call, a card was of course enough. And very thoughtful. But cards take a lot of effort. You have to go to a store, pick one out, buy a stamp, write two lines that express your love, then mail it....So if a card is just not doable, you can always send an email. That's easier, but you still have to be sure you have their email address (if they have one), then type a message and send it. Now, an email does take a few seconds, so if you're really too busy, just send a text. And if that's too much effort, a lovely little GIF is the ultimate show of love and concern. Prayers to God are of course the best, but not the only way to show we care. True love takes effort. God help us all.
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• United States
8h
Love is a verb. It requires effort. We are all too lazy and complacent.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
8h
Thanks for your comment, Lou. How are you feeling?
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@RasmaSandra (88367)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4h
I pray twice a day in the morning to thank God for another day and in the evening it is the God's prayer. I finished reading the sermons and they inspired me to take the Bible I have in Latvian and read it, I have read the Bible in English many times and certain verses and such but I have never done it in Latvian, When my late husband and I once read Bible passages I read in English and he looked along in Latvian, Now I will pick up the BIble in Latvian and each day read some passages,
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
3h
That's wonderful to hear, Rasma!
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@RasmaSandra (88367)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3h
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@kaylachan (79267)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7h
Anything worth doing, takes true effort.
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@kaylachan (79267)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5h
@1creekgirl It's so true, too.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
6h
You're so right about that.
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@rakski (147436)
• Philippines
1h
I totally agree with you and even sometimes we get too lazy to just send a text
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
Just now
Thanks, Rakski.
@JudyEv (361728)
• Rockingham, Australia
12m
So true, all of what you say. And nowadays, it's barely acceptable to visit without calling first.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
Just now
I think calling first is a good idea, but not everyone does it. But then, not many people even visit anyway.
@Deepizzaguy (113496)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1h
That is very true that showing true love takes effort.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
Just now
You are so right, George.
@kareng (78937)
• United States
2h
And now with AI trying to take over it is really scary! Your post is so true. So many are lost in today's world that they are missing out on the best part of Life!! And yes, we are all guilty!
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
Just now
Pretty soon even if we get an actual in person visit, who knows if it's a real human or not. Thanks for your comment.
@snowy22315 (195044)
• United States
8h
There are lots of ways to show you care, but you are right some take effort and the other person has to be open to whaterver you are trying to do.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
8h
Thanks, Snowy.
@sallypup (65754)
• Centralia, Washington
4h
Yes thank God for emails. We see our daughter in person maybe every 5 to 8 years. We would hardly be in contact with her if it wasn't for the computer. Every so often we do talk on the phone- neither of us text.
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@1creekgirl (44048)
• United States
4h
That's good you all can stay in touch.
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