Slower Dancing Songs: Don’t Ask Me Why

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@FourWalls (78552)
United States
September 5, 2025 11:45am CST
Hey, it’s a Jim Reeves song! Oh, wait, wrong song. True story time, and it is germane to this song: country music singer/songwriter legend Bill Anderson mentioned in his autobiography that he, somehow, got a royalty check for the song “My Life,” written by today’s artist, that was mistaken for his song “My Life (Throw It Away If I Want To).” Different titles, different publishers (BMI vs. ASCAP), different decades, but there we were! So, with that in mind, here’s today’s more mellow song to celebrate giving @rebelann a break from dancing too much and too hard. Don’t Ask Me Why - Billy Joel At least they both have Bill in their name. Yes, there’s a Jim Reeves song called “Don’t Ask Me Why,” but, to quote Reeves himself on his live album, “that ain’t it.” In the 70s, there was a disease running rampant in music: performers had a marvelous, zillion-selling album, then the follow-up wasn’t that good, then the follow-up to that was almost horrible. Some people (like Peter Frampton) skipped the middle portion and went from great to woeful in one album (from Frampton Comes Alive to I’m in You, an album so weak that most people can’t name it as the follow-up to that mega-selling breakthrough album). Some, like Boz Scaggs, took a big step down (from Silk Degrees to Down Two Then Left), and some seemed interested in making “big hit record, part two” (like Bob Seger’s Stranger in Town, that was so much like Night Moves that it had similar graphics, photo, and song arrangement). Billy Joel’s massive breakthrough was The Stranger. He followed it with 52nd Street, which, like the Seger album, seemed to be more of a “let’s make something almost identical to The Stranger and see how it sells.” Then came Glass Houses. Ick. Weird Al, who’s usually not into taking personal pot shots at singers, skewered Joel for this album with his brilliant but unreleased (because it is a pretty sharp dig) “It’s Still Billy Joel to Me.” Yankovic hit the nail on the head: “after listening to a couple of albums well, they all start to sound the same…it’s a big hit, isn’t it, even if it’s a piece of JUNK, it’s still Billy Joel to me.” Even though I considered myself a Billy Joel fan (still do), Glass Houses almost made me give up on him. (He rebounded wonderfully with The Nylon Curtain and An Innocent Man, so I can forgive and forget: forgive him for this album and forget most of the yuck on it. ) This song was, is, and ever shall be a notable exception. While I found nearly all of this album weak by anyone’s standards (I think it was Rolling Stone who reviewed it by saying, “The songs are catchy, but then again, so’s the flu” ), the Latin beat of this song set it apart from everything else on the record (that seemed like a forced, lame attempt at new wave…you know, like Pat Boone trying to do heavy metal ). It’s the only song from this album I’ll still listen to. And it’s a pleasant, gentle sway song, not a hard-edged rocker. Not to mention that, after “C’est Si Bon,” it gives us our SECOND French lesson (“now you parlez-vous français“) in the countdown!! Don’t Ask Me Why Written by Billy Joel Recorded by Billy Joel From Glass Houses, 1980 You can say the human heart is only make believe:
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@rebelann (114622)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Sep
I only remember one of his songs, 'It's still Rock n Roll to Me', which I liked but the rest of his stuff was boring at best. Hey, what can I say even some of the worst Pink Floyd was better. I have to admit, slowing down the chair is almost comforting but I do miss those swingin tunes you come up with. I was thinkin that maybe I could torch this chair and create a sculpture ....... but I can't figure out what that sculpture would be, maybe I'll just cut the damn thing into pieces and throw it out.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
5 Sep
I always remember that episode of WKRP In Cincinnati when Mr. Carlson went into the studio and Pink Floyd’s “Dogs” was playing. MR. CARLSON: Do I hear dogs barking? JOHNNY FEVER: I do. Want me to do all dance, all the time next month?
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@rebelann (114622)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Sep
Heyyy, there's an idea, just start with a really good CCR, OK??? Oh, some of those old Grass Roots tunes aren't too bad either.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
5 Sep
@rebelann — sorry, CCR would automatically be a top ten song, so they wouldn’t be until the end of the month.
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@RasmaSandra (88725)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Sep
Always love this guy and his music, I always believe he wrote the song I may be crazy.. just for me,
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
And hey, you may be right!
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@RasmaSandra (88725)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Sep
@FourWalls I am I am not fun to be normal
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@celticeagle (179468)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Sep
I can remember "It's Still Rock and Roll To Me" but not the other. It's weird he got paid for the other's song.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
You’d think that, given their different names (Anderson vs. Joel), different song titles (“My Life” vs. “My Life (Throw It Away If I Want To)”), different PUBLISHING agencies (Anderson’s with BMI, Joel’s with ASCAP), and different DECADES (I think Anderson’s song came out in 1969, nearly ten years before Joel!), someone would have caught that! No problems, though, because Anderson sent the check back and told them “wrong Bill.”
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@celticeagle (179468)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Sep
@FourWalls .......Interesting story. Honesty is the best policy.
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@JudyEv (362428)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Sep
I knew this and enjoyed listening to it again. Thanks for the link.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
Glad you liked hearing this one again!
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@porwest (107346)
• United States
6 Sep
Okay. I have always liked Billy Joel. That is all that needs to be said.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
Good enough for me!
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8 Sep
Thank you for your sharing
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
8 Sep
That’s what I’m here for!
@snowy22315 (195714)
• United States
5 Sep
I think that we have all had the experience of hearing the same chords in different songs, and usually if different songs for same name might be a different version of same song. Song titling is funny when it is completely different from first time.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
5 Sep
Neil Sedaka had this GREAT line in a video on YouTube before playing his 1960 hit “Stairway to Heaven”: “You may know, or maybe you don’t know, that you can’t copyright a song title. So, Led Zeppelin, I forgive you.”
@wolfgirl569 (122070)
• Marion, Ohio
6 Sep
Noper
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
Nokayer!
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@NJChicaa (124624)
• United States
5 Sep
slope
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
5 Sep
Oh, go find the surprises that Charlie left you.
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@LindaOHio (200165)
• United States
5 Sep
I know this one too.
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@FourWalls (78552)
• United States
6 Sep
Cooking with gas this month!
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