Hotchpotch or hotchpot

@JudyEv (382104)
Rockingham, Australia
October 21, 2025 9:05pm CST
We are trying to assist our elder son to purchase a unit/apartment in Melbourne. We have helped both boys in the past with financial gifts. My father helped us from time to time. He always said that, rather than make us wait till he passed on, he’d prefer to help us out from time to time as we needed it. We came across the term ‘hotchpot’ when rewriting our wills. As one son is getting a substantial amount now, that needs to be reflected in our will to ensure our estate is shared more or less equally. ‘Hotchpot’ is ‘the blending, combining or offsetting of property (typically gifts) to ensure equality of a later division of property’. I’d heard of 'hotchpotch' as being a mishmash or confused mix of stuff. Apparently it can also mean a mutton stew with mixed vegetables. But hotchpot is a new term for me. As I don't have a photo of hotchpot , here is another of the wax figures from Westonie Museum.
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@sallypup (69176)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Oct
That's quite the glamorous figure. It's hard to figure about wills and how to fairly hand out your wealth.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
It's lucky we only have the two boys but I know it can be a nightmare. In the end, we want them both to have more or less equal shares.
@MarieCoyle (59216)
22 Oct
I learned something new, reading about ''hotchpotch'' today. It's good that you can help him now, and I am sure it's much appreciated. The wax lady is quite striking!
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
It seems a really strange word for a legal document. Even with the limited help we can give, he is finding it hard to find somewhere suitable. But no doubt something will turn up if we're patient.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Oct
@MarieCoyle Thanks. It's very worrying but we are in a much better position to help than many others. We are very lucky in that respect.
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@MarieCoyle (59216)
23 Oct
@JudyEv I hope something is found for him soon, Judy.
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@GardenGerty (169477)
• United States
22 Oct
Like our version "hodge podge" which is like hotchpotch. Lovely museum piece.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Oct
That museum was really something. They are opening a new motor/vehicle museum in a week or two and we may go back for it. It's in conjunction with a Christmas market so that would be fun too,.
@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
22 Oct
This is exactly what my father always said, he helped my husband and us when we got married and Mom helped my brother. I confess that I never heard this word before. It makes sense as a mutton stew, but I did not know it was also a sort of legal term. I love the dress that the wax lady wears.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
I'd heard of hotchpotch but not the other. It seems an odd word to have in a legal document.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
22 Oct
@JudyEv - I fully agree with you, it sounds odd.
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@xFiacre (14785)
• Ireland
22 Oct
@judyev I’ve often thought it sensible to help the kids out now when they need it if it’s possible. Our wills have been carefully written so that a certain someone will not be able to influence what we want done with our money. Less said the better. I really prefer just to think about mutton stew. I love mutton. Impossible to get now here. People just want lamb.
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@xFiacre (14785)
• Ireland
22 Oct
@JudyEv I never found out what the feud was about but I did find a way of communicating my feelings about the regrettable situation.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
The last thing anyone needs is a dispute over a will. We hope we've worded ours so it's easy for our executor. Vince's older brother wanted Vin to be executor and said just sell everything and split the money but, with seven kids, what if one, or even worse two, wanted the piano, etc, etc. Luckily we persuaded him to pick somone else. Lamb is expensive here and you're battling to get mutton. Neither seem at all popular in the US. I find that a bit strange.
@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
@xFiacre What a sad end for the mother's life - not that she was in any position to worry about it.
@LindaOHio (222417)
• United States
23 Oct
I am in the process of getting my will redone. I've never heard of the term hotchpot in relation to wills.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Oct
It was a new one to us too but it solved our problem.
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• China
22 Oct
You father set an example for you ! It is right for you to make a will now,though you have tucks of time.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
His help at the time made all the difference. We've been able to help both boys from time to time and I know it has helped them a great deal.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Oct
I would say give it to them when they need it the most.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
Later, when they're established, it won't be nearly as much help to them as it is now.
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@LeaPea2417 (40029)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Oct
I never heard of that.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Oct
It was a new one for me too.
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Oct
She looks quite realistic. Glad you are thinking about your boys,
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Oct
If we don't come up with something, he could very well end up on the streets and that doesn't bear thinking about.
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@Traceyjayne (11375)
• United Kingdom
22 Oct
I guess they both mean the same, a blend or mix.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Oct
Yes, pretty much.
@franxav (14591)
• India
22 Oct
That looks like a beautiful museum.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Oct
We were really impressed with the museum. They had some lovely displays.