He’s Definitely Retiring

@AmbiePam (105631)
United States
November 5, 2025 4:31am CST
Well, my 70 year old dad (he’s a pastor) has decided to retire at the end of January. No one knows but Diana, my sister, and me. I don’t know when he’s going to inform the church board. He doesn’t really want to, but he feels it’s time to let the associate pastor take over (IF that is who the church wants to have the job). I think he hasn’t told literally anyone else because he knows they’ll all try to talk him out of it (they sure will). He’s going to offer to stay on part time though. I hope he does. They’re going to miss him if he’s totally out of the picture. My dad has no debt, but he’ll have to be very careful in retirement. He pays for all the bills, and Diana uses her check to pay her insurance premiums and then she puts the rest away. Why? Because as little as I get for disability, Diana gets less (despite working literally all her life. ALL her life). I’ll be sad to see him retire, but more than anything I just want him to be happy. He told me I’ll have to extra careful too because he won’t be able to help me as much (he pays my dental and eye doctor bills due to no insurance for that. It’s literally impossible for me to pay them, especially the dentist bill). I trust it will work out. How did you, or will you, know when to retire?
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@DaddyEvil (160939)
• United States
5h
You know I was forced to retire and why... I would have continued working for several more years yet if the choice had been left up to me. I hate not having money when we need things.
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@AmbiePam (105631)
• United States
4h
I know what you mean. You scrimp and you go without, and your needs are still often not met. And you, yourself, worked a long time. It’s specifically not fair to you. And, boy, I wish you could be well.
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@DaddyEvil (160939)
• United States
4h
@AmbiePam Thanks... Pretty makes enough "helping" me when I can't see so we don't really need more money but it bugs me that I don't have money of my own. She says the money is ours but if I spend any, she asks me a hundred questions about what I spend it on and why. It's annoying! If she doesn't want me to use the money, she shouldn't put it in my checking account!
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@AmbiePam (105631)
• United States
4h
@DaddyEvil I totally agree. That’s not right.
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• United States
2h
I had to retire (no pension) medically due to Depression, Anxiety, Dementia, and Meneire's Disease
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@AmbiePam (105631)
• United States
2h
I don’t think I knew about the Meneire’s disease.
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@snowy22315 (198269)
• United States
2h
I got forced out of a job. If I hadn't have I probably would stayed years longer, unfortunate..but I've adapted. The downside is my check is not what it could be
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@Tampa_girl7 (53682)
• United States
2h
I haven’t worked in many years. I didn’t retire. After I moved to Mississippi my transportation was a problem.
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@wolfgirl569 (124500)
• Marion, Ohio
1h
Glad he has decided to
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@xFiacre (14586)
• Ireland
3h
@ambiepam I’ll be 2 years retired at the end of January. Best thing I’ve ever done.
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@AmbiePam (105631)
• United States
3h
I hope my dad feels that way in two years as well.
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@LadyDuck (486469)
• Italy
4m
Sometimes you are forced to retire because of health problem. If you have enough money, when you feel that your job is too much for you, it's time to retire and enjoy the days you have left.
• United States
6m
I retired early due to the fact that the company I worked for closed. That's when I decided to sell my house and move here (where I am now) and although I got less money in social security it was well worth retiring early. I hope things work out for your dad especially financially and that you will be able to make ends meet too.
@LindaOHio (205262)
• United States
3h
I hope it all works out for you and him. I had to retire on disability when I turned 62.