Hijacking discussions - aye or nay

@JudyEv (367566)
Rockingham, Australia
December 18, 2025 5:12pm CST
I’ve heard about ‘hijacking a post’ and wondered if anyone would like to comment. I’m not too sure what it even is. The other day I found myself responding to many responses/comments then suddenly realising it wasn’t my discussion. Because it was about the Australian carnage at Bondi Beach, at some stage I thought it was my post and started responding to the comments. I went back and deleted a heap but it made me wonder if I needed to. I sometimes see others join in on an occasional comment and I never mind if people carry on a discussion on one of my discussions as I think it’s all pennies anyway but I wondered how others feel.
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@AmbiePam (108257)
• United States
15h
I’ve only minded, and it’s not like it happens often, when it’s about something very personal to me. I was talking about one of Hudson’s illnesses once, and a lady who had studied that particular ailment in school started to answer all the replies in my discussion before I could get to them. While she studied something in school, I was talking about a real life person I loved and experienced life with. I was kind of put off because I was not speaking in the abstract (this was about two years ago). You actually responded to a FourWalls post the other day, and your response almost sent me down the hijack road. But I told myself this was not meant directly for me, and I’m not going to do it. But she wouldn’t have cared! And knowing which post you’re talking about, I doubt that person would have minded either. After all, you were the first person I thought of when I saw the news about the massacre.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
It's all pennies to either the writer or other members so mostly it doesn't concern me. I have read one where an expert did more or less take over. I don't know if it's the same discussion you've mentioned.
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@DaddyEvil (163799)
• United States
15h
If you ever want to hijack any of my discussions, please feel free. I can always answer under your answers. (I used to hijack discussions all the time. ) I have seen people delete everything I said on their discussion, though. *shrug* That's totally up to them.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
I don't think I've every deleted a comment. I've deleted a response when it's appeared twice.
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@DaddyEvil (163799)
• United States
3h
@JudyEv I've deleted responses and comments when they were inappropriate. I used to have problems with a troll on this site.
@rsa101 (40571)
• Philippines
11h
I really dont mind it. You can literally takeover someones post if you have knowledge about a topic and you havent violated any mylit rules.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
That's true. You just need to be respectful of other members.
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@rebelann (115272)
• El Paso, Texas
14h
I remember that happening to me some years ago but not recently. Sometimes weird things happen in our cyber world.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
Some people get involved with a particular subject and enjoy discussing it. I don't have a problem with it.
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@LadyDuck (489161)
• Italy
6h
Joining in on a comment is not a violation and many do. I am sure it would have not been necessary to delete your comments.
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@LadyDuck (489161)
• Italy
4h
@JudyEv - I am sure that Admin would have let you know, if that was the case.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
I guess not but I thought I'd gone overboard a bit.
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@LindaOHio (208557)
• United States
5h
Sometimes I'm a little put off if I make a comment and they don't respond as they are intent on speaking to each other. Other than that, I don't mind much.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
I can understand your feeling in that situation. I'd probably feel the same.
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@snowy22315 (200214)
• United States
14h
I could care less. If it's under your discussion you still get the points for it
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
That's basically my view.
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@xFiacre (14107)
• Ireland
4h
@judyev I feel unreasonably miffed sometimes when I’ve been left out in a conversation started on my post by others. I don’t think it matters but I’d prefer it if they’d just write a post of their own. But then it was my post that sparked this other conversation. And if it results in more pennies I’m ok with it.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
Sometimes a thread takes on a life of its own between two members. It doesn't worry me.
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@sallypup (67156)
• Centralia, Washington
14h
I hope I have the idea for this site correct. To me, its not too take over a post by answering but to be friendly and if somebody says something of interest, I jump into the thread. I hope that is neighborly and not ruining somebody's day. I totally understand why you would say something about that atrocity.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
That's my opinion exactly. It's enjoyable to have a 2,3,4-ways conversation going.
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@just4him (319760)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5h
I don't mind seeing people responding to comments on my posts.
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@JudyEv (367566)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
It doesn't worry me either.
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@Shiva49 (27723)
• Singapore
59m
I join in when I feel a compelling urge to add my input. I know some may not take kindly to such "intrusions" while others may just accept them - not sure wthether they welcome them.