Today it was my turn.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (53284)
January 12, 2026 7:37pm CST
Often, when you care for someone else, sometimes you have to postpone things you need to do for yourself. I did well on this for a while, but lately I have been slacking--twice, I've canceled appointments for myself because son had big needs that day, or his appointments were moved up, etc. I rescheduled one three times in a month. But today was the day and I had to go!
I had a lump I could feel on the top of my hand, between the bone that leads to the first finger and the second finger. It was often achy, or it had a bit of life of its own with its throbbing. Over the weekend, it wouldn't stop aching, so no way was I going to try to cancel today's appointment. I was sort of nervous. I don't need anything to slow me down right now or keep me from doing what I need to do. But daughter and son in law called this morning and told me they would come and stay with son, and I had to go, so I did. Ended up son in law stayed, and daughter rode along with me.
Long story short, it was decided it was some type of cyst that had evidently been there for some time and decided to start getting bigger,it had to be removed. I went ahead, they cleared a time today and it was done as outpatient. I do have to say that once they pumped my hand with numbing stuff, I felt nothing at all that they did. They put in some stitches and bandaged me up, and here I am--so that's another little hurdle gone. It took hours to get the feeling back in my fingers on that hand, and they are still a bit numb and tingly. I have some meds to take if I need to, but right now I am making do with Tylenol. They sent it off to the lab like they always do, but that isn't anything I am worried about right now. I'm just glad it's gone!
It was really bothering me a lot, I am so, so glad I didn't have to cancel again. I am also glad daughter and son in law were around to help out today. Everything worked out, so thankful!
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@annierose (21833)
• United States
6h
That really was your turn today, and I’m so glad you didn’t cancel again. It’s so easy to keep putting ourselves last when we’re caring for someone else, but you did the right thing listening to your body. Wishing you a smooth recovery. 
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@MarieCoyle (53284)
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5h
Thank you. I was glad to finally be able to take care of it and get it done!
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@Nakitakona (59269)
• Philippines
4h
At least you're relieved of such psin. Hoping it's fine and nothing to worry about.
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@MarieCoyle (53284)
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4h
It’s pretty achy but I am resting on the couch and son is in the nearby recliner. He loves that chair. He said I have to lie down so here I am.Thanks, Lenore.
@MarieCoyle (53284)
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2h
Thank you, Judy. The doctor said that because of how deep it was, it would bleed, probably at least through this evening off and on until tomorrow. You would think that with all the surgeries my son has had in the last two years he would be used to seeing blood. But he doesn’t like it that I had to change the bandage etc and he tried to help. He said he knew it hurt and he felt so badly for me. This is nothing compared to what he’s gone through but he worries anyway!
@LooeyVille (37)
• United States
4h
I can't believe they were able to remove it on the same day. That's wonderful!
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@MarieCoyle (53284)
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3h
He seemed to think it needed to be removed ASAP, as it went from being dormant to bigger and painful.








