What was your name going to be?

@AmbiePam (119220)
United States
March 9, 2026 12:20pm CST
Did your parents have a couple names they oscillated between when they were trying to pick a name for you? My name is Amber, but they (my parents) were also thinking about naming me Elizabeth, which is my maternal grandmother’s name. I’m perfectly happy being Amber. My sister, Mindy, was almost named Connie. I think she prefers her name too. What about you?
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@DaddyEvil (173656)
• United States
9 Mar
No, as a matter of fact, they hadn't decided on a name for me until I was born. Dad's oldest brother asked if they could name me after him so dad asked mom and she agreed, as a middle name, and then she asked what he thought about naming me Robert as a first name. Dad said whatever she wanted was fine with him.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
Very agreeable!
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@Traceyjayne (10746)
• United Kingdom
9 Mar
@DaddyEvil So what is your middle name ?
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@DaddyEvil (173656)
• United States
10 Mar
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@Juliaacv (55839)
• Canada
9 Mar
I do like your name, and the alternative is such a pretty name too. My mother wanted to name me Laurie Ann, but my Dad won that discussion as I am Julia Anne. He insisted on the E in Anne because all of the previous Julia Anne's in the family (according to the gravestones) did not have an E on their name, so he wanted something different for his daughter.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
I have always always loved the name of Julia. And my maternal grandmother’s full name was Elizabeth Anne.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
@Juliaacv She just went by Anne unless it was my Papaw, and he called her Elizabeth Anne.
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@Juliaacv (55839)
• Canada
9 Mar
@AmbiePam Did she go by Elizabeth or Betty Anne?
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@GardenGerty (169017)
• United States
10 Mar
I never heard of another name. I was named after the British actress Heather Angel, except mom said if you name a child "Angel" they will act like the devil. I am Heather Minuette, which was kind of a made up spelling for my middle name. Mom picked Heather and dad was responsible for Minuette.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
10 Mar
That’s a really unique middle name.
@JESSY3236 (22091)
• United States
10 Mar
My uncle wanted my mother to name me Ursula. I'm glad she didn't. I actually like my middle name more because there are too many Jessicas.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
10 Mar
Ursula. Wow.
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@JESSY3236 (22091)
• United States
10 Mar
@AmbiePam It's because of my last name.
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@JudyEv (379873)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar
I don't recall ever being told that I was nearly named something else. I didn't use to like Judith but I think it was the thing when I was young to not like your name. lol
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
10 Mar
I like the name, Judith.
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@JudyEv (379873)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Mar
@AmbiePam Thanks.
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@thelme55 (79008)
• Germany
10 Mar
You have a pretty name. I like it. I have a second name which is Maria.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
10 Mar
Thank you.
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@thelme55 (79008)
• Germany
10 Mar
@AmbiePam You are welcome. Have a nice day.
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@cuttyrish (3209)
• United States
10 Mar
My parents name me diamond. I asked my mom why she picked diamond, it was one of the questions, she took longer to ask. Her choices were barbarosa and dominique,, i prefer diamond instead of barbarosa
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@dodo19 (48078)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Mar
My parents had decided on names before I was born. They had decided on Dominique for a girl or Jeremy for a boy. Although at one point my dad had said they had contemplated on using Elizabeth.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
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• Philippines
9 Mar
Yes, my mom thought of naming me marinella, but I was named after my father. My dad won.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
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@toniganzon (76928)
• Philippines
10 Mar
My father wanted another boy as his youngest child. He expected it was a boy and he really thought I was a boy. He already had a name in mind, Antonio or Anthony. But I came out a girl. He wasn't disappointed. He was very happy and wrote my aunt a telegram that I was the most beautiful baby born in the hospital that day. He gave me one name only. And that's it.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
10 Mar
That’s awesome.
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@LadyDuck (500594)
• Italy
10 Mar
No, my Dad told me that he always thought that he would have named a girl Anna and that is what he did.
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@AliCanary (4318)
9 Mar
I was almost named Sylvia, after my grandfather, Sylvanus. Fortunately, I got Alice, after my dad's mom, and my middle name is Evelyne, after my mom's mom. I'm actually quite surprised I got the ancestor names, since I'm actually the youngest of four kids. You'd think the eldest would get them. My two older sisters got names my parents just happened to like, I think.
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@AmbiePam (119220)
• United States
9 Mar
That IS unusual.
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@LindaOHio (220851)
• United States
10 Mar
I don't know anything about my parents' thought process when it came to naming me. Might have been the song "Linda" that was popular.
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@Shivram59 (49594)
• India
10 Mar
I'm told that I was named by my father. My mother told me that he had decided to name the baby " Jai Shankar" if it would be a male baby, and, in case a girl is born, he would call her "Sukanya." I was born and named " Jaishankar". Two years later my sister was born and named "Sukanya." She is now married.
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@snowy22315 (207454)
• United States
9 Mar
My mother said after the fact they wished they would have called me Paula Jean because it that would have included part of both of their names.It was on the table for a possible 3rd kid. They also said if I was a boy I would have been Scott or Larry Jay.
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@LeaPea2417 (39986)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Mar
My parents after much thouught agreed on my name.
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@RasmaSandra (97142)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Mar
Both my parents were agreed on Rasma a typicla Latvian name my middle name Sandra is shortened form Alexandra my mom's middle name and they tagged on a third name Zane not with a long a which is also a Latvian name.
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• Rupert, Idaho
9 Mar
Both names are nice. I don't know if my mom had another name choices for me, she never told me anyway.
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