My "Friends" Still Haven't Said Anything
By LooeyVille
@LooeyVille (65)
United States
May 22, 2026 6:51pm CST
Here is a before and after photo collage of me. The right side is me 6 months ago (Nov. 2025) - the left side is me last week.
Now granted the picture on the right isn't a very flattering angle, etc. but surely you can tell a big difference in my size since six months ago.
Yet still, my "friends" who you all keep telling me are NOT my "friends" haven't said one single word. No notice. No encouragement. Nothing.
That being said, I stuck to my diet during the cruise. I didn't gain a single ounce! And I'm still determined to continue to lose weight and get stronger.
The diet part is easy. The "friends" part is not. You all are right. They're not very nice friends.
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15 responses
@snowy22315 (207908)
• United States
18h
Wow, you have really lost a lot of weight!
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@FourWalls (86090)
• United States
15h
Dang girl, you look great! Everyone at the course complimented me on my weight loss. One guy even said, "Where's the rest of you?" 
You need to start playing Putt Putt! 
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@LooeyVille (65)
• United States
7h
@FourWalls and that's just 23 pounds if you can believe it. Like I said, the "big" picture was an unflattering one.
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@GardenGerty (169106)
• United States
16h
That is a major difference. Of course in one you are wearing a jacket but wow! you can see it in your face. I have been told that sometimes people do not compliment on weight loss or improved looks for fear of sending the implied message "you used to look bad", but friends who are paying attention would surely say SOMETHING!
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@JudyEv (380445)
• Rockingham, Australia
14h
I must admit I didn't notice a friend losing weight as I was seeing her quite often but suddenly one day it hit me that she'd lost a lot. I made sure to tell her at that point and apologise for not noticing beforehand. You definitely need new friends.
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@luisadannointed (11641)
• Philippines
12h
People who don't like you or are always intimidated by others' victories will always keep their mouths shut. Hehehe, don't worry about them, you are lovely, and they are just envious of you. Aja! Enjoy the day, continue working on things that are healthy nd good for you/
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@Orson_Kart (8187)
• United Kingdom
8h
Maybe they haven’t noticed because they see you every week and the change has been gradual? We are seeing you six months apart, and the weight loss is quite apparent. Well done though. It’s a great achievement and better for your long term health 
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@LooeyVille (65)
• United States
6h
@nela13 No, they're all pretty much average weight that they're supposed to be
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@LooeyVille (65)
• United States
6h
Thank you. I don't know why they're not being nice to me.
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@LindaOHio (221487)
• United States
8h
Wow! What a difference. You look incredible now! Good job!!!! I could never go on a cruise and not gain weight. How much have you lost in 6 months? Your "friends" suck!
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@MarieCoyle (58383)
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16h
You have lost a LOT, good for you! Be very proud...
I can't tell you what to do because you already know--you need to ditch those women, and find some nice friends. Friends make friends feel better, friends make friends want to spend time with them. You are correct, they are not nice friends.
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