His T-shirts tell a story.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (61331)
June 28, 2026 2:41pm CST
We have a local fellow here who has a form of Tourette's syndrome. It's bad...and he knows it. The locals claim that it was so bad when he was younger, that he refused to go to school, or interact with people. He lived with his parents, but after their passing, he was on his own. His mind works fine as far as doing daily functions. He appears to have a kind heart, and tries to help who he can, when he can. He helps a lot at a large local church that we have attended.
John wears T-shirts, every day. He has quite a wardrobe of them. Every single one of them says, in very large letters, something like this--''I'm John, I'm LOUD, and I yell a lot!'' He has a few that have more writing on the back, in smaller letters, that suggest the reader should learn about Tourette's syndrome. He has a rather rare form of it. The form of Tourette's John has is very hard to get used to--he yells in uncontrollable spurts; he cannot help it or control it. He might be having a conversation with you and all of a sudden, the loudest noise you have ever heard a man make will come out of his mouth. I can definitely understand why he wears his shirts. He says he wants to warn people that he cannot help it, he doesn't want to stay home by himself, he wants to be out and about. He volunteers at the Salvation Army and several food banks. He does a lot of work for others.
His Tourette's is very rare. He doesn't have body ''tics'' or involuntary movements, just the speech/loudness that's uncontrollable. Yes, he takes some medications for it that he says does help, he has less loud outbursts, but still...if you have never heard him have one and suddenly you do, it is startling.
Yet another reason for us to try not to judge a book by its cover...there could be a stellar, loving and giving human behind the picture you see. He is one of the best humans ever.
I am adding a link to the description of Tourette's if you are not familiar with it. Usually, it strikes people in the form of jerky movements, facial tics, etc. With John, it took a different path. I like to think that he is on the path he is supposed to be on, making the best of his situation.
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@arunima25 (93274)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jun
I am a special educator and a counselor who works with families with special needs children or young adults. And one thing, I have learnt in my two decades of work is that Human beings are beyond their labels and diagnosis. We should never judge or undermine anyone.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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28 Jun
Unfortunately, some people do judge people they don’t consider to be normal, and it’s very sad. People who do the amount of good that John does are to be treasured. He has a kind and loving heart. Thank you!
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@GardenGerty (170420)
• United States
28 Jun
The shirts are a good idea, I think. He does not have the form of Tourette's where he speaks with lots of profanity blurting at random times, does he? I would possibly have a hard time with that.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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28 Jun
No, he doesn’t. I have met one or two of those people so I know what you’re talking about. What he does say is always kind.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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28 Jun
He told a friend of mine he needed to be around people who understood that he just can’t help it. There is no cure for Tourette’s. He gives back to the community and to others. He’s been through a lot of rejections in his life, no wonder he seeks out acceptance.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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28 Jun
I admire him for sticking up for himself. He told me the shirts do help a lot.
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@wolfgirl569 (138855)
• Marion, Ohio
28 Jun
That's a great way to let people know. It would be hard to deal with
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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28 Jun
I admire him for not giving up. He has a wonderful heart.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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29 Jun
As I was writing this discussion, I realized there were no doubt people here on mylot who had never heard of Tourette's, so I included the wiki explanation of it just in case. I have to admire John, making the most of a bad situation he can't control. Many people can learn a lot from people like John. Thanks!
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@sissy15 (13365)
• United States
29 Jun
The T-shirt is a good idea. My best friend has Tourette's. I met him in high school, but I guess when he was a kid, it was bad. He'd scream or swear, and his mom didn't know what to do. Now that he's an adult, he is thankfully able to control it more, as he has random tics he does, but they're usually like moving his wrist or things that aren't as noticeable. The first time I had actually experienced someone with Tourette's who yelled or made noises was when I was in high school, and I rode a bus, and I kept hearing this loud squeaking noise, and I was so confused where it was coming from. I would look around and was like "who has a squeaker in here?" and finally realized it was a kid at the front of the bus. It drove me crazy for days until I figured it out. I genuinely didn't realize it was a human making those noises. People assume that people with Tourette's has the ability to control the words they use or were thinking of the words that came out, and that's not remotely true.
There was a movie made called "Front of the Class" about a teacher who had tourette's who had a very difficult time finding a job, and so many people turned him down because of his yelling and noises. He finally found a teaching job and ended up being a great teacher.
Then there was activist John Davidson, who yelled a racial slur during Michael B Jordan and Delroy Lindo presenting an award at the BAFTAs, and it was even mentioned prior to the awards that he might yell out offensive words during the awards. People went crazy, swearing he used that exact term on purpose or that his brain thought it. He felt the need to apologize for something he had no control over. I thought it was pretty terrible. I can understand how Michael may have been hurt, but to hold it against him is terrible. People don't understand that this disorder is genuinely out of their control.
Prior to more research into it, these kids had it even harder, as it was seen as misbehavior, and parents thought their kids were out of control. Parents didn't have support for their kids. They were made to feel it was bad parenting. If you haven't seen "Front of the Class," I highly recommend it if you can find it. It was a made-for-TV movie so it may be harder to find.
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@sissy15 (13365)
• United States
2 Jul
@MarieCoyle You're welcome. It was a good movie. I think the T-shirts are a great idea. It lets people know what's going on before they jump to conclusions.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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2 Jul
@sissy15
I agree. People are so quick to judge on behavioral issues. It's not like he can control Tourette's. I think he handles it very well with his T-shirts!
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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2 Jul
There's another movie I will have to look up to watch. Thanks for the recommendation.
Maybe the shirts are not such a bad idea. Some people just automatically judge first...and in cases like Tourette's, it would explain a lot.
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@snowy22315 (212007)
• United States
29 Jun
I haven't watched it, but one of the cable channels features a young woman who has Tourettes. I think it might be a similar type to John. The name of the show is Braylen Out Loud. It's probably on TLC. They seem to have a lot of those kinds of shows.
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@celticeagle (192174)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Jun
He sounds like an interesting and caring person. I so agree with what Arunima says below.
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@celticeagle (192174)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Jun
@MarieCoyle ........It sounds like it. Nice to have good people in the community.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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30 Jun
He is very kind and interesting, a very good person. Thank you. '
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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1 Jul
@celticeagle
He has been through so much rejection and ridicule over the years from people judging him by his Tourette's. I think it's admirable that he wants to give back to others.
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@LadyDuck (507139)
• Italy
30 Jun
@MarieCoyle People are all the time ready to judge before knowing the reasons why people behave in a certain manner.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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30 Jun
He said if he wears one of his T-shirts, his day just goes better. I imagine he gets tired of explaining and tired of being judged by so many.
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@LadyDuck (507139)
• Italy
2 Jul
@MarieCoyle - I know, people love to judge the others, they should look at themselves.
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@rakski (158772)
• Philippines
30 Jun
@MarieCoyle
good to know that he has a big heart. I hoope people look after him as well
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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1 Jul
@rakski
I do know the people of the one church he helps out with really try to include him in everything possible.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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30 Jun
He has certainly been a huge help to the two food pantries he helps with. He's a big strong fellow, always helps unload things and load cars, etc.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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29 Jun
Luckily, John is not a person who does the swearing with his outbursts. But I know that I have read those who do that are not able to control it.
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@AliCanary (4840)
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29 Jun
I think it's a good idea that he is being proactive. A lot of people with Tourette's blurt obscenities or other inappropriate things. People need to understand that it is very much against their will. I have read that the harder they try not to, the more likely it will happen, so the best thing to do is try to stay as chill as possible about it.
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@MarieCoyle (61331)
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1 Jul
I know a lot of people with Tourette's do scream out obscenities. Luckily, he isn't one of them. He just yells and makes yelling noises.
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