His T-shirts tell a story.

@MarieCoyle (59826)
June 28, 2026 2:41pm CST
We have a local fellow here who has a form of Tourette's syndrome. It's bad...and he knows it. The locals claim that it was so bad when he was younger, that he refused to go to school, or interact with people. He lived with his parents, but after their passing, he was on his own. His mind works fine as far as doing daily functions. He appears to have a kind heart, and tries to help who he can, when he can. He helps a lot at a large local church that we have attended. John wears T-shirts, every day. He has quite a wardrobe of them. Every single one of them says, in very large letters, something like this--''I'm John, I'm LOUD, and I yell a lot!'' He has a few that have more writing on the back, in smaller letters, that suggest the reader should learn about Tourette's syndrome. He has a rather rare form of it. The form of Tourette's John has is very hard to get used to--he yells in uncontrollable spurts; he cannot help it or control it. He might be having a conversation with you and all of a sudden, the loudest noise you have ever heard a man make will come out of his mouth. I can definitely understand why he wears his shirts. He says he wants to warn people that he cannot help it, he doesn't want to stay home by himself, he wants to be out and about. He volunteers at the Salvation Army and several food banks. He does a lot of work for others. His Tourette's is very rare. He doesn't have body ''tics'' or involuntary movements, just the speech/loudness that's uncontrollable. Yes, he takes some medications for it that he says does help, he has less loud outbursts, but still...if you have never heard him have one and suddenly you do, it is startling. Yet another reason for us to try not to judge a book by its cover...there could be a stellar, loving and giving human behind the picture you see. He is one of the best humans ever. I am adding a link to the description of Tourette's if you are not familiar with it. Usually, it strikes people in the form of jerky movements, facial tics, etc. With John, it took a different path. I like to think that he is on the path he is supposed to be on, making the best of his situation.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tourette_syndrome
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@arunima25 (93196)
• Bangalore, India
5h
I am a special educator and a counselor who works with families with special needs children or young adults. And one thing, I have learnt in my two decades of work is that Human beings are beyond their labels and diagnosis. We should never judge or undermine anyone.
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
Unfortunately, some people do judge people they don’t consider to be normal, and it’s very sad. People who do the amount of good that John does are to be treasured. He has a kind and loving heart. Thank you!
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@GardenGerty (169744)
• United States
3h
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@JudyEv (383483)
• Rockingham, Australia
19m
I haven't seen you here for a while. I hope all is well with you and your family.
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@GardenGerty (169744)
• United States
3h
The shirts are a good idea, I think. He does not have the form of Tourette's where he speaks with lots of profanity blurting at random times, does he? I would possibly have a hard time with that.
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
No, he doesn’t. I have met one or two of those people so I know what you’re talking about. What he does say is always kind.
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@AmbiePam (121826)
• United States
4h
Bless his heart. I can’t imagine the burden he so humorously bears. I’m glad he doesn’t let anything get in the way of living his life.
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
He told a friend of mine he needed to be around people who understood that he just can’t help it. There is no cure for Tourette’s. He gives back to the community and to others. He’s been through a lot of rejections in his life, no wonder he seeks out acceptance.
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@wolfgirl569 (136575)
• Marion, Ohio
3h
That's a great way to let people know. It would be hard to deal with
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
I admire him for not giving up. He has a wonderful heart.
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• United States
4h
That’s a tough situation to live with
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
I agree, it would be very hard to deal with.
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@Wrexxo (2712)
4h
I have never hear of Tourette's syndrome before. It must be so hard for him..he sure found a way to live with it and wearing a shirt to warn people is really creative. . He sounds like a very good person
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
2h
As I was writing this discussion, I realized there were no doubt people here on mylot who had never heard of Tourette's, so I included the wiki explanation of it just in case. I have to admire John, making the most of a bad situation he can't control. Many people can learn a lot from people like John. Thanks!
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@Juliaacv (56507)
• Canada
5h
It is never fair to judge someone by what you see. I watched the show Soul on Fire last week and it is a good reminder of this as well. He is a very smart man to try to 'warn' people with his shirts, it hopefully makes him more approacheable.
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
3h
I admire him for sticking up for himself. He told me the shirts do help a lot.
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@JudyEv (383483)
• Rockingham, Australia
22m
I don't know anyone with this but have seen films and documentaries about it. It's very hard on a person. Some swear a lot and again, they can't help it or do anything about it.
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@MarieCoyle (59826)
Just now
Luckily, John is not a person who does the swearing with his outbursts. But I know that I have read those who do that are not able to control it.