Should parents let pre teens wear make up/fake tan/false nails?

@Traceyjayne (13745)
United Kingdom
July 17, 2026 6:46am CST
There is a debate on tv at the moment about children wearing make up and using cleansing products that are made for adult/older skin..... As you know my Granddaughter goes to dance classes and does competions.. She regularly has spray tans and false nails and wears lots of make up when competing..... This concerns me as she is just 10 years old and her nails aren't fully developed and I don't think she should be added chemicals to them as the nails can be damaged. Likewise I think her skin isn't developed enough for fake tan ....I don't really like it for adults either .... Plastering a child's face with make can't be good for the skin .. I worry about the damage being done to a child's body, skin and nails .... Although my Granddaughter does this for competitions, there are many other young children who do this as part of every day life .... Anyway, what do you think ....?
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@snowy22315 (212786)
• United States
17 Jul
I think a kid should be a kid.
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
17 Jul
@snowy I do so agree .... unfortunately her Mom has it all done too ....I worry able the damage to skin and nails but also I do think it looks silly on a young child.
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@rakski (161077)
• Philippines
17 Jul
For competitions, I think simple make up will do. I'm fortunate that my daughter does not like make up. I saw and know some of her classmates that put on makeup even on younger years
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@celticeagle (193620)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jul
Personally, I think 10 is a bit young to be doing any of this. I also think that a girl who is 15 or 16 might be able to do these things. It depends on the cost and if they get an allowance. It could be good for teaching them how to spend their money.
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@celticeagle (193620)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jul
@Traceyjayne ........sounds like fun for the kid.
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul
@celticeagle too much fun.....I wish she was learning more about the value of money
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul
Her Mom pays for it... Her Mom is no good with money.
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@LadyDuck (509387)
• Italy
17 Jul
And you are right, I have heard many doctors warning those young girls about using chemicals on their nails and their skin. I hope your granddaughter does not apply those products too often.
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
17 Jul
@LadyDuck ...it's a constant thing. I think it's too much ....even when not in competitions she has it done as her Mom does.
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@LadyDuck (509387)
• Italy
17 Jul
@Traceyjayne - NO, that is really bad, she is still a kid and she must stay a kid.
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@Fleura (36186)
• United Kingdom
17 Jul
Occasionally is fine, it shouldn't be a regular thing though. And some products are not suitable for sensitive young skin as you say - specifically those containing retinol.
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22 Jul
Leave the choice to them after letting them know about the pros and cons of fake glamour.
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
22 Jul
@mytunemagic unfortunately they don't want to hear of the pros and cons ....
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@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
26 Jul
@mytunemagic they know them ….just don’t want to hear ….
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26 Jul
@Traceyjayne then show them.
@DaddyEvil (178250)
• United States
18 Jul
I bought Pretty makeup when she was 13 and asked for some. I made sure it was made for the skin of a teenager and was oil-free and non-comedogenic. She rarely wears makeup or perfumes although I bought her good perfumes when she was a teenager, too. I didn't buy her fake nails until she asked for some just before she went to college.
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@DaddyEvil (178250)
• United States
18 Jul
@Traceyjayne Thank you.
@Traceyjayne (13745)
• United Kingdom
18 Jul
I would say those ages were about right. Good parent x
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@JudyEv (388118)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jul
I guess if they want to compete they have to keep up with the others but I don't think it's a good thing.