Two steps forward, one step back.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (62857)
July 18, 2026 1:54pm CST
Or so we think.
Son decided on a nap yesterday afternoon, normal for him. After about half an hour, he came in the kitchen holding a towel to his eye, which was bleeding. It seemed like a lot of blood to me, and of course it did to him. He said it really didn't hurt, that he dozed off and woke up with his eye sort of aching...but said it wasn't that painful. Got him cleaned up and it was still seeping, so I called the teledoc thing...and they said to get him to the ER. I didn't want to drive him there this time, I was afraid he might get worse and I would be stuck driving and not be able to safely stop, so we called the paramedics. They packed him off, and then I headed for the ER, too.
Since he has a blood disorder, along with some other issues, they were worried about a stroke, but that wasn't the problem. He's never had a stroke. It ended up that an eye specialist showed up and then a vascular doc, they rolled him away and used a laser to seal up the bleed. I was scared but I kept my cool and so did he. Afterwards, they said he had to stay in the ER at least for the night, it was crazy busy in there. They put him in a little ER room; he wanted me to go home but I stayed. It's not like I would have slept if I went home, anyway. He slept on and off and I snoozed in a chair when he snoozed. I was happy to have a nice snooze chair.
It ended up that they let him come home this morning. They said it seems fine now, yay! We will go back to an appointment on Monday. If it happens again, he is to get back to the hospital. They are not sure of the cause of the eye hemorrhage but think it might be at least partly blamed on medication(s) for some reason and are reviewing them. Anyway, he can still see fine and he isn't in pain--he says his eye just feels tired if that makes any sense.
We both had a long nap. His eye looks a lot better, he can see just fine. It was just scary. The two docs seemed convinced it was triggered by a medication, so they are checking things out Monday.
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@crossbones27 (53855)
• Mojave, California
18 Jul
Sounds scary. I just did a quick search anything with vitamin k Spinach may help so he does not bleed like that anymore.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
He has never had anything like this happen before. He is on extra vitamins, and I strive to feed him as healthy as I possibly can. Thanks so much.
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@crossbones27 (53855)
• Mojave, California
18 Jul
@MarieCoyle All you can do, do not over overcompensate. Meaning what I do to myself sometimes when a problem arises, you start over taking things and it leads to other problems I hope that makes sense.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
@crossbones27
In this wellness journey, we just take one thing at a time. I am just thankful we went and it was fixable!
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@Juliaacv (57419)
• Canada
18 Jul
You did the right thing sending him by ambulance and staying at his side while he was in Emerg.
I am sending positive vibes and prayers for the any news that may come about on Monday at the appointment.
I would assume that they performed a brain scan at the very least while he was there. That will tell them alot.
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@GardenGerty (170568)
• United States
19 Jul
@MarieCoyle He proved his brain was working by going to the ER.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
Yes, they did. The doc told him no damage was done and son joked that he was glad his brain was still working! Thank you, Julia, for your positive vibes and prayers!
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@Juliaacv (57419)
• Canada
19 Jul
@GardenGerty and @MarieCoyle What I meant was that some issues can present as one thing, but actually be another. I was always throwing up before they looked into my eye and found a brain tumour, nothing to do with my tummy. 

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@GardenGerty (170568)
• United States
19 Jul
I can see it happening if he is taking any kind of a blood thinner. I hope they do a good job figuring it out. You guys cannot seem to catch a break.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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20 Jul
I am going to get some velcro mittens so I can catch that break! Thanks, Heather.
@snowy22315 (212786)
• United States
18 Jul
That would freak anybody out. I am glad he is OK, I guess it could be a side effect of one of the medications or maybe taking it a long with something else caused it.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
I am sure we will find out Monday when we go back. It was a relief to hear they really think it's a med thing. Thanks, Snowy.
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@wolfgirl569 (140401)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Jul
That would be scary. Glad they were able to stop it easily and I hope it doesn't happen again. 

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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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20 Jul
We had to go back on Saturday...but Sunday was better. Thanks so much.
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@sallypup (69838)
• Centralia, Washington
18 Jul
@MarieCoyle I hope you have an easier ER than mine. As a general rule, a person sits waiting for help in the ER about 5 hours and probably more.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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20 Jul
@sallypup
It's a big ER and always busy. They always take heart/stroke patients and extreme emergencies first. The entry lady zipped him on through so we didn't wait long. I think the blood scared her!
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
Thanks, Lenore. He never wants to go to the ER, of course--but after seeing all that blood, he realized we had to go.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
I told him, that's enough excitement for a long time! Thanks, Amber. 

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@sissy15 (13435)
• United States
20 Jul
It's always scary when the people you love are going through something. I am glad that so far it seems to be something they can take care of with a medication fix. I'll be praying that it stays that way for you. Life gets hard sometimes, and it's a struggle when someone you love has a lot of health problems.
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@sissy15 (13435)
• United States
21 Jul
@MarieCoyle It's great that you have each other. That is what family is for. If you're fortunate, your family will step up to the plate, and it looks like yours does just that.
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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27 Jul
@sissy15
I know that it would inconvenience them to have to care for me, and I hope they never have to. But it's nice to know they will if it's needed. I know I am completely blessed to have wonderful children. Thanks.
@MarieCoyle (62857)
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21 Jul
Yes, it is hard for me to see one of my children struggle with health issues. I know it is hard for everyone who has to go through similar things like this. I also am more than sure that if it were me needing help, he or his brother or sisters would step up and help me, as well. I know we are all so fortunate to have each other. Thank you.
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@RasmaSandra (100809)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Jul
WOW I sure hope he gets much better, and I will put him in my prayers. Blessings to you both,
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@MarieCoyle (62857)
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18 Jul
I joked with him at the ER and said ''Did you think we were bored and needed excitement?'' He thought that was funny, I thought it was a lame Mom joke! Thanks, @NJChicaa
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