What's Her Name?

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@DaddyEvil (179044)
United States
August 16, 2026 9:02pm CST
Something almost funny happened a little while ago. (Pretty thought is was funny, even if I didn't/couldn't laugh about it.) I finished making turkey tetrazzini for our supper tonight but when I tried to tell her it was done, I couldn't remember Pretty's real name. I finally resorted to just saying "Hey, you! Are you ready to eat yet?" She came into the kitchen giggling and asked why I'd called her like that and then giggled more when I explained that I couldn't remember her name... She asked me questions like where we lived and my phone number (which I couldn't remember either) so eh could write that in the notes she's keeping for the neurologist...
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@AmbiePam (131256)
• United States
17 Aug
They should be strung up for how long they’ve put you off. Please don’t hesitate to call an ambulance if things get out of control. I just want someone to act on something to help you.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Thank you. I know they're getting to me as quickly as they can. Other people are worse off than me, though.
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@kareng (83470)
• United States
17 Aug
That is good that she is keeping notes. I hope things get better for you.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Thank you. My hospital stay is getting closer. Only a week left to go.
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@kareng (83470)
• United States
18 Aug
@DaddyEvil Do you know how long you will be there? And of course, there is always the "I don't know factor" due to tests and what is happening. I hope it all goes well for you.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
19 Aug
@kareng I go in the hospital on Monday and am supposed to stay for 5 days. I don't know if that includes the time for the brain surgery or not. As far as I've been told, that's just the amount of time for them to siphon off some spinal fluid and see if that helps. If I have to have a shunt installed in my skull, then it may take longer. The neurologist is supposed to start a trial lumbar drain that lasts three to five days. If my walking (no stutter stepping, nor falling and no dizziness and I stop forgetting things) then they'll proceed with the shunt and tubing to drain the fluid into my abdomen so the fluid is reabsorbed naturally. I'll take my phone and charger to the hospital with me so I can keep in contact with some friends here on myLot while I'm in the hospital and I've downloaded 20 new ebooks to read, as long as I can still see.
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@Nawsheen (29002)
• Mauritius
17 Aug
That must have been an unsettling moment, especially when your phone number wouldn’t come to you either. Keeping a record of these moments sounds useful, as small details can easily be forgotten later. I hope you were able to settle down and enjoy your supper afterwards. How did the turkey tetrazzini turn out?
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Forgetting basic facts made me feel stupid, honestly. The turkey tetrazzini turned out delicious, thanks. I don't make it very often, so it was a nice treat!
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@LadyDuck (504625)
• Italy
17 Aug
I understand why it was not something that made you laugh. She is doing a good job taking notes for the neurologist. I think that it's the medications that cause you this problem.
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@LadyDuck (504625)
• Italy
18 Aug
@DaddyEvil - This is very possible, I am sure you will feel better after the treatment next week.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
I think it's the build-up of fluid in my head that is causing problems. I'm glad the doctor will do something about that this next week.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
@LadyDuck I really hope so. Thank you.
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@JudyEv (389873)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Aug
That's a bit scary in a way but it's good Pretty is taking notes. You'll be pleased when that appointment comes around.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Yes, I will. It's coming up next week.
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@Wrexxo (9768)
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17 Aug
she did the right thing by taking down notes for the neurologist. She wants the best for you and she notices everything. .. nothing like family
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@GardenGerty (170774)
• United States
17 Aug
Well you coped well and at least you can laugh.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Thanks. I didn't really have a choice.
@rsa101 (42099)
• Philippines
17 Aug
I guess there are those awkward moments when, as we age, our memory starts to falter. I hope it doesn’t happen often, because if it did, it wouldn’t be funny anymore. These days, I sometimes remember faces but need a moment to recall their names. I’m not too worried yet, since it happens rarely for now. Still, there are times I worry about my forgetfulness, but I know it’s just part of the aging process we all go through.
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@Juliaacv (57780)
• Canada
17 Aug
That is frightening. It would be a smart move if she took over the cooking for now, just for safety sake.
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@Juliaacv (57780)
• Canada
18 Aug
@DaddyEvil I hope that she can be with you then when you cook. I never enjoyed cooking, but developed an enjoyment of it out of necessity.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
@Juliaacv She's usually in her bedroom while I'm cooking and can't hear me calling from the kitchen. I LIKE to cook but do wish I didn't have to do it every day. When I still worked, we'd go out to eat once a week or so. Now that she's the one paying bills, she doesn't want to "waste" money going out to eat when I can cook at home.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
She won't do that. She hates to cook.
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@wolfgirl569 (141519)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Aug
Glad she is keeping notes for them.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Me, too! I always forget things that happen before I see the doctor again.
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@RasmaSandra (101539)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Aug
Good for Pretty, keeping notes. Just in case of anything, I always repeat to myself my full name and where I am and what I need to do. Virtual hugs and keep fighting the good fight
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Thank you. I need to write myself a note in my phone with pertinent information, in case I forget again.
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@Traceyjayne (14641)
• United Kingdom
17 Aug
Pretty is so right to be taking notes and passing on this info……THEY need to act on it , they have left you waiting for long enough ….
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@Shiva49 (28768)
• Singapore
17 Aug
I tend to forget more as the years roll by but not of those I am regular with including persons and places. I have seen it can be a sudden development too. Yes, better to get expert help. .
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@aninditasen (18426)
• Raurkela, India
17 Aug
I think you should see a doctor. This isn't normal.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
I have an appointment to see the doctor next week. I agree, this isn't normal.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
@aninditasen Thank you.
@aninditasen (18426)
• Raurkela, India
18 Aug
@DaddyEvil That's nice. Hope everything is fine once again.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54672)
• United States
18 Aug
Hopefully the neurologist can figure things out. I am glad that Pretty is with you and keeps notes.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
I really hope so, too. Thank you.
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@rakski (162924)
• Philippines
19 Aug
It is good Pretty is keeping notes.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
19 Aug
Yes, it is..
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
20 Aug
@rakski I hope so.
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@rakski (162924)
• Philippines
19 Aug
@DaddyEvil she is good in doing that
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@TheHorse (240640)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Aug
I hope they can figure out what's going on.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
21 Aug
Thanks.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
21 Aug
@TheHorse I'm not planning to take my laptop and that's the only way I connect on myLot. A few people have offered me their phone numbers so I can text them while I'm away from the house. They could let you know what's happening, if they want to do that. I've given you my phone number years ago.
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@TheHorse (240640)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Aug
@DaddyEvil Willy ou be able to keep us posted?
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@JESSY3236 (22547)
• United States
18 Aug
My mother once forgot my name. Her friend was saying about me, and my mother said who is that?
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
19 Aug
I'm not that old. It scared me.
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@lovebuglena (51266)
• Staten Island, New York
22 Aug
What’s turkey tetrazzini? I hope you forgetting is nothing serious.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
22 Aug
It's diced smoked turkey with veggies, cheese and pasta with a crunchy topping on it. Hopefully, the hospital stay this next week will take care of the problems. Thank you.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
23 Aug
@lovebuglena It is really good. It's just a pain in the tush to make so I don't make it very often.
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@lovebuglena (51266)
• Staten Island, New York
22 Aug
@DaddyEvil sounds yummy. Fingers crossed all goes well.
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@Kandae11 (57151)
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18 Aug
That can be scary. Hope the neurologist can do something about it.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
Thank you. I hope so, too. What have you been doing lately? It seems like a long time since I've talked with you on myLot.
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@DaddyEvil (179044)
• United States
18 Aug
@Kandae11 Okay. If there's anything I can do to help, let me know.
@Kandae11 (57151)
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18 Aug
@DaddyEvil l know. I am facing a few challenges, but l will be okay - hopefully soon.
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