We are staying positive and moving forward

@MarieCoyle (64312)
September 5, 2026 12:37pm CST
I haven't posted a discussion in a few days. Too busy to think about it, and way too stressed. I had some messages so I thought I would just make a discussion to state what yesterday was about. Some of you may recall that for some reason we could not pinpoint the cause of my son's eye problem. His eye has been having random and frequent hemorrhages, and it sounds strange, but when it happens it's a shocking amount of blood. (Sorry for the description if it upsets you, there is no other way to put it.) This started about 6 weeks ago. In that time, we have been to his primary care provider, a regular eye doctor, and two local eye specialists. No one had any answers, even though tests, etc. were extensively done. There is an eye specialist in another city that is one of very few that has advanced degrees in working with severe eye issues, so we were referred to him. This was yesterday. Up early, I drove the 110 miles or so in fun Labor Day weekend traffic, and the appointment. It was surreal--that's the only way I can describe it. This doctor cleared his entire afternoon and evening for my son. He did more scans, X-rays, tests, you name it. It was discovered that my son has a tumor that involves several large blood vessels. The tumor appears to be attached to the side of his eye by his tear duct, and it also is partly attached to the tear duct. Obviously, the eye is very inflamed. It bleeds daily with no warning, and it is not a small amount of blood. He was given some strong IV antibiotics. Surgery will be scheduled for this as soon as some of the inflammation is down, etc. and of course we will do everything we can to get him over this. Doctors have no reason for why this happened, as it is extremely rare. (Son made the comment that if it's rare, lately whatever it is shows up around here somewhere!) Yes, we have been told it could be cancerous, but also that it could be benign. They do not anticipate that he will lose his eye, but it won't be an easy surgery. It was a very long day. He was in there for hours, then we had what would normally be an easy drive via interstate and such to get home. Usually just about an hour and a half...it took a lot longer, due to Labor Day weekend traffic. It felt good to be home again. Yes, I post about my son a lot. He had been doing better, and things were starting to look up for him. We are going to treat this as a setback and remain positive. We WILL get through this, through faith, love, and modern medicine.
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@TheHorse (240698)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Sep
I hope the surgery goes well.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
Thank you, we have a lot of faith that it will.
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@TheHorse (240698)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Sep
@MarieCoyle Keep us posted.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
@TheHorse I just hope they are able to do it very soon. Thanks so much.
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@wolfgirl569 (141613)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Sep
I so hope surgery goes smoothly and it's benign. You have both been through so much. Very glad this doctor took the time to find the reason.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
We are already so thankful for this doctor taking so much time to research his case and find the source. I'm not concerned about what I have been through with the exception of needing to hold up for him and the family...but I want him to be well. We were moving forward and now this. But he is determined to beat it. Thanks so much.
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@wolfgirl569 (141613)
• Marion, Ohio
6 Sep
@MarieCoyle This doctor was well worth the drive.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
@wolfgirl569 Yes, I think so, too. We are very hopeful, thank you, Eva.
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@snowy22315 (213962)
• United States
5 Sep
I hope son is grateful to have a mom like you. However, if our kids really need us, most of us are there in a heartbeat.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
Before all of this, before his accident and illness, my son was always there for me, Snowy. If I was sick, if I needed help with something, etc. he was there. We lived about 40 miles apart at the time, but he made a point to see me at least once a week. He is a very caring person and I know how fortunate I am that my kids are so special. He is very appreciative.
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@Juliaacv (57695)
• Canada
5 Sep
Thank goodness that you have sought out another doctor for this. I pray that he has a successful operation, and that he heals well and can get off of this roller-coaster health ride. He deserves some stability in his health, and maybe that follows. Good luck and keep us posted please.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
I appreciate your kind words so much, Julia. Thanks so much for that. I will update when we know more, which will hopefully be soon.
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@rakski (163051)
• Philippines
6 Sep
One thing better that comes from this is that you know now what is causing that hemorrhaging. I will include you and your son in my prayers. You will get through this.
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@rakski (163051)
• Philippines
6 Sep
@MarieCoyle It will be done successfully!! Let us claim it!
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
Yes, now we know so something can be done to repair it. We are thankful for that. We are determined to get him through this successfully, thanks so much!
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
@rakski We are praying that it all goes well. Thank you SO much!
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@Wrexxo (9929)
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5 Sep
that is so much to carry in one day, and driving all that way home after must have been so hard. glad you finally found a doctor who's taking it serious and giving you real answers, even if its scary news. sending you and your son alot of strength, ya'll will get through this together.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
@Wrexxo Yes, we will. We don’t give up. Thank you so much.
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@AmbiePam (131413)
• United States
5 Sep
I keep thinking back to the fact that we serve a mighty God. You know I have been praying to Him about you and your son for a very long time. I will continue to do so, and I am just so glad you finally know the cause.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
Amber, we are very hopeful. And you know how much we appreciate you and your prayers, always.
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@celticeagle (195135)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Sep
You two sure have been put to the test. Gone through so much. It is good that you can remain positive. Yes, modern medicine is so wonderful. I hope that all goes well.
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@celticeagle (195135)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Sep
@MarieCoyle .......I'll be sending some positive vibes your way.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
We are going to stay positive and hope and pray for a good outcome. Thanks so much.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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10 Sep
@celticeagle Thanks so much.
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@rebelann (118895)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Sep
I've put you both in my prayers
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
It means so much. Thank you!
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@RasmaSandra (101614)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Sep
Putting him in my prayers and hope the surgery will correct the problem and al will be well, I know the Lord will watch over him and blessings to you both,
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
Thank you so much, Rasma.
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@Deepizzaguy (126073)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
5 Sep
Being positive that adversity by having faith in God is the right way to keep moving forward.
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@Deepizzaguy (126073)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
6 Sep
@MarieCoyle You are welcome.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
@Deepizzaguy I truly appreciate your positivity, George. You're a good guy.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
We carry that faith in ourselves here, and we are as positive as we can be, we have no choice but to make every effort to beat this. Thank you, George.
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@NJChicaa (128187)
• United States
5 Sep
You are both tough cookies!
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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5 Sep
I've never been wimpy...and I raised strong kids. We WILL beat this. Thanks so much!
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@MoonMaa (836)
• United States
6 Sep
Wishing your son a successful surgery and a quick recovery.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
That would be so wonderful, and we hope so, too. Thanks so much.
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@nawala123 (24557)
• Indonesia
6 Sep
life must go on. wish all the best for you
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@nawala123 (24557)
• Indonesia
7 Sep
@MarieCoyle hopefully it goes well
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
Thank you for your good wishes.
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@BarBaraPrz (52187)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
6 Sep
I forget, how old is your son? (And, vis a vis his comment, is anyone investigating the preponderous occurrence of "rare" things showing up there?) Having recently undergone cataract surgery, I know some of what's involve in eye surgery... a freezing gel squirted at the eyeball, then a clamp attached to keep it still.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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11 Sep
He has several specialists that have questioned the rarity of things. Many of his surgeries, and conditions, are results from the bad accident he was in, but not this eye issue. I know someday my cataracts will be needing surgery, but the doctor says not yet. I hate having anyone mess with my eyes.
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@May2k8 (20180)
• Indonesia
6 Sep
I hope the surgery goes smoothly and there are no issues down the line.
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@May2k8 (20180)
• Indonesia
7 Sep
You are welcome! @MarieCoyle
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
Thank you so much!
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@LadyDuck (504754)
• Italy
6 Sep
I remember very well when you posted about your son's eyes problem. I am so glad that this doctor took the necessary time to do all tests needed and now you know exactly what the problem is. I hope the surgery will be smooth and goes well. One less thing to be concerned about.
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@LadyDuck (504754)
• Italy
8 Sep
@MarieCoyle I hope that soon his dream may come true.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
Anna, I really hope it goes the way we hope it will. He wants to get better and have a life, and I want him to have a future, too. Thank you so much!
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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8 Sep
@LadyDuck He wants to work again, have a life, and get well. He is a good man, he deserves that. Thank you, Anna.
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@Shiva49 (28789)
• Singapore
6 Sep
In a way it is good that a proper diagnosis is done and a solution to get it over with. I do hope it is successfully treated soon. Not an easy time for you.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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7 Sep
No, it's not easy for me but it's really not easy for my son. He just wants it fixed and he wants it done as soon as possible, not that I blame him at all. Thank you for your good wishes for him.
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@eLdav1s (1057)
• Nigeria
6 Sep
I pray everything goes well, and you recover fast.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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10 Sep
@eLdav1s Thanks so much. I just wanted to clarify that it was him that was ill, not me.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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6 Sep
I am not sure what you mean here...it's my son who has the eye problem and must have surgery, not me. I will take your well wishes for him, thank you so much.
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@eLdav1s (1057)
• Nigeria
10 Sep
@MarieCoyle Yes i ment that for your son, not you directly.
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@Ayen03 (34)
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8 Sep
Sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts for your son. I hope the surgery goes well and he feels better soon.
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@MarieCoyle (64312)
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9 Sep
We hope that it does, too. Thank you so, so much.