raj_74

@raj_74 (48)

India • Age 50

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morning walk...

amitraj @amitraj (35) • India 4 Feb 07

is morning walk a very gud exercise.....? u do it regularly or not..?

exercise

health

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raj_74 morning walk is best. infact it is the best cure for many unknown diseases and pains. the fresh that u happen to breath in morning walks boosts up your spirits. wth morning walk entire body parts and energy gets rejunevated. infact there are several and...

5 Feb 07

glass of water

dradelelassy @dradelelassy (1208) • United States 4 Feb 07

do you drink glass of water on empty stomach in the morning? if not do it coz so healthy for you stomach and digestion

health

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raj_74 i have been listening to advice to drink water on an empty stomach but for some reason i have neglected it. but after reading to sso many posts i think it is high time i too start drinking water on an empty stomach. though water is my favourite drink, i...

5 Feb 07

Are friends more important than family ?

simpleatif @simpleatif (2508) • China 4 Feb 07

Are friends more important than family ? what do you think?

people

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raj_74 well for all reasons i am of the view of blindedfox. its true that the circumstances and situations that one grows in decides the liking. myself for example have lived major part of my life in hostel and have grown strong inclinations towards friends. it is...

5 Feb 07

What would you do if you found your partner in bed with someone else?

hopefoo @hopefoo (1145) • Malaysia 4 Feb 07

A friend of mine just called. She's on her way over to my house now so I guess this is the last post for me. She just got home from work (she works in a bar) and found her husband of 2 months in bed with another woman. She turned...

relationships

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raj_74 oh god this is bad. in today's fast world there are no moral checks on partners but definitely there is a moral check on husbands and wives. she should be in a mental shock and worry. as this time she needs good advicer and good friend on whose shoulders she...

5 Feb 07

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Is this Domestic Abuse? Please help me decide

slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

is this abuse of some kind spousel abuse you tel

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raj_74 putting aside wht sort of an abuse it is. i think basically she needs an ally to open up. there is a possibility that even if u start it up she may feel offended. our purpose should be foremost to safeguard her health and be strong woman to make herself think...

5 Feb 07

Would You Marry someone OLDER then You?

abhax123 @abhax123 (1695) • India 27 Jan 07

One of my friend is in love with a girl who is five year older then him. They both love each other too much and have told there family that they are going to get married. The girls family has no objection but my friends family is...

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raj_74 in daily life in every activity especially at office we work and cope with peopl who are elder to us at age. it may sound absurd. but when half a day we can cope with unknown elders definitely there is nothing wrong in a life partner being elder. age is for...

5 Feb 07

Should HIV testing be made compulsory before marriage?

vinaykiran28 @vinaykiran28 (5149) • India 27 Jan 07

Should HIV testing be made compulsory before marriage?coomment on this.........

testing

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raj_74 foremost all marriages have to be compulsorily registered and for marriage registration hiv test have to be done. there is nothing to shy away from it. it is important to remember that there is no cure for it.it is possible that for any person to get infected...

5 Feb 07

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Money is every thing in Life...without money life is wasted...what do you say ?

rajikoshy @rajikoshy (741) • India 4 Feb 07

i never believe in money but recently i have been observing life very carefully, with different people, different culture etc. i find life without money is useless without money a person can not treat him or his dipendands from...

life

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raj_74 to be guarded in my response i have seen life with money and without money. of both i prefer life with money.in today's world money has become the centre of everything. once we get up from bed we think and do each and everything with and for money only. it is...

5 Feb 07

What is the definition of a parent?

jhrcsr @jhrcsr (348) • United States 4 Feb 07

Let me preface this post by telling you why I am asking this question. I was raised by my grandparents. They took me in at the age of 6 weeks and raised me until I got married and went out on my own. They did not sign adoption...

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raj_74 oh u have asked a difficult question. it sounds easy and i very much want to answer it. but i know i cannot find enough descriptive words to exlain it. buy i am sure of one thing parental love and care is unsurpassable and uncomparable. anyone may let go of...

5 Feb 07

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are u scared of death !!!!!!!!

seb2thebest @seb2thebest (52) • India 5 Feb 07

Often i find myself wondering how i'll die..will it be painful or peaceful??? i keep wondering bout it ... do u often encounter similar thoughts like these..r u scared of the thought of death n afterlife....

afterlife

death

thoughts

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raj_74 i am not scared of death but yes i may i have to think of the way i meet it.. i would rather not prefer a prolonged illness or painful death. i donot want to be a burden to myself or others. otherwise as such death is welcome anytime. as such u donot know...

5 Feb 07

Another death question...

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 4 Feb 07

If someone very close to you was dying... and you knew the only way they were staying alive was by life support, would you pull the plug and let them go? Or would you keep up the fight for them? When is the line drawn? I mean...

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raj_74 medical solution is not the end all. there have been instances where doctors have raised their hands but still god has willed otherwise. though there is no perfect reply to your post. i would still say hope is the deciding factor. there is nothing wrong in...

5 Feb 07

Why stop at murdering birds carrying killer diseases, why not people?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 4 Feb 07

I am shocked that so many turkeys have been killed because of the spread of bird flu. Instead of giving them a vaccine and keeping them alive they are just needlessly killing them. It is terrible to think that they are in such...

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raj_74 this is a world of humans. humans rule everything. bird(especially turkey) is man made or is such a thing whose population can be increased as and when required. as humans are the main dominating race on the surface of the earth, it is felt that ,,,that...

5 Feb 07

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Is a driver's license really necessary?

TereFaerie @TereFaerie (386) • United States 4 Feb 07

I am in my late 20s, but I still don't have a driver's license. Everyone says that I need to get it before I get too old or I'll be afraid to drive. But I'm already afraid to drive, especially the way people in this city drive....

cars

drivers license

driving

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raj_74 better late than never. to depend on public transport is good but u go where it goes. today's world is not same as tomorrow. u may not know wht need arises tomorrow. at times u cannot stand waiting for the transport to arrive. the sooner u driver driving...

5 Feb 07

Save or spend? Which do you do?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 4 Feb 07

Ok - I admit it! I am a "shopaholic". If I have money in my pocket I find it burns a hole in it, and I find it very hard to save money, if I can spend it instead!!! I know I ought to be more careful, and "save for a rainy day",...

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raj_74 i spend wht i have and of late i have realised that one needs to be more intelligent to spend rather than to earn. saving a dollar today is as good as earning a dollar.

4 Feb 07

how does human brain change when situations change

raj_74 @raj_74 (48) • India 4 Feb 07

i had a friend she was blind. she hated herself,just because she was blind.she hated everyone except her lover.she always said "if i could see the world i will marry u". a day came when someone donated a pair of eyes,and she cud...

friendslove

life

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What do YOU do when your car won't start?

cassidy22 @cassidy22 (2974) • United States 2 Feb 07

For environmental reasons, my husband and I share a car. He drives me to work, because it's on the way. He's been home sick this week, so i've had the car. Well, the TEMP outside is SOOOO cold this morning the car wouldn't...

car

work

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raj_74 oh, the very mention of it is a bit scary. if it is in the morning like your situation i would try out the initial check-up that my repairman had suggested . if no result then i would call him and take some oral instructions if possible. still no result, i...

3 Feb 07

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What should be the age difference between lovers or married couples?

shedii @shedii (1486) • India 2 Feb 07

One of my relative (male) who is 71yrs old married an 18yrs old girl. I was quite shocked to hear about this on phone yesterday. I mean a person who is 71yrs old married only 18yrs old girl. I always thought the age difference...

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raj_74 conditions, pre-conditions, rules ,regulations, laws , by-laws.. donot rule love. yes for marriage i would agree with you for some extent. but still in instances such as mentioned by you. i think such marriages are of some purpose. this could sound horrible,...

3 Feb 07